Do you think how hot a guys girl is is a good judge of his masculinity?

[Manure Spherian]

Yeah but we don’t want washed up post 40 year old wall women.

Should men dump their wives on their 40th birthdays?

 

[SW15]

Should men dump their wives on their 40th birthdays?

I don't think so.

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[CornbreadFed]

Should men dump their wives on their 40th birthdays?

No, that's absurd

 

[Hal9000]

I've known guys who have had hot girlfriends and those same guys have at other times had meh looking girlfriends. My opinion of the guy didn't change at all because of whether his girlfriend at the moment was hot or not. If I assume most other guys are similar (sometimes hot sometimes just OK girlfriends) why would I somehow look at them any differently than guys I know?

Its kind of like asking if I assume a guy with a nice car is somehow richer than a guy with a less nice car. I suppose its possible or perhaps the guy with the nice car owes 50k on it and has $100 to his name and the guy with the less nice car is a millionaire. I don't know so to assume anything would be foolish.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

I think the definition of masculinity may be distorted by media that often try to promote bad examples of masculinity. IRL it looks more like that e.g.:

TYPE A: 6/10 guy out of looks around 40, only natural muscles, belly, average job HOWEVER he is caring husband, great father for 2 kids, good employee, keeps good relations and vibe around himself, gets on every tough situation with initiative, slightly above average with money domestic politics-> VERDICT: 7/10 of healthy masculinity

TYPE B: 9/10 looks guy age 26, chad, emotional problems, doing drugs, drinking, heavy rotation of females of dubious sort (but hot), training from time to time at gym, some incoming issues with law, average job and no interest in developing his skills, perhaps some past issues, poor social bonding capabilities, high on egoism -> VERDICT: 2.5/10 of healthy masculinity

TYPE C: Pretty boy type doctor, 8.5/10 looks, around 33y old, going to gym regularly (but not on steroids), PhD, great job, likes to fly solo, but dates around 1 new partner per year, good at his job, rather egoistic but helpful when needed, perhaps a good father someday, perhaps no children ever, avoids conflicts or resolves them efficiently, interested in problem solving around himself or at job, keeps finances in check-> VERDICT: 9/10 of healthy masculinity

It is obvious that some females (atavistic) gravitate towards atavistic men and there's obvious magnetism about atavistic behaviour that everyone feels from time to time (usually ppl feel it more if they have not developed their character or rational thinking or neglected their development or maintenance at some point).

Since very hot females do not really need to develop their character to be interesting for vast majority of males, they do not develop it and remain atavistic therefore they like what they see when they see atavistic men.

That's why it is important to screen for high value (developed) females as HQ father and HQ mother will mosty try to develop character of their children (for female it will mean lessons like "do not date bad boys", "study to be self-sufficient", "respect yourself and others", "do not jump to man's bed too quickly", "do not get pregnant before you will finish your chosen education path" etc.). Poor quality women will not get too much of such lessons or they will look at what parents do rather than what parents tell to do (as parenting and leadership are about giving examples).

 

[Divorced w 3]

Should men dump their wives on their 40th birthdays?

I did on my 38th … would be a good poll

 

[The Duke]

No, that's absurd

@BadBoy89 curious as to your thoughts since you are adamant in regards to only being with a young 20something. They don't stay young forever. What happens when she gets old? Find a new one?

 

[Gamisch]

This is exactly how simps/ betas/ bluepilled men get in trouble. Theyll tie there self-esteem and worth to the most volatile aspect of life; a woman's beauty. Most men I know who operate like this living miserable lives.

My life advice towards men? Date down!!!!

1.Date a woman that's "a little less hot than you "( but ofcourse gets your D hard )if that makes sense. She ALWAYS gotta be on her toes. Yet, be human enough to actually like/ appreciate her. Never love them the Disney way. The love part is due to the fact she goes above and beyond for you ,a close relative to appreciation. But NOT because she's hot!!

2. Embrace the dark side. If you do get the opportunity to feck a hot woman, take it!!. Cheat? Yes whatever. Just play your damn cards right.

3. Only deal with HIGHLY INTERESTED WOMEN. A hot woman oftentimes has her own agenda.

Tldr. Take one to be your main. All the others are just there to have fun with.

 

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[CornbreadFed]

1.Date a woman that's "a little less hot than you "( but ofcourse gets your D hard )if that makes sense. She ALWAYS gotta be on her toes. Yet, be human enough to actually like/ appreciate her. Never love them the Disney way. The love part is due to the fact she goes above and beyond for you ,a close relative to appreciation. But NOT because she's hot!!

