Feminine surrender has nothing to do with being submissive. A man penetrates. A woman surrenders and takes in. That’s the true sexual polarity.
Seems like a lot of guys think a man dominates and a woman submits. This frame comes from ego.
If your frame is “penetrating”, then it involves action, proactiveness, protecting those that are weak, resolve, resilience, and vision. You’re not trying to dominate anyone. You’re just trying to penetrate the field and become the best version of yourself within that field.
If your frame is dominating, then you’ll just come across as an a$$hole.
If a woman’s frame is “submitting,” then she will just come across as someone with no boundaries and a lack of self love.
A proper feminine frame is “surrender and take in.”
She allows you to take control but you are still respecting her boundaries and penetrating her with love and care.
Grok this subtle nuance and you’ll understand romance.