Broad tries sleeping in my house OVERNIGHT

[Rainman4707]

Been messaging a woman for a few weeks, got her off pof, onto snapchat. Her 17 year old was in hers, so she said she could come to mine. She messaged asking if 'we were having a drink?' I replied that yes we can.


So she arrived with her bottle of gin. She had a glass, then we went upstairs and we fu*ked. Afterwards, she poured herself another. I said '

Rainman - are you going to be able to drive back?

Steph - i was'nt expecting to, i've drank half a bottle of gin.

Rainman - i was'nt expecting you to stay! :/

Steph - well we have just had sex, you should'nt tell girls to drink, then leave.

This was awkward. I was in shock that she actually wanted to stay over on the first meet. I sleep a lot better on my own and had a big football match in the morning. If she wanted to drink thats up to her (im not her dad) i told her this.

Steph - ok i'll drink some water and drive back.

I was sat there Thinking GET THE FUC* OUT OF MY HOUSE YOU BROAD

Steph - i've had to much to drink. I cannot risk driving.

Rainman - I will drive you back and bring you back for your vechile after my footy match.

Steph - i really dont mind sleeping on sofa

Rainman - nah i'm not comfortable.

So took her back. She kept saying how sorry she was and how she thinks it will put me off her.

watch out for these broads trying to pull tricks like this

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Now I see why so many guys on here struggle in relationships.

 

[Travel memoir21]

This type of behavior might work for sports fvcking, but it will ultimately backfire with a Quality woman you yearn to respect and get a long with. If you want a normal genuine relationship with a good woman, it’d be wise to have a combination of a gentleman with leadership frame, one where you’re screening for red flags. But in this case, you’re adding onto it with your disrespectful behavior.

 

[Rainman4707]

I have zero intentions of getting in a relationship with her

 

[zekko]

Well, at least you took her home. It wouldn't have been right to make her drive home drunk.

 

[corrector]

I have zero intentions of getting in a relationship with her

You told that to her before you slept with her?

 

[Clockwerk50]

I think it was just poor planning on her part and, for you, poor management of her expectations. For her, it was clear she didn’t expect to be back home since her child was there, and she was in party mode. From what you wrote, she also didn’t mention her expectations clearly. You could have told her when making plans that you couldn’t stay up long or that she couldn't sleep over; something along those lines.

I can see why this would happen since people are generally poor planners, with different assumptions, and not communicating clearly.

 

[The Duke]

Rainman, most women are going to think exactly like this one did. The only one "pulling tricks" was you.

You basically invited her over, fuhked her, then kicked her out after you were done. I'm sure she doesn't feel good about herself afterwards.

Its good to leave people with a little dignity. Next time, hire a hooker if thats all you want.

 

[Barrister]

OP,

This kind if thing should be implicitly expected unless the girl is under 25 years old. Most women past that age bracket (which she clearly is with a 17 YO), are going to expect to sleep over at least for a few hours after you bang. Especially so if you've been drinking. I will agree that it was maybe a bit presumptuous on her part to assume she could do that without explicitly asking, but expecting her to GTFO right after you have sex and leave you alone is also unreasonable and fairly harsh. Make your boundaries clear up front.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Most women want and expect a sleep over. I'd say nearly every woman I've been with has.

 

[The Duke]

Most women want and expect a sleep over. I'd say nearly every woman I've been with has.

Exactly, even Deanna Dirty Legs likes to cuddle.

 

[Rainman4707]

You told that to her before you slept with her?

Of course not.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Been messaging a woman for a few weeks, got her off pof, onto snapchat. Her 17 year old was in hers, so she said she could come to mine. She messaged asking if 'we were having a drink?' I replied that yes we can.

"pof" as in Plenty of Fish?? Do people still use that site? It was a dumpster fire even in the old days.

 

[Bokanovsky]

This type of behavior might work for sports fvcking, but it will ultimately backfire with a Quality woman you yearn to respect and get a long with. If you want a normal genuine relationship with a good woman, it’d be wise to have a combination of a gentleman with leadership frame, one where you’re screening for red flags. But in this case, you’re adding onto it with your disrespectful behavior.

You must be kidding. What kind of a "quality woman" comes to a man's house with a bottle of gin for their first date?

 

[Rainman4707]

I think it was just poor planning on her part and, for you, poor management of her expectations. For her, it was clear she didn’t expect to be back home since her child was there, and she was in party mode. From what you wrote, she also didn’t mention her expectations clearly. You could have told her when making plans that you couldn’t stay up long or that she couldn't sleep over; something along those lines.

I can see why this would happen since people are generally poor planners, with different assumptions, and not communicating clearly.

Yeah, that's the jist of it. In my experiences, most women come over, i have a drink (cup of tea or something) chat for half an hour, then we fu*k, i give them a cuddle, then spend 20 mins with them, cuddling and or having a chat downstairs, then it's time for her to fu*k off as far as i'm concerned. All the previous forty or so broads have been fine with that.

I certainly know that if i went to somebody elses house i would ask if it's ok to stay over before i intoxicated myself!!

 

[BaronOfHair]

I have zero intentions of getting in a relationship with her

Suspect her eagerness to do so with you is more diminished than the planet's collective enthusiasm for another Leif Garret album

 

[corrector]

Of course not.

Your thread topic comes off like a quiet brag.

 

[corrector]

Next time, hire a hooker if thats all you want.

Nah, it's cheaper if he's doing what he's doing here. If he really treated 40 women that way, and lets say he went on a low-end establishment and paid $ 80 a pop, that's a savings of $ 3200.

 

[Rainman4707]

Suspect her eagerness to do so with you is more diminished than the planet's collective enthusiasm for another Leif Garret album

Well, she is begging for my co*k again this Saturday, so looks like leif garret might be back in action (whoever the fu*k he is)

 

[Rainman4707]

Your thread topic comes off like a quiet brag.

Not bragging, why would i even be thinking of a relationship when i've only met her once, besides a man can pound that ass, without thinking long term