This is a reality that a lot of men do not want to accept. Women have the privilege of dating up easier, so this leaves men at this position. I even see Chads dating women below their league too. Men dating up will lose genuine desire and have to pay for it with money or their soul.

 

[BeExcellent]

To me this is a silly reductionist discussion. Way too multifactorial to make reductionist conclusions, and downright idiotic to try and conform to them.

Is a K-pop guy ever going to be Conan the Barbarian? Um, no.

But both attract women however. Your assignment as a man is to figure out what is the best way for you to present your own masculine presence. Valentino was a dandy, John Henry more a brute. You gotta find your lane & maximize your appeal there.

A clydesdale horse is never going to be a thoroughbred; a St. Bernard or laborador retriever dog is never going to be a wolf or a greyhound.

Understand yourself & what qualities you posses. Quit trying to be something you are not.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Is a K-pop guy ever going to be Conan the Barbarian? Um, no.

And as his career wanes, he can take up hobbies similar to those described here

, the likes of which will likely earn him far more marriage proposals than those he received during his 17 minutes of fame

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

None of those things guarantee anything, one day you have/are, and day you are not or you have nothing. Then what? Are you gonna hate yourself for not having those things? When people identified with things, once those things are no longer with us, we lose our identity and then we are lost.

people that say stuff like this is cope. Not to say attach yourselves to think nor should you attach your self worth but come the **** on . Why are you here on this site if you didnt want hotter girls or more girls?

 

[Gamisch]

This is a reality that a lot of men do not want to accept. Women have the privilege of dating up easier, so this leaves men at this position. I even see Chads dating women below their league too. Men dating up will lose genuine desire and have to pay for it with money or their soul.

One important component of a successful relationship can be the fact that she's complaining about your ways. But good luck achieving this with a woman who FEELS like she is above you and feels like you are easily replaced.

The latter is where we as men get confused: you might as well be the perfect placeholder for the time being, a convenient person who carries her through boredom, rough times, financial distress ect. But that does NOT mean she meant to " end life together with you" . So yes, you get to sleep with a hottie, take some pictures for the gram and you get some respect from you fellow peers. But that's about it..

A woman needs to be somewhat insecure about the relationship. This means you have to set the parameters correctly; you as a man keep leveling up while she declines due to time. Azzhole take? Perhaps. But life is a bytch so you better be an azzhole.

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

To $hit on dudes posing like girls, like you. Feminism has influenced you a lot, huh?. You don't get more women in the internet, you get more and hotter women outside. You don't need a website to teach you what you are made to do.

Then why the **** are you on this site? Don't be a smart ass lmfao

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

Nr

To $hit on dudes posing like girls, like you. Feminism has influenced you a lot, huh?. You don't get more women in the internet, you get more and hotter women outside. You don't need a website to teach you what you are made to do.

Bro dodged every question as well and resorted to personal attacks even though he's posing as well (I look better it's ok)

 

[Zack Freedom]

No

Soccer players tend to have better looking wives & girlfreinds than Professional Heavyweight Boxers & UFC fighters

Who do you think is more masculine? Cristiano Ronaldo (who banged Top models & was in a relationship with a Victoria Secret model) or Tyson Fury lol

Some guy earlier said it best. Most women in the 18-24 age range prefer the dude with an athletic look - 6"2, 180-90 lbs & a slight mix of masculine & feminine

Whenever someone has pulled interest of a girl from me in a club it's always been that kinda person & never a roided out meathead (who yeah can probably bully someone at his workplace) but can never get interest from a good looking 8 & above woman in her prime years

 

[MatureDJ]

I think RP pushes a hyper-masculine look because fitness is more in a guy’s control than other factors.

There is nothing wrong with that, but it’s not the ONLY way to attract women.

It sure beats the hell out of ValedictorianMaxxing.

 

[MatureDJ]

This is exactly how simps/ betas/ bluepilled men get in trouble. Theyll tie there self-esteem and worth to the most volatile aspect of life; a woman's beauty. Most men I know who operate like this living miserable lives.

My life advice towards men? Date down!!!!

This is called JuggernautMaxxing:

Juggernaut law

Juggernaut law is the theory that the very most unattractive women receive a surprisingly large amount of attention from men, sometimes more attention than women...

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[Mike32ct]

It sure beats the hell out of ValedictorianMaxxing.

I didn’t think what I said was controversial. Pretty boy or gym bro can work. I was explaining why I thought the latter was the more standard RP advice.

I sucked at all sports (and still do). So I just focused on grades at that time. At least the popular (e.g. athletic/sports) classmates would tell me about all the good parties (a week after they happened) lol.