The video assumes men are stupid.
Women over 40 have no leverage. Heck, over 30 they are crashing and burning. Women over 40 have to attach to some male, almost any average male they can find, because they have no other options. It's like if you are hungry, and don't have the money for good food, you are going to settle for McDonalds.
I don't understand how women, with how Intune they are to men's desires and wants and needs, don't understand that their YOUTH is their currency.
I'll play devils adovacate here I would say
most women over 40 have no leverage, if she is attractive and in shape, she will have some, depending on her looks, lifestyle etc. I know some women in their 40s that look better than 20-year-olds. Now, the average woman will have no leverage in regards to getting the guy she wants because most women by 40 are already washed espeically in the midwest where I live.
The ones that are not have mental health issues and/or trauma from being ran through or post-divorce
I know some men who are very accomplished I notice two things. Either they are redpill in all aspects of life but not with women and those are the guys that get divorced once or twice, have kids etc. Some wake up after that.
Guy 2. The ones who are redpill but they are few and far in between, obviously.
If a man is over 40 and he is still trying to crack the female attraction code, he did something wrong or something went wrong for him.
The vibe I'm getting is that most men now are seeing female nature for what it truly is due to the exposure on social media espeically in short form content i.e. Tik Tok, Youtube etc but
the men that whine the loudest about women's standards or not getting dates are just entitled as the women they complain about i.e. blackpillers, incels etc.
I have hung around some Chad's/Tyrones and I never hear them complain about women not in the way most men due. Their complaints are "This girl is to needy she wants a relationship right away"or "I got to many dates lined up this weekend, which girl should I cancel on?" How many guys can truly say they have this problem even on this site?
The truth is, as men, we compete in all aspects of life. The romanticization that men have of the "1950s wife" is gone, and will never come back unless you are a man of means, or you have a woman is super into you, they are not going to be the stay-at-home wife who will give you BJ's whenever she wants. For most men that is not going to be their reality even though they fantasize and pontifcate about it daily on socials.
I do not think there is any reason for educated, attractive female with a good job to be submissive towards uneducated, mildly attractive guy with average job - yet some women still decide to enter such relationships because sex and romance.
I think a lot of guys overestimate their value due to how male ego work - still attractive female wants attractive guy, preferably with assets, but the best is the "full package guy" - and any 6/10 or even 5/10 or less females try to get a shot on such a guy and sometimes it works (who doesn't know a couple where woman is unattractive but the guy is). Women know that it is easy to use sex (and female allure) as a weapon - guys do favours, compliment women, fuel their self-esteem for free every day - notice how much low tier guys compliment models or pretty girls online hoping for any reaction which is somewhat of a beggar's attitude.
There is no reason for females to be submissive nowadays - and I think that I will add "thankfully". When you are father of a daughter you want the best for her - ideal partner, well educated, good earner, handsome, intelligent guy, preferably blue or purple pill. You do not want any PUA or loser around her. If you invested a lot in her, you do not want a simpleton or uneducated guy with no money around her either and this does not change per your personal experience - life is no fairy tale and your family and its future comes first - dreams of young horny guys or middle aged/old guys dreaming about young attractive woman in their bed are irrelevant.
I have an ugly friend - great guy but his face is like 3/10 and dude always looked old. His Tinder still gave him matches with (imho) 4/10 or 5/10 chicks - I asked him why he does not want to date these women - because he doesnt really consider them attractive - he said - I didnt want to be blunt but if I was a woman and I would need to wake up everyday looking at the face of my buddy in bed I would REALLY need to have every other need in relationship in check to accept this fact - so its not that some women do not concede on male attractiveness - tbh almost all of them do because young prince was snatched early by her more attractive girlfriend in college - once you hit +35 as a guy you start to leverage/boost your chances - either by career you have, money you earned or obtained otherwise, car or perhaps house - the love which is only about the other person qualities (looks&personality) happens earlier - when you are 16, 18, perhaps 20 or 21. Later on its more and more about exchange of perspectives for the future and period of 22-28 are "transformation" years for women.
Its not that women are not able to be submissive - there is just much more reasons nowadays for men to be doormats for women rather than for women to be submissive to men (because men do not have the luxury of being weak as they usually do not have the gift of being an attractive woman which for sure is worth a lot in superficial world full of dumb social media around us - simultaneously men gave up values or qualities that made some of their fathers real men - integrity, courage, ability to withstand pain - either physical or emotional - men nowadays are weak and do not understand themselves so how can they understand women).
This is truth, not sure why men refuse to get this, if you want top notch women you gotta be a top notch guy, doesn't mean you have to be rich or something but you gotta have something that make you top notch to
her. Blows my mind that men think they shold get a "Sydney Sweeney" cause they are good guys, when I was in my 20s and naive I use to think like this, that's why I did all this simp shyt, getting girls flowers, taking them on dates, reading them poems over the phone (yes I did that in my early 20s) now I don't do 3/4's of that and I have women driving 3-5 hours to see me, rub my back, clean my place then sent home with a wet back and hair unfurled.
I think they like to kid themselves that as men age they will still be as attracted to the older model ,
Issue for women is as men age the competition from younger women begins to increase massively a 34 year old woman is going to happily settle with a 40 something year old guy
a 40 something year old woman can only really go same age or older
But given the choice most men will take the younger pre menopausal model all day long
The 40 something woman now has to compete with not only women in her own decade but in the one below too
I'll play devils advocate again. You see how age-gap relationships talk go viral now the last few years? I have seen older women date younger but typically it's
1. Booty call situation
2. Sugar momma situation
3. Relationship situation
The 3rd situation usually is a mix of 1&2 and the guy decided to settle cause he realizes he can get easy sex from her and a nice play to stay or he doesn't have to work.Belive it or not but there are some men who don't want to work and if a woman is willing to take care of them even if she is not attractive they will, back in the day we use to call them
hobosexuals