What is making this guy a chick magnet?

[corrector]

I have noticed these short videos coming up on my youtube feed. Basically, it is a guy with glasses and a cowboy hat that seems to be a chick magnet everywhere he is walking. Other guys in these videos look invisible and women beam up or look excited when he is in the area. He doesn't look like a sterotypical chad, and I would be curious about what it is about him that is causing stuch a reaction.
1) Would you say it is his body posture or way he is carrying himself in how he is walking?
2) Does he objectively look like a chad / chad-lite or a high tier normie based on how his face and body looks?
3) How much is peacocking contributing to this? (ie he is wearing a cowboy hat and glasses on some of them...but he had a baseball cap in the first video escalator so I don't think that has much to do with that)

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It's videos like this which make it seem that cold approaching is totally useless if you are average / below-average and don't have the looks. When you see these women look excited or happy as soon as this guy walks in the room, compared to invisible you struggling to cough up a high or approach someone that looks like you are going to bother them or they might make a tic tok video against you, lol It's like why bother right? This guy could have no converation skills and be totally autistic...but he is going to get laid or find a gf/wife with little problem, much like @BeExcellent husband, lol

 

[jhonny9546]

He's pretty.. like when you saw a hot woman walking..
Everyone head just turns.

like @BeExcellent husband, lol

never saw him in person

 

[corrector]

He's pretty.. like when you saw a hot woman walking..
Everyone head just turns.

never saw him in person

His face is obscured with glasses. He had a beared and some pics he has a cowboy hat. Honestly, I don't think there is enough information about his face on the videos, just a bearded white guy wearing shades with a baseball hat or cowboy hot.

Does the style (ie hairstyle/barber style, glasses, way he is actually walking, choice of fashion) have anything to do with it since he is projecting a certain masculine look? I would argue he doesn't look like a pretty boy. He looks like he's either bulked / ripped and has broad shoulders like he hauls equipment/logs....a blue colar type of guy (ie not like the Mcdonalds CEO, lol). It goes contrary to the status/money concept. This guy may not have a dime under his name, but it looks like women would be more than happy to help him out.

I think anyone can get good information out of this to improve their looks to fit a certain archetype and go fully into that nitche to get better traction. We can all agree that if you are going to do cold approaching, you have to project yourself in a way that you really give off masculine energy before you open your mouth.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Everything on social media is fake, highly edited, etc.

Any dude could walk around all day knowing he's being filmed and flirt with every girl he sees, and then only show you the interactions that work.

 

[The Duke]

He is fit, has swagger, clothes fit, confident, some what mysterious, cowboy hat, and he doesn't look like half the skinny jean faggots walking around.

 

[characternote]

Everything on social media is fake, highly edited, etc.

This

However, assuming it's not completely fake, I'd say he's got a fairly good looking face. Better than average. Strong jawline etc.

Also, decent build.

 

[corrector]

Everything on social media is fake, highly edited, etc.

Any dude could walk around all day knowing he's being filmed and flirt with every girl he sees, and then only show you the interactions that work.

Even so, those are some extreme reactions. Lets assume your theory is true, it does not really change the narrative as he's not randomly approaching women, spewing out some lines. This is him just going about his business, and if he's interacting, it's a very risky touch situation that guys would not risk doing so it's not exactly something that fits the profile you are painting.

You have guys on here think it's a big deal if a random woman paid them a compliment once in a blue moon, enough to make a thread about it. But to have women throwing themselves at you like that, even if it doesn't happen all the time, is still a big deal.

The fact it's happening period is a big wow.

 

[corrector]

This

However, assuming it's not completely fake, I'd say he's got a fairly good looking face. Better than average. Strong jawline etc.
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Also, decent build.

Would you say that he fits your theoretical assumption of what a chad/chad-lite or someone who has an easy time on dating apps would look like? Would you feel invisible or amogged if he was in the same room of a woman you were interested in?

Here's you, working up the nerve, and courage, and maybe trying to fight anxious thoughts towards approaching a woman you might be interested in, and then the same gal looks super excited to see him, you are just probably going to just forget about the whole thing, lol

This is why people don't like to cold approach. You are normally approaching women who are not interested in you like that and will feel bad, even if you go somewhere, and you see how she behaves around someone she really likes. That is not a nice feeling at all. Some of these women eyeing him out were 3s, 4s and 5s or looked like those entitled women who would not date their looksmatch, etc....

This happened to me in 2024. Had a lukewarm nice/politce rejection form a lady I liked, but still felt maybe there could be something. Then I saw how she behaved with someone she really liked and felt crushed. Then it's like why did I bother pursuing her in the first place to feel that bad afterwards, lol

 

[characternote]

Would you say that he fits your theoretical assumption of what a chad/chad-lite or someone who has an easy time on dating apps would look like? Would you feel invisible or amogged if he was in the same room of a woman you were interested in?

Here's you, working up the nerve, and courage, and maybe trying to fight anxious thoughts towards approaching a woman you might be interested in, and then the same gal looks super excited to see him, you are just probably going to just forget about the whole thing, lol

This is why people don't like to cold approach. You are normally approaching women who are not interested in you like that and will feel bad, even if you go somewhere, and you see how she behaves around someone she really likes. That is not a nice feeling at all. Some of these women eyeing him out were 3s, 4s and 5s or looked like those entitled women who would not date their looksmatch, etc....

