"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You car doesn't matter, gold diggers are a myth

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I think it matters. Your car is just a signal of how capable you are financially, as in financial prowess in this context. Women may not care what you drive however I think they do care that you're capable of owning a certain class of car.

Whether financed or not, you had to be a certain level to get that Aventador or G Wagon, per se. Not to say there is anything wrong with buying a Prius with an AP watch on your wrist driving it. Same thing. It's a symbol of financial abilities.

As for gold diggers, I think all women are gold diggers to some extent. The difference amongst them is how much gold they want and when they stop digging, if ever.

This is based on my personal anecdotal experience.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of all, that video is more fake than Brigitte Macron's lady parts.

Second, you can't compare USA and France. USA is a far wealthier country. There are parts of America where every other car on the road is a BWM, Mercedes, Range Rover, etc. You don't see that in France. In addition, there are lots of cheap used luxury cars on the secondary market. You can buy a 3-4 year old off-lease German luxury car that still looks like it could be a new car but costs a fraction of what it did when it was actually new thanks to the steep depreciation curve. All of this is to say that your run of the mill Audi A4 or Mercedes C-Class is going to be pretty much invisible.
I definitely agree with that. Even in the midwestern US where "commonfolk" live there are luxury dealership locations. I don't believe there's a nearby Ferrari or Lamborghini, but I'm aware right off where Mercedes, Porsche, Jaguar and Maserati dealerships are located.

On the subject at hand, I have always either had a comfortable clean car or a rustic truck. An everyday driver or a useful vehicle. I use one to haul crap, the other to haul people. I started with a truck then went to a jeep then a car. Now I'm back to a truck. Missed it. The fanciest transportation I have is a Harley Davidson. Believe it or not, even in leathers, some ladies (probably due to my boyish face if I shave lol) have to ask multiple times if I'm sure the bike I point out is really mine. Seems like they know what even bikes cost. HA!

**I'm well aware there are better bikes for my money. I just don't care and I'm rather vain and prideful in my obsession with HD.
 

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I definitely agree with that. Even in the midwestern US where "commonfolk" live there are luxury dealership locations. I don't believe there's a nearby Ferrari or Lamborghini, but I'm aware right off where Mercedes, Porsche, Jaguar and Maserati dealerships are located.

On the subject at hand, I have always either had a comfortable clean car or a rustic truck. An everyday driver or a useful vehicle. I use one to haul crap, the other to haul people. I started with a truck then went to a jeep then a car. Now I'm back to a truck. Missed it. The fanciest transportation I have is a Harley Davidson. Believe it or not, even in leathers, some ladies (probably due to my boyish face if I shave lol) have to ask multiple times if I'm sure the bike I point out is really mine. Seems like they know what even bikes cost. HA!

**I'm well aware there are better bikes for my money. I just don't care and I'm rather vain and prideful in my obsession with HD.
HD are really nice. They look very good in the rear view mirror of a Gold Wing.
 

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HD are really nice. They look very good in the rear view mirror of a Gold Wing.
Ah! The 2 wheeled Cadillac with heated everything and an espresso machine! Talk about marketing that ages well! An 83' Gold wing honestly doesn't look too much different from a 26' Gold wing. Anyone who sees it can instantly identify it! And the 80s models still run.
 

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If you need a fancy car to get women you are simply a glorified Simp with more money attracting Gold Diggers.

You attract what you lead with. If you lead with money, you attract those looking for money and silently signal that's the best trait you have to offer them.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Where I go to mack women, I can't take my car, so it doesn't matter. That said, I plan on getting a driverless car whenever that comes around.
 
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