"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Market of cute women efficient

ruud3123

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Hi guys


Lately I’ve noticed a trend when it comes to dating apps and the social scene in general. It seems that the women who are considered cute are usually already taken or have no problem finding a partner, whether it’s for a serious relationship or something casual. In a way, the “market of love” feels pretty efficient right now.

For context, I take care of myself — I go to the gym regularly, I’m in good shape, I have a stable career, and I consider myself a calm, grounded person. Still, I often notice that the women who flirt the most are already in a relationship, while the ones who actively pursue me are usually not the type I feel attracted to and honestly they are 4-5 /10

I’m curious if others have observed something similar — is this just how things are nowadays with apps making connections so easy, or is it just my perception?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SW15

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Lately I’ve noticed a trend when it comes to dating apps and the social scene in general. It seems that the women who are considered cute are usually already taken or have no problem finding a partner, whether it’s for a serious relationship or something casual. In a way, the “market of love” feels pretty efficient right now.
In general, women who are average looking or better do not have difficulty finding partners. Finding a partner is only as difficult as women want it to be.

Childless women are going to be the most sought after women. Even 30s and 40s childless women are in demand.
 

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Women tend to date up, while men date within their bracket or down. So, the women you're attracted to often have more options and get taken quickly by higher-value men, while those pursuing you might be aiming up or seeking validation or monkey branching such as the ones in a relationship. That’s just how the dating market works.
 
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