jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hi there!
There are moments, phases of the relationship, in which the woman will have to satisfy needs. For example, she will want to have children, move in together, want to be married, want to be have hard sex, etc.
In some relationships, things go smoothly, and some men agree to everything, partly because they obviously agree with it. However, there will be relationships in which the woman has to "struggle" because her man is not in agreement or in line with her needs.
Maybe she wants to have a second child, but he doesn't agree, or she wants to be married in a few years, and he doesn't agree, or she wants to do things in bed that he doesn't want to do.
At this moment then emotional detachment is created. Above all, the woman will begin to feel repelled by the man who denies her the satisfaction of her needs; furthermore, she may begin to become emotionally attached to some other man, and in some cases cheat.
I think this happens very often: emotional disconnection due to not having needs met.
Now, we know that women are never happy, and will always have one need after another, but there are some things which are still not clear.. (this has already happened in 3 relationships that I know of)
In the first, the woman was planning to do the second child, and he didn't really agree. She begins to entice him sexually, but he is still reluctant. However, in the meantime she detaches herself emotionally and becomes attached to another man (work colleague).
But then, she gets pregnant, and once the pregnancy is over, the baby is born, and the two of them return happily ever after. They've a new love, like a new couple, indeed, now they are "stronger than before". In fact they do things together that they didn't do before.
Now, repeat this example in other relationships, with similar circumstances.
In short, there is a phase of detachment in which if the man hold, and takes time, then she goes back to the way she was before, and the relationship "improves".
If the man instead makes himself respected and cuts off the relationship due to exceeding boundaries and lack of respect, then the relationship ends.
Now, some people here have gone through both and have their own clear perspective. It can happen that one person has some needs and another has others. We know that women are never satisfied and that they will have different needs based on their current relationships.
How do women get back emotionally attached to men they don't want, and now their relationship actually seems like perfect husband and wife, they do everything together, they seem like "best friends", if just before they were emotionally detached and worshiped other men?
Is this a normal thing that men, at least those of the 21st century, have to swallow if they want to have long term relationships?
There are moments, phases of the relationship, in which the woman will have to satisfy needs. For example, she will want to have children, move in together, want to be married, want to be have hard sex, etc.
In some relationships, things go smoothly, and some men agree to everything, partly because they obviously agree with it. However, there will be relationships in which the woman has to "struggle" because her man is not in agreement or in line with her needs.
Maybe she wants to have a second child, but he doesn't agree, or she wants to be married in a few years, and he doesn't agree, or she wants to do things in bed that he doesn't want to do.
At this moment then emotional detachment is created. Above all, the woman will begin to feel repelled by the man who denies her the satisfaction of her needs; furthermore, she may begin to become emotionally attached to some other man, and in some cases cheat.
I think this happens very often: emotional disconnection due to not having needs met.
Now, we know that women are never happy, and will always have one need after another, but there are some things which are still not clear.. (this has already happened in 3 relationships that I know of)
In the first, the woman was planning to do the second child, and he didn't really agree. She begins to entice him sexually, but he is still reluctant. However, in the meantime she detaches herself emotionally and becomes attached to another man (work colleague).
But then, she gets pregnant, and once the pregnancy is over, the baby is born, and the two of them return happily ever after. They've a new love, like a new couple, indeed, now they are "stronger than before". In fact they do things together that they didn't do before.
Now, repeat this example in other relationships, with similar circumstances.
In short, there is a phase of detachment in which if the man hold, and takes time, then she goes back to the way she was before, and the relationship "improves".
If the man instead makes himself respected and cuts off the relationship due to exceeding boundaries and lack of respect, then the relationship ends.
Now, some people here have gone through both and have their own clear perspective. It can happen that one person has some needs and another has others. We know that women are never satisfied and that they will have different needs based on their current relationships.
How do women get back emotionally attached to men they don't want, and now their relationship actually seems like perfect husband and wife, they do everything together, they seem like "best friends", if just before they were emotionally detached and worshiped other men?
Is this a normal thing that men, at least those of the 21st century, have to swallow if they want to have long term relationships?
