OLD - 2 different drink dates lined up

[Divorced w 3]

So I met two different women and we’re doing drinks. The first wanted a video chat so we spoke for 20 and we’re working out the logistics and the second is going to meet me Tuesday.

Get me the quickest progression into sex. Your boy needs to get his dck wet. Thx

 

[Amante Silvestre II]

Get me the quickest progression into sex. Your boy needs to get his dck wet.

My advice... Don't go if that's the headspace you're in.

OLD was my thing. It's fish in a barrel when you're not thirsty, but it's a f*cking root canal when you need it and she knows it. Quick progression almost always happens when you're least trying. So if you go, go for a good drink. Go to see someone you might not have seen in a minute. Go to have a few good laughs and some good convo. Don't get drunk. Don't be pushy or belligerent. Just focus on the things you would enjoy as if you were alone or with a good friend, and welcome her into that space with you.

Do all that right and you can eventually make your move with a little build up and great odds within 2-3 hours. If it doesn't naturalize, let it go, call it an early night and offer to get together again sometime. Try too hard, it turns into a long night of buttering that ends with a cheek turn and a lonely drive home.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Prioritize the one who didn't want the video chat. Odds are they're less uptight.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Prioritize the one who didn't want the video chat. Odds are they're less uptight.

Actually the one who didn’t video chat is the one who I found on ‘tinder ready tonight’ on the other app. I just asked her if she wants to just skip the formalities - mode one son

 

[Divorced w 3]

I found a third. She is literally on skip the drinks mode and may bring a friend. Facebook dating ftw.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I think when push comes to shove a lot of these easy types on swipe apps are either scams or never materialise

Unless you're directly paying to play theres no cheat code to fast casual sex especially if you're desperate

 

[Divorced w 3]

So the chick I also found on tinder and opted to go direct with are shooting for after the holidays. Nothing like cutting past the unnecessary noise. Also $100 not wasted at the bar.

 

[Solomon]

If you want something fast or easy, ask them to come straight to the house, but in the guise of dinner and drinks(that you cook). I got a 10% success rate doing that. I know a guy who hasn't taken a girl on a date in over 6 years (He's a lower-tier Tyrone; he also has been in adult movies so he knows how to keep them coming back)

If you're meeting for drinks, you keep the vibes, fun, flirty, and go through escalation---word of advice, have the venue be 10 minutes or less from your place, helps you if you live in a big metro or in the area in your town where it's the most active

 

[Barrister]

1. Pre-date keep the texting to a minimum, but since you are going after the holidays you have some time between now and then and I wouldn't be completely absent. Send a rapport type text maybe once or twice between now and then and then mirror her interest in conversing from there.

2. Send a confirmation text in disguise the day of. Tell her to wear something sexy. This acts to confirm she is still meeting you and also peeks her interest and lets her know your mindset and that you aren't going to just be a buddy.

3. Sit close together at the bar so that kino is especially easy. Initiate physical contact early and often, but don't overdo it too soon. Start subtle and as she warms up you can begin to get more forward. If she never pulls away during any advance you know you are in and can probably turn her into a SNL.

4. If she actually is self-respecting, you won't get a SNL on date 1. Don't get flustered. Stay charming and make her excited for the second time by remaining positive, confident, and upbeat. You will get sex eventually.

 

[Divorced w 3]

My most recent match ; TLDR: doesn’t work, parent of many, man should be the ATM, but don’t judge her for living on social security at 33. I’m going to let her chat me and come back on this one.

 

[Solomon]

My most recent match ; TLDR: doesn’t work, parent of many, man should be the ATM, but don’t judge her for living on social security at 33. I’m going to let her chat me and come back on this one.

This girl sounds like a red flag, she must be hot? perosnally for me, seeing that first picture, I would unmatch or not even bother; those women tend to be those insufferable and all they bring to the table is a wet mouth and snatch. I have nothign against single mothers who are financially free, met some cool ones