This happened to me in 2024. Had a lukewarm nice/politce rejection form a lady I liked, but still felt maybe there could be something. Then I saw how she behaved with someone she really liked and felt crushed. Then it's like why did I bother pursuing her in the first place to feel that bad afterwards, lol

My ex wingman was a fair bit better looking than him. He'd get hot girls walking up to him and stroking his arm and hitting on him all teh time.
And yes, I had many nights where it was brutal to have him as a wingman lol. (either due to seeing how easy he had it, or even girls I was doing ok with after cold approaching them, noticing him, and then olive branching onto him hard etc lol. It is what it is. Girls are just as 'visual' as we are, despite what PUA dating coaches tell their customers)
But that guy is maybe a chad-lite (and that might be being slightly generous)? (certainly not a giga chad).
He'd have a fairly easy time on dating apps, though, I assume

 

[Manure Spherian]

He is fit, has swagger, clothes fit, confident, some what mysterious, cowboy hat, and he doesn't look like half the skinny jean faggots walking around.

This!

I don’t even know why someone would wonder about this. He is good looking, built, fashionable, masculine, and confident.

 

[corrector]

My ex wingman was a fair bit better looking than him. He'd get hot girls walking up to him and stroking his arm and hitting on him all teh time.
And yes, I had many nights where it was brutal to have him as a wingman lol. (either due to seeing how easy he had it, or even girls I was doing ok with after cold approaching them, noticing him, and then olive branching onto him hard etc lol. It is what it is. Girls are just as 'visual' as we are, despite what PUA dating coaches tell their customers)
But that guy is maybe a chad-lite (and that might be being slightly generous)? (certainly not a giga chad).
He'd have a fairly easy time on dating apps, though, I assume

Do you think you were better off doing approaches solo compared to being amogged by your own wingman? I guess it does not make a difference. Perhaps it helps innoculate you since you have a controlled exposure to that. I mean, how do you stay motivated with a wingman like that which undermines everything?

He still seems to have a magnetic presense even if you think he's an upper-tier normie/borderline chad-lite. That's what I thought as well. Any reason why someone like him is turning heads or is getting that level of traction?

 

[Gamisch]

Everything on social media is fake, highly edited, etc.

Any dude could walk around all day knowing he's being filmed and flirt with every girl he sees, and then only show you the interactions that work.

This.

Touching strange women in public has a lot of" don't try this at home" energy. You will end up either in jail ,the hospital or both on the same day.

Other then that, it's the same playback as usual: hit the gym , walk around with some confidence and you're halfway there...

And regarding the recording part: I bet that anyone who walks around being filmed will be stared at . But my interpretation is that this is all set up and fake.

 

[corrector]

This!

I don’t even know why someone would wonder about this. He is good looking, built, fashionable, masculine, and confident.

It looks like he's almost getting a male celebrity level of attention. I mean I'd be more curious as to whether he looks like a famous actor in disguise, or if there is something about it that I'm missing as to why he's getting that level of traction?

@Hamurabimbi -- is this how women treat you in public and/or on the job?

 

[corrector]

And regarding the recording part: I bet that anyone who walks around being filmed will be stared at . But my interpretation is that this is all set up and fake.

I have not seen this in other videos. Normally its ackward cold approaches, that sometimes work, but more often then not, is an awkward moment. If you think it's film then post a link of different guys where that is happening, lol That would be easy to find on youtube if that existed. I already posted my evidence here of this dude.

 

[Manure Spherian]

It looks like he's almost getting a male celebrity level of attention. I mean I'd be more curious as to whether he looks like a famous actor in disguise, or if there is something about it that I'm missing as to why he's getting that level of traction?

He’s an attractive man. That’s all there is to it. He also walks around extremely confident and has the body to match.

Also some guys just have “it,” something that is unexplainable. A good friend of mine has “it” and although he is handsome, he is not that handsome, which even he has stated when discussing his ability to attract women. He is also overweight now, yet still garners female attention. When I was young a guy who worked at my uncle’s store had “it,” in addition to being modestly good looking, built, and extremely confident (also at times violent).

Some guys’ strategy for getting women is existing, even while not being the best looking. No hustlemaxxing, no resourcemaxxing, no silverfoxing, no analyzing, no late bloomer fantasizing—the type who get their weewees sucked in junior high.

 

[corrector]

He’s an attractive man. That’s all there is to it. He also walks around extremely confident and has the body to match.

Also some guys just have “it,” something that is unexplainable. A good friend of mine has “it” and although he is handsome, he is not that handsome, which even he has stated when discussing his ability to attract women. He is also overweight now, yet still garners female attention. When I was young a guy who worked at my uncle’s store had “it,” in addition to being modestly good looking, built, and extremely confident (also at times violent).

Some guys’ strategy for getting women is existing, even while not being the best looking. No hustlemaxxing, no resourcemaxxing, no silverfoxing, no analyzing, no late bloomer fantasizing—the type who get their weewees sucked in junior high.

Ok, so it's like an x-factor? These are guys who you would say are normie-tier? Do you know any sub-5s with an x-factor, lol?

 

[Manure Spherian]

Do you know any sub-5s with an x-factor, lol?

No. But as mentioned I know some who have it and are just moderately attractive or normie tier, even a bit overweight.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

1. No way of knowing if these women aren't "plants" that are "in on it".
2. He is walking and acting with confidence, which is always attractive to women.
3. He is relatively tall and in good shape with a good jawline.
4. Most of those women are average at best.

 

[SmoothHendrixPS2]

You act like he got baddies checking him out lol these are normal average woman, but to his credit he got swag! Masculine sex appeal will always get the job done, but it's a rare trait these days. If you don't understand that is very telling. His body looks kind of smushy tbh i wouldnt consider him ripped.

 

[Manure Spherian]

You act like he got baddies checking him out lol these are normal average woman,

That beats having no women and analyzing the female attraction code.