Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How game can be less? Game after a while should be an integral part of your identity, so how can you behave less than yourself?You are correct and onto something brother, Good quality woman can see the playerish fassage a mile away and will have no problems backing off. The best type of relationships often goes with the flow and requires no games on your part because you're coming from a good frame, value and a sense of purpose. The less games the better.
I would replace the word “game” with “value”. Have value and you will naturally and authentically behave in your best ways. You won’t even have to think about “game”. “Game” is a childish word. As adults, let’s use the word “value” instead. The word “value” cuts through all the bs and theories.I think a man should always employ a bit of "Game" in his relationships and in life... so should women (Girl Game).
However...
There is a big difference between 'having game" and 'playing games'... below sums it up beautifully imo.
>>"Having game" is the confident, authentic ability to flirt, converse and spark attraction, whereas "playing games" is a manipulative, dishonest approach involving mind f*cks, shyt tests and extreme push-pull tactics.
While 'having game' builds connection, 'playing games' causes mistrust, anxiety, and instability.<<
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
All relations between humans contain "games" of some sortIf you actually found a good woman, you might not want to play games.