"Im [sic] Almost 39 And I Have Virtually NO DESIRE To Date"

[MatureDJ]

Most observers would consider this guy to be a Chad, and he has great hair.

 

[Solomon]

The older you get, the less energy you have, and also the less tolerance you have for b.s. and games.

 

[corrector]

Most observers would consider this guy to be a Chad, and he has great hair.

If he was a chad then he would be excited about dating. He looks like a guy that gets some traction but is not getting a strong enough reciprocal interest to justify anything.

 

[The Duke]

The older you get, the less energy you have, and also the less tolerance you have for b.s. and games.

And the better you get at sniffing it out before you put a toe in it.

 

[Solomon]

And the better you get at sniffing it out before you put a toe in it.

Yup I just blocked a woman today because she wanted to bytch about her ex-boyfriend mind you I have never met her just matched with her on a swipe app. I'm not emotionally invested in hearing about you complaning about your ex and even if I was, I wouldn't care to anyway. To many women out here who are not truly single if you know what I mean it's a dealbreaker for me and a turn off

I'm at that age where I really don't give a shyt about women's sob stories anymore and will even tell them on dates if they try to go that route, no one has time to listen to someones problems when we all got our own

 

[Bible_Belt]

before you put a toe in it.

You're supposed to put your toes in there? I knew I was doing something wrong.

 

[Manure Spherian]

He makes good videos.

 

[MatureDJ]

You're supposed to put your toes in there? I knew I was doing something wrong.

It's OVER for PodaphileCels.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Not a Chad.

 

[BaronOfHair]

"Im [sic] Almost 39 And I Have Virtually NO DESIRE To Date"

And the planet is similarly filled with Explosive Ordnance Disposal Specialists who's desire to neutralize yet another IED is less ardent than anyone's zeal to sit through the surviving cast of 90210 take a crack at Shakespeare

What bearing does any of that have on YOUR ambitions and desires, OP?

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

By your mid 30s you pretty much assessed who you are as a man therefore seeking validation, confirmations or positive feedbacks no longer pushes you emotionally.

Regarding libido while it's generally still at decent level, it's not that unstoppable force you had in your early 20s while your self control and conseguence evaluation reached new hights.

Then comes the "business" thing where in your 20s a girl your age could have most men yet choosed you which proved that the attraction was genuine...by your late 30s she can hardly get committment from guys with options so she very likely will settle with any economically viable option to safeguard her life standards and retirement.

If you add all this factors, it's pretty clear why guys are not that much into dating especially with women their age.

 

[MatureDJ]

You're supposed to put your toes in there? I knew I was doing something wrong.

Think like a camel.