Women who have issues talking straight

[Bokanovsky]

When someone says you aren’t creating a ‘safe space’ but at the same time they wouldn’t give you an entire story straight, for instance withholding info to make you feel guilty or withholding info because they just don’t feel safe - in other words it’s chicken or egg but you get this feeling they’re just anxious and won’t admit it - I just find it numbing. Am I losing my mind here? Does anyone understand what I am saying? I find it really frustrating. It really pisses me off.

Whenever someone uses expressions like "safe space", you are being manipulated. That type of lingo was custom made for gaslighting. It has no place in regular conversation between two mentally sane adults.

 

[Divorced w 3]

As per OP's comment in October of last year, he had a physical altercation with his ex-girlfriend. This might be the root cause of her feeling unsafe.

Thanks for bringing that up. Not that I ever implied it was related to my ex girlfriend but let’s go there since you have had a long standing chip on your shoulder with me too. I will leave that up to the rest of you to determine if that’s wife beating or if that’s the edge of the wrong type of aggression. While I am not proud of it I don’t think it qualifies as what BPH has been using to try and bait me the last couple weeks. BPH tries to paint me as unstable and twice literally just invited me to come fight him in person because I used his words and his avatar in my profile. Since he decided to post his sexual stalking exploits under his own name I am weighing reporting his threat to his local police department. BPH trying to paint this narrative also suits you, as you have had minimal success fending off my commentary that for the better part of your tenure here, you post nothing on your own experience, that you may as well be pasting quotes from seduction material. Again, thanks for coming through, and being about as predictable as usual.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Thanks for bringing that up. Not that I ever implied it was related to my ex girlfriend but let’s go there since you have had a long standing chip on your shoulder with me too. I will leave that up to the rest of you to determine if that’s wife beating or if that’s the edge of the wrong type of aggression. While I am not proud of it I don’t think it qualifies as what BPH has been using to try and bait me the last couple weeks. BPH tries to paint me as unstable and twice literally just invited me to come fight him in person because I used his words and his avatar in my profile. Since he decided to post his sexual stalking exploits under his own name I am weighing reporting his threat to his local police department. BPH trying to paint this narrative also suits you, as you have had minimal success fending off my commentary that for the better part of your tenure here, you post nothing on your own experience, that you may as well be pasting quotes from seduction material. Again, thanks for coming through, and being about as predictable as usual.

Pushing a woman is physical abuse and domestic violence. You are lucky you didn’t catch a case.



Again, everyone has the evidence that you started the BPH situation and kept provoking and trolling him long after he was compassionate and supportive when you broke up with your girlfriend in that thread. The only thing you proved here is that people cannot air their dirty laundry because you are untrustworthy, unreliable, and disloyal, and there will never be a sense of community while you are still around. @Solomon wrote it better, but people should keep their stuff to themselves for various reasons.

I’m just glad I didn’t give you any of my personal information. It would have been insane to do that.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Pushing a woman is physical abuse and domestic violence. You are lucky you didn’t catch a case.

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Again, everyone has the evidence that you started the BPH situation and kept provoking and trolling him long after he was compassionate and supportive when you broke up with your girlfriend in that thread. The only thing you proved here is that people cannot air their dirty laundry because you are untrustworthy, unreliable, and disloyal, and there will never be a sense of community while you are still around. @Solomon wrote it better, but people should keep their stuff to themselves for various reasons.

I’m just glad I didn’t give you any of my personal information. It would have been insane to do that.

You are correct, if you said to me what he did I would deal with you the same way. As I said, I will give the board the chance to address it themselves.

 

[Clockwerk50]

You are correct, if you said to me what he did I would deal with you the same way. As I said, I will give the board the chance to address it themselves.

If you really cared about what he did, you would have called him out back on October 21, when he found all the girls’ reviews about him on the Tea app. Instead, you waited until late December and January to call him out for harassing women, copied his avatar, or talked about involving the police, all just because he said you didn’t practice Mode One at a bar when it took you four hours to bring a girl home.

Looking at your history as a physical abuser, and your posts with him, it’s clear that this isn’t about the kindness of your heart, helping the girls, or improving the community. It’s about you.

 

[Divorced w 3]

If you really cared about what he did, you would have called him out back on October 21, when he found all the girls’ reviews about him on the Tea app. Instead, you waited until late December and January to call him out for harassing women, copied his avatar, or talked about involving the police, all just because he said you didn’t practice Mode One at a bar when it took you four hours to bring a girl home.

Looking at your history as a physical abuser, and your posts with him, it’s clear that this isn’t about the kindness of your heart, helping the girls, or improving the community. It’s about you.

You are not going to convince me not to report him for making a physical threat against me.

You’ve derailed the thread. Let it go.

 

[Clockwerk50]

You are not going to convince me not to report him for making a physical threat against me.

You’ve derailed the thread. Let it go.

You can do whatever you want. That’s not what I’m trying to do here.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Advice from the old lady:

Hmmm. There's more to it than that.

Safety really is top priority for a woman, especially if she is somewhere alone with you.

I beg to differ. If safety was "top priority" for women, they would avoid dangerous, violent, unstable and/or dug addicted morons like the plague. And yet, by and large, they don't. In fact, dangerous and violent gets pvssy. So I don't buy this idea that women are inherently safety cautious.

 

[Bokanovsky]

As per OP's comment in October of last year, he had a physical altercation with his ex-girlfriend. This might be the root cause of her feeling unsafe.

