"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's wrong on the "no games" behaviour?

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If you actually found a good woman, you might not want to play games.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You are correct and onto something brother, Good quality woman can see the playerish fassage a mile away and will have no problems backing off. The best type of relationships often goes with the flow and requires no games on your part because you're coming from a good frame, value and a sense of purpose. The less games the better.
 

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You are correct and onto something brother, Good quality woman can see the playerish fassage a mile away and will have no problems backing off. The best type of relationships often goes with the flow and requires no games on your part because you're coming from a good frame, value and a sense of purpose. The less games the better.
How game can be less? Game after a while should be an integral part of your identity, so how can you behave less than yourself?

Besides this, why ever "good quality" women will want to back off game? they want to play, if they do not that with you, it does mean they do not want to play.

" The best type of relationships often goes with the flow and requires no games on your part because you're coming from a good frame, value and a sense of purpose." We know what does "flow" means, but AFC will read your statement like: "Alright, I should not do anything. Just be myself.".

"the less game, the better"??? What does it even mean? "good frame, value and a sense of purpose" are all parts of game, so by saying "less game", you literally mean less frame control, value and sense of purpose. Blissful ignorance of Beta.

To conclude, I think that "If you actually found a good woman, you might not want to play games." is a statement uttered from the mouth of beta, nothing less nothing more. You maybe red-pilled, but you still have not yet killed inner AFC/BETA.

Good luck!
 

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I think a man should always employ a bit of "Game" in his relationships and in life... so should women (Girl Game).

However...

There is a big difference between 'having game" and 'playing games'... below sums it up beautifully imo.

>>"Having game" is the confident, authentic ability to flirt, converse and spark attraction, whereas "playing games" is a manipulative, dishonest approach involving mind f*cks, shyt tests and extreme push-pull tactics.

While 'having game' builds connection, 'playing games' causes mistrust, anxiety, and instability.<<
 

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I think a man should always employ a bit of "Game" in his relationships and in life... so should women (Girl Game).

However...

There is a big difference between 'having game" and 'playing games'... below sums it up beautifully imo.

>>"Having game" is the confident, authentic ability to flirt, converse and spark attraction, whereas "playing games" is a manipulative, dishonest approach involving mind f*cks, shyt tests and extreme push-pull tactics.

While 'having game' builds connection, 'playing games' causes mistrust, anxiety, and instability.<<
I would replace the word “game” with “value”. Have value and you will naturally and authentically behave in your best ways. You won’t even have to think about “game”. “Game” is a childish word. As adults, let’s use the word “value” instead. The word “value” cuts through all the bs and theories.

And in every situation with women and people, you know if you are coming from a place of high value or low value.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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