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What is making this guy a chick magnet?

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That beats having no women and analyzing the female attraction code.
Exactly. Even normie-tier guys on here that have rep of getting girls are posting a whole thread that some random girl gave them a complement like @Fortune_favors_the_bold. I believe most people are in his boat. If just one woman reacted, once in a blue moon, like how they behaved around that guy, people would write a whole thread or make a big deal about that because it is.
 

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You act like he got baddies checking him out lol these are normal average woman, but to his credit he got swag! Masculine sex appeal will always get the job done, but it's a rare trait these days. If you don't understand that is very telling. His body looks kind of smushy tbh i wouldnt consider him ripped.
I don't agree theses are normal average women. They are mainly hb 7s or higher. There are the types of women I think most people would say pass the boner-test and would not feel embarassed introducing to mom / dad / friends if things got serious. That makes them nice / girl next door type women.
 

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Exactly. Even normie-tier guys on here that have rep of getting girls are posting a whole thread that some random girl gave them a complement like @Fortune_favors_the_bold. I believe most people are in his boat. If just one woman reacted, once in a blue moon, like how they behaved around that guy, people would write a whole thread or make a big deal about that because it is.
Having an average looking wife or girlfriend beats masturbaring on Friday nights or going on a decades-long, celibate, resourcemaxxing hamster wheel.
 

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You act like he got baddies checking him out lol these are normal average woman, but to his credit he got swag! Masculine sex appeal will always get the job done, but it's a rare trait these days. If you don't understand that is very telling. His body looks kind of smushy tbh i wouldnt consider him ripped.
Women only see muscular, average or fat honestly for the most part.

Men are obsessed with the finer grained details but with women you basically fall into one of those buckets and having abs versus not having abs (unless you have your shirt off at a water park or something) will not boost your attractiveness in her eyes very much.
 

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His body looks kind of smushy tbh i wouldnt consider him ripped.
I’m ripped in my photo here. I have the same smushy composition as him now. Women don’t care about this.
 

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It looks like he's almost getting a male celebrity level of attention. I mean I'd be more curious as to whether he looks like a famous actor in disguise, or if there is something about it that I'm missing as to why he's getting that level of traction?

@Hamurabimbi -- is this how women treat you in public and/or on the job?
On occasion.
 

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Jeez… I wonder what it could be.
lol.

He looks like he just walked off the cover of a Romance Novel.

Is it a bird? Is it a plane?
No, it’s Super-Chad with the massive shlong.

like. Is this a joke post orrr(?)
This is real life fellas.

look at them, looking at him like he’s a hot piece of meat. That’s objectification. He has feelings too.
 
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Short answer? I don't know.

Alternative question; "what DO we know?"

We know that he is recording. Which means (I haven't watched, so I don't know) if the camera or recording device appears more stable and not distorted like a bodycam, you can bet there is at least 1 guy with a camera and possibly 2. What is being recorded? We don't know other than the footage displayed in the released video. Are there obvious 'cuts?'

Lastly, there is something about this in either the TIPS forum or HALL OF EXCELLENCE. I can't remember which one. But basically, you're going out and pulling chicks with a couple wings (usually a shopping center or large gathering) dressed in something fashionable and mildly eccentric. You basically have them obviously record you or just even take pictures or pretend to. The phrases "You don't know who I am???" or "You've never heard of ____?" from one of the wingmen have worked for others.

To be fair, I've never tried this. I've probably seen it done more than a few times and not even known. HECK, they could have actually been real time celebrities and I still had no clue. I've got my own life to live. Heh.
 

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Jeez… I wonder what it could be.
lol.

He looks like he just walked off the cover of a Romance Novel.

Is it a bird? Is it a plane?
No, it’s Super-Chad with the massive shlong.

like. Is this a joke post orrr(?)
This is real life fellas.

look at them, looking at him like he’s a hot piece of meat. That’s objectification. He has feelings too.
Okay, so you think he is a chad 10/10 guy?
 

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I have not seen this in other videos. Normally its ackward cold approaches, that sometimes work, but more often then not, is an awkward moment. If you think it's film then post a link of different guys where that is happening, lol That would be easy to find on youtube if that existed. I already posted my evidence here of this dude.
Come on now...how convenient that someone just happened to film his actions with a professional stabilizer and all that ,while he does these quite extraordinary things like touching ( harassing) strangers.

I have absolutely no clue if and how other dudes do this on YouTube lol.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Okay, so you think he is a chad 10/10 guy?
I’m older. In my days of PUA we termed tall bigger-frame guys ‘Alphas’, and then there is also ‘PrettyBoys’ (smaller, leaner, cuter looking ).

This guy looks like a Male Stripper to me, like a Magic Mike guy.
I don’t really believe in the rating system either tbh.
So is he a 10/10 ‘Chad ‘ ? I have no idea. you’d have to ask the ladies to rate him.

but I’d class him as a Tall, Dark, Handsome, Alpha (big framed) dude,
Wearing tight jeans. And swaggering in his walk like he has a big shlong.

All of these things are attractive to women.
Tall, Dark, Handsome, Big Frame (dominant) Male, …with the associated Big C0ck attached.

That’s how he’s deemed attractive, in a heartbeat,
By women,

Obviously?

As Tall, Dark & Handsome is probably women’s #1 preference,

Again, obviously... Hello?
 