That certainly puts things in perspective. The dude sounds like a nutjob.

 

[Divorced w 3]

That certainly puts things in perspective. The dude sounds like a nutjob.

I mean sure - you can say what you need to regarding what I did. I’m chronicling it for the improvement of men who may have leanings to control and express themselves a certain way. To be perfectly frank, this website which I have great regard for has had a massive influx of red pill toxicity over the years which promotes exactly what I was doing. So from a position of vulnerability and strength I spoke from my lowest and I continue to speak as I play on a different level. I can’t do anything about what I did other than be fair about it and I’ve done just that. I’m not going to dig up our prior dialogue but you’ve personally attacked me for having alternative views than you and I’ll leave it at that. All I can do is act in a different way and see if my words and my actions reflect what I’m saying (which is the type of game this place used to espouse - and still does in pockets.)

Or - you can join the minimal community of followers of a man who put his own name on the internet, lives in his parents home at 31, makes 50k, and admitted to sexual misconduct and then decided that it was a good idea to make a physical threat over having his balls broken with a photo of his that he provided to the website and words he used held against him.

I don’t mind being a discussion point it’s just not where the thread started and importantly it’s not related to the woman you’re bringing up.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I mean sure - you can say what you need to regarding what I did. I’m chronicling it for the improvement of men who may have leanings to control and express themselves a certain way. To be perfectly frank, this website which I have great regard for has had a massive influx of red pill toxicity over the years which promotes exactly what I was doing. So from a position of vulnerability and strength I spoke from my lowest and I continue to speak as I play on a different level. I can’t do anything about what I did other than be fair about it and I’ve done just that. I’m not going to dig up our prior dialogue but you’ve personally attacked me for having alternative views than you and I’ll leave it at that. All I can do is act in a different way and see if my words and my actions reflect what I’m saying (which is the type of game this place used to espouse - and still does in pockets.)

Or - you can join the minimal community of followers of a man who put his own name on the internet, lives in his parents home at 31, makes 50k, and admitted to sexual misconduct and then decided that it was a good idea to make a physical threat over having his balls broken with a photo of his that he provided to the website and words he used held against him.

I don’t mind being a discussion point it’s just not where the thread started and importantly it’s not related to the woman you’re bringing up.

When I said that you were a nutjob I didn't mean it as an insult. It seems to be an accurate description of your state of mind. Most people would agree that your response to that situation was completely unhinged.

On a side note, the fact that you are crazy is, paradoxically, a bit of an asset (as long as you don't take it too far and end up in jail). Women are drawn to violent and volatile men. That was likely the reason why this girl was drawn to you in the first place.

 

[Divorced w 3]

When I said that you were a nutjob and I didn't mean it as an insult. It seems to be an accurate description of your state of mind. Most people would agree that your response to that situation was completely unhinged.

On a side note, the fact that you are crazy is, paradoxically, a bit of an asset (as long as you don't take it too far and end up in jail). Women are drawn to violent and volatile men. That was likely the reason why this girl was drawn to you in the first place.

Because I represented, paradoxically the strength and recurring safety that her social life thus far has been unable to provide - and I have a soft side. It’s low level thinking though - about to go have dinner with a Navy SEAL who doesn’t have these sociopathic tendencies - but knows of mine, was empathetic and is happily married.

 

[BeExcellent]

I beg to differ. If safety was "top priority" for women, they would avoid dangerous, violent, unstable and/or dug addicted morons like the plague. And yet, by and large, they don't. In fact, dangerous and violent gets pvssy. So I don't buy this idea that women are inherently safety cautious.

Women are inherently safety conscious. Ask your mother or sister if they check to make sure house doors and car doors are locked for example.

Men are far less concerned about stuff like that than women.

Do some women make dumb choices with men? Obviously. But women do have concerns around day to day safety.

Fathers of daughters have these concerns re: the daughters too, by the way.

 

[Clockwerk50]

That certainly puts things in perspective. The dude sounds like a nutjob.

The fact that he is allegedly going to involve the police by filing a report about a non-existent physical threat over a discussion on a seduction board point that he has a delusional reality. It is not only a waste of time and resources, but anyone who can create fake claims like this should have anything coming out of their profile taken with a grain of salt.

 

[Clockwerk50]

When I said that you were a nutjob I didn't mean it as an insult. It seems to be an accurate description of your state of mind. Most people would agree that your response to that situation was completely unhinged.

On a side note, the fact that you are crazy is, paradoxically, a bit of an asset (as long as you don't take it too far and end up in jail). Women are drawn to violent and volatile men. That was likely the reason why this girl was drawn to you in the first place.

In the non-contact thread, everyone identified the woman as toxic. The discussion has always been about how toxic mindsets lead to toxic actions and, ultimately, toxic relationships. I wouldn’t try to romanticize "crazy" as some kind of universal asset.

 

[Divorced w 3]

The fact that he is allegedly going to involve the police by filing a report about a non-existent physical threat over a discussion on a seduction board point that he has a delusional reality. It is not only a waste of time and resources, but anyone who can create fake claims like this should have anything coming out of their profile taken with a grain of salt.

Bryce Preston Hayes of Delaware, BPH who volunteered his name to this website, asked me to come meet him in Philly because I used a photo he provided to a website and copied his words onto my signature after he’s spent weeks derailing threads, ironically, about my mental sanity. You are trying to bury that reality by hijacking any thread I am participating in.