"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Strippers say a market crash is guaranteed because the strip clubs are suddenly empty

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I haven’t been to a strip club since I was around 21 and a novice. I can’t imagine what the experience is like now, nor the clientele, especially those who sit in the perv row.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would imagine strip clubs are the place where ugly girls go who can't make it on social media or onlyfans.
For a while, I was in the mode of "if I'm on the road, I'll stop at my favorite roadhouse" patronizing, but I have noticed in the last few years the quality going down, with more & more women that look a bit like trannies. :eek::eek: It could be the COVID stimmy check effect, where formerly desperate chicks got enough cash to not be desperate. :rolleyes::mad:
 

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I haven’t been to a strip club since I was around 21 and a novice. I can’t imagine what the experience is like now, nor the clientele, especially those who sit in the perv row.
There's a place in Denver where the perv row is so good that happy endings can happen. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OK, it was noted in a fresh video that featured (among others) a video (I am not sure how fresh that one was) that featured this article
Well, for what it's worth. The article came out in 2022 and there hasn't been a recession yet. The last official recession was the Covid recession in 2020.
 
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