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I have noticed these short videos coming up on my youtube feed. Basically, it is a guy with glasses and a cowboy hat that seems to be a chick magnet everywhere he is walking. Other guys in these videos look invisible and women beam up or look excited when he is in the area. He doesn't look like a sterotypical chad, and I would be curious about what it is about him that is causing stuch a reaction.
1) Would you say it is his body posture or way he is carrying himself in how he is walking?
2) Does he objectively look like a chad / chad-lite or a high tier normie based on how his face and body looks?
3) How much is peacocking contributing to this? (ie he is wearing a cowboy hat and glasses on some of them...but he had a baseball cap in the first video escalator so I don't think that has much to do with that)


@BeExcellent husband, lol
It’s possible he has some gimmick going on also, such as a sign stuck to his back. “Check out my @ass” or some such.
These are quite big reactions he’s getting from some of the women on further inspection.
Just a guess.

but …he is a big powerful looking & handsome dude. He would be desirable for women in general.

It's videos like this which make it seem that cold approaching is totally useless if you are average / below-average and don't have the looks. When you see these women look excited or happy as soon as this guy walks in the room, compared to invisible you struggling to cough up a high or approach someone that looks like you are going to bother them or they might make a tic tok video against you, lol It's like why bother right?
Re this bit - if a guy is struggling to cough up a “hi” etc …He ought not to be cold approaching.

Cold approach is a tough game. A guy needs to be going in with a very confident and very sexy state to make a big first impression. Not a low anxious one,
The woman will pick up his “Vibe” of low confidence immediately.

A guy ought to have enough confidence for two.
Himself and the chick.
 
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@corrector "How much is peacocking contributing to this?"

70%, if not more. Even traditionally/classically handsome men have to be conscientious about their grooming, the clothes they wear, their posture/way they walk, etc etc
you think it’s just the Cowboy Hat and sunnies?
And not the big, tall. handsome, Male stripper-looking guy underneath wearing it , that’s doing all the heavy lifting in this situation?

-confused.
 

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It’s possible he has some gimmick going on also, such as a sign stuck to his back. “Check out my @ass” or some such.
These are quite big reactions he’s getting from some of the women on further inspection.
Just a guess.

but …he is a big powerful looking & handsome dude. He would be desirable for women in general.



Re this bit - if a guy is struggling to cough up a “hi” etc …He ought not to be cold approaching.

Cold approach is a tough game. A guy needs to be going in with a very confident and very sexy state to make a big first impression. Not a low anxious one,
The woman will pick up his “Vibe” of low confidence immediately.

A guy ought to have enough confidence for two.
Himself and the chick.
Correct.

Even if he is pulling silly stunts here for social media, he is an attractive man, and chances are if he’s being this nervy he knows how to talk to people (not just women).

Brutal cope is “women looking at him are just average”. It is true some are average or homely, but their reactions still show this man isn’t invisible (no strategy involved).
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Correct.

Even if he is pulling silly stunts here for social media, he is an attractive man, and chances are if he’s being this nervy he knows how to talk to people (not just women).

Brutal cope is “women looking at him are just average”. It is true some are average or homely, but their reactions still show this man isn’t invisible (no strategy involved).
absolutely.
the average /homely women are just giving the game away wrt their reactions .. as they don’t care.
The hot ones , keep the mask on, as they wanna keep their options open. Wouldnt be good for them to react that way in front of others.

Honestly, it’s like some dudes haven’t seen the movie Magic Mike. Or heard of the phenomenon of male strip shows.
Women paying to see Tall, Handsome, Sexy and very Ripped dudes take their clothes off …and grind their bodies in aggressive ‘fvck-motions’.

While the women chant and get very excited and aroused by it all .

Male strippers have some of the highest body counts. Next to male porn stars.
 
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Correct.

Even if he is pulling silly stunts here for social media, he is an attractive man, and chances are if he’s being this nervy he knows how to talk to people (not just women).

Brutal cope is “women looking at him are just average”. It is true some are average or homely, but their reactions still show this man isn’t invisible (no strategy involved).
“Hey guys I might be alone on Friday nights but at least I don’t have ordinary or chubby women ogling at me.”
 

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you think it’s just the Cowboy Hat and sunnies?
Never so much as implied this was the case. Point is:

Even a handsome man(or, for that matter, a beautiful woman) get received warmly by the rest of us, if they walk around town wearing clothes that are being held together by scotch tape, rocking hair that's uncombed, etc etc. We can label that "peacocking", if we want

@The Duke and others noted that metrosexuality has become a fad once again, and I'd add to that: We've similultaneously been in the midst of a Chode/Manbaby revival
9:00-the end


Not surprisingly then, any man who defies these stereotypes is viewed favorably
 
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Never so much as implied this was the case. Point is:

Even a handsome man(or, for that matter, a beautiful woman) get received warmly by the rest of us, if they walk around town wearing clothes that are being held together by scotch tape, rocking hair that's uncombed, etc etc. We can label that "peacocking", if we want

@The Duke and others noted that metrosexuality has become a fad once again, and I'd add to that: We've similultaneously been in the midst of a Chode/Manbaby revival
9:00-the end


Not surprisingly then, any man who defies these stereotypes is viewed favorably
Im not gonna point out that putting a figure of “70% or more “ is beyond implying something.

but anyway.. moving along.
Re This metrosexuality / soft boy thing becoming a fad.
Fashion fads are driven by the fashion industry.
Which is predominantly run by women and Gay men. So the fads are the preferences of Women.

so if it’s a fad again, that’s what Women want men to dress like atm , I’d say to that . Obviously.

There must be something about it that turns them on. (?)
I would say these trends are more geared towards the teenage / 20s bracket also.

I’m not 100% up to speed on this fashion fad tho :p

(Or 100% correct on everything I say either)
 
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@Cheeky_James "so if it’s a fad again, that’s what Women want men to dress like atm..."

That's may be a factor. An even larger one:

The Soft Boy is "safe", and the last decade has been one in which we've been determined to turn every nook and cranny of our civilization into a so-called "safe space". Subsequently, the "dangerous men" who were all the rage in the late 2000s-about '15 or so fell out of fashion
 
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