“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Common Negative Statements About Women (in Society)

BadBoy89

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The title of the thread should be

Common Statements about Women In Society.

Women statements are neither “positive” or “negative”, they are statements. It’s up to the user to decide hiw they want to interpret the statement. You can’t take a subjective term and apply it to all woman

It’s the same theory as women being “good” or “bad”. They are neither. They are just women. They do what benefits them at all times.

With women, men should stop thinking in terms of “positive” and “negative” or “good” and “bad” and start thinking in terms of “benefits”.
 

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There’s a Spanish saying: “El hombre llega hasta donde la mujer lo deja,” which roughly means, “A man goes only as far as a woman allows him.” In other words, when it comes to intimacy, it’s ultimately up to the woman to decide how far things go.
 

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AWALT. all women are like that. this is not true, but i sure feels like it when your dealing with one that is like that.
 

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There’s a Spanish saying: “El hombre llega hasta donde la mujer lo deja,” which roughly means, “A man goes only as far as a woman allows him.” In other words, when it comes to intimacy, it’s ultimately up to the woman to decide how far things go.
I like this. If men truly understand this it will spare them a lot of heart ache. Ther's not a lot of guesswork when dealing with women that actually want to talk to you.

I once took a massive L in a nightclub. I tried to rizz a group of girls while waiting to get a drink, went nowhere. They were okay, they spoke with me but would instantly shut down my attempts. The bartender that served me heard some of it and he saw I was somewhat he annoyed. He laughed and the first thing he said was it won't always be like that. I was confused at first but then realized he was talking abou the girls, he told me something to effect that girls are the selectors. It struck a chord - I thought about previous times where girls made the "first move". We're brought up to think we have to "do something" but our best efforts amount to little if the target is not open to possibility from the beginning.
 

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Sounds like he made the wrong pick :p
Look. You cannot abdicate your responsibilities as a man and expect things to last. My story is elsewhere, no need to repeat.

He knows, agrees, and understands why I left. And he explained this to my son (as have I). And my son lived through my first husband's failure to behave like a man...witnessed it firsthand....and vowed never to be that way.

Nice cheap shot though. I know you couldn't resist.

Cheers
 

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Women love you for how you make them feel and/or what you can do for them. The moment this stops is the moment they lose attraction for you.

Sometimes it’s your fault through laziness, selfishness or loss of frame. Other times it’s just her feelings and you’ve done nothing .

If you want someone to love you just for being you have children, a pet or parents. Just don’t expect this from women.

One of the best pieces of advice about women I’ve heard is to add the phrase ‘right now’ to whatever she says about her feelings towards you or the relationship.

This will help you realise that her feelings are only valid at the time she expresses them and that they can change at any future moment.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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"All women complain about their boyfriend/fiancé/husband and how he's abusive, toxic, childish, yet they're still there after 20 years of relationship."

Moral: "Do women want good men? If yes, when in their life?"

This should have a single phrase, but since I'm Italian, I don't know how to write that in english (and i don't want to use AI)
 
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