Just witnessed something ugly

[CaptFinnBad]

I was out with a dog , noticed a woman saying get away from me , this is harassment.

So kept my eye on them. Quickly was able to read the situation and just observed.

It was obviously his girlfriend, the guy had his tail between his legs trying to make up with her.

She was being verbally aggressive towards him. I don't even thing he did anything bad, it looked like she was enjoying being him down, crushing is spirit and was toying with him.

He gave up, took the hit started to walk in the opposite direction.

As he passed me he looked beat down and defeated, I just "rough night mate" , he replies "yeah".

Few moments later she comes back catching up with him. Shouting all sorts of nonsense, she had a prance on her abdomen was looking super pleased with herself.

She's got a gut on her, looking pretty grotesque in her behaviour and looks. The guy was pretty good looking , he was out her league.

It was so ugly to witness. Just made me think WTF is happening to the world.


I'm getting more and more disillusioned by modern women by the day. I'm beginning to lose empathy for them.

Just feelings like they are only good for humping and dumping, for dating or mabye a relationship for a few years.

I'm around women all the time. Don't find it hard to date , women are attracted to me, I consider myself better than average when interacting with women.

Most my clients are women, so I'm constantly interacting with a large range of women. But as the years go by I'm just losing more and more respect for them because they seem to be completely bat sh1t crazy.

I was actually talking to my dad about this. He has some really cool friends, apparently they all say the same. He was sharing loads of stories.

I don't want it to be this way. I'd love a traditional relationship, get married , kids, stay together through thick and thin until the end.

It just doesn't seem like a reality anymore.

You guys finding the same ?

I interact with a women , doesn't take long before they start revealing themselves. Lol I've even start putting a mental "x" by their name in my head and think to myself , "****s sake , you're just for fun".

Wife material, they seem like unicorns in this day and age.
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I was talking about dating and relationships with a guy who's wife is dying this evening. We got into the subject because he said when his wife goes , he is just going to choose to be alone and not date. I was telling him for I feel things have totally changed recent times and it feels like the wild west out there.

Next week I'm supposed to be out with this pretty hot blonde women I know that's really into me, she slipped up though and already showed me she's not dating material. Always classed her "just for fun", genuinely thinking of cancelling and just doing DIY instead.

Don't know why seeing that couple this evening put me in such a negative spin on dating.

I suppose my faith in traditional relationships is really starting crumble. Help me hold faith guys, I want to go back to playing house and Disney one day. (Which I did for 10 years previously)

There has to be more than just ploughing through women and switching out girlfriends when things go south hasn't there?

 

[Prepostereax]

Yeah, similar ugly incident left me shaking my head.
Driving along the beach promenade, the speed limit is reduced there (handy for all the eye-candy..)
A couple decided to cross in front of me instead of waiting for me to pass.
A Latina around late 20's (but probably older) in slutwear, with a tall gringo at least 10 years her senior. She seemed way out of his league.
The white guy takes the girl's arm to guide her across expediently, as a gentleman should.
About two seconds before my vehicle would have intersected with them, the crazy biatch shook him off and spun around to berate him, in the middle of my lane!
Luckily there was no oncoming traffic, and I could divert into the other lane an instant before turning them both into roadkill..

 

[Tilex]

What is a "prance on her abdomen"?
Is that a tattoo?

 

[Clockwerk50]

I don’t know, it sounds like you’re still carrying a lot of bitterness from that past breakup, or maybe several, and it’s transferring into how you interpret everything, even random arguments between strangers. That kind of negative attitude is a trap: it narrows your perspective, makes you hyper-focus on flaws, and reinforces this idea that all women are unstable or unworthy. To be honest, that mindset sabotages your chances of ever building something real or finding something “traditional”, which is what you are looking for. If you lead with resentment and judgment, you’ll keep attracting dysfunction, or worse, imagining it where it doesn’t even exist.

 

[BaronOfHair]

You guys finding the same ?

Folks remaining in situations(be they with lovers, employers, political parties, etc etc)that most reasonably intelligent homo sapiens would deem "unsatifying", because the act of taking a break from/perhaps leaving a relationship can, in the short term, be uncomfortable?

Yep... This is more the rule than the exception. Same way war, poverty, famine, injustice, tyranny, and an overabundance of outright misery are actually the natural state of humanity. Eras of relative peace and prosperity, such as the years between The Fall Of The Berlin Wall and 9/11, are the aberrations

 

[BackInTheGame78]

People teach others how to treat them.

Weak men who allow themselves to be doormats are the cause of this, not women.

Don't confuse cause and effect.

 

[Slowhandluke]

People teach others how to treat them.

Weak men who allow themselves to be doormats are the cause of this, not women.

Don't confuse cause and effect.

Christianity a few centuries ago... and Islam now, these religions understand the female condition. This understanding is built from observation through generations of couples and families. But yet, most current men don't listen to this advice and therefore relationships have gotten worse.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

I was out with a dog , noticed a woman saying get away from me , this is harassment.

So kept my eye on them. Quickly was able to read the situation and just observed.

It was obviously his girlfriend, the guy had his tail between his legs trying to make up with her.

She was being verbally aggressive towards him. I don't even thing he did anything bad, it looked like she was enjoying being him down, crushing is spirit and was toying with him.

He gave up, took the hit started to walk in the opposite direction.

As he passed me he looked beat down and defeated, I just "rough night mate" , he replies "yeah".

Few moments later she comes back catching up with him. Shouting all sorts of nonsense, she had a prance on her abdomen was looking super pleased with herself.

She's got a gut on her, looking pretty grotesque in her behaviour and looks. The guy was pretty good looking , he was out her league.

It was so ugly to witness. Just made me think WTF is happening to the world.


I'm getting more and more disillusioned by modern women by the day. I'm beginning to lose empathy for them.

Just feelings like they are only good for humping and dumping, for dating or mabye a relationship for a few years.

I'm around women all the time. Don't find it hard to date , women are attracted to me, I consider myself better than average when interacting with women.

Most my clients are women, so I'm constantly interacting with a large range of women. But as the years go by I'm just losing more and more respect for them because they seem to be completely bat sh1t crazy.

I was actually talking to my dad about this. He has some really cool friends, apparently they all say the same. He was sharing loads of stories.

I don't want it to be this way. I'd love a traditional relationship, get married , kids, stay together through thick and thin until the end.

It just doesn't seem like a reality anymore.

You guys finding the same ?

I interact with a women , doesn't take long before they start revealing themselves. Lol I've even start putting a mental "x" by their name in my head and think to myself , "****s sake , you're just for fun".

Wife material, they seem like unicorns in this day and age.
.
I was talking about dating and relationships with a guy who's wife is dying this evening. We got into the subject because he said when his wife goes , he is just going to choose to be alone and not date. I was telling him for I feel things have totally changed recent times and it feels like the wild west out there.

Next week I'm supposed to be out with this pretty hot blonde women I know that's really into me, she slipped up though and already showed me she's not dating material. Always classed her "just for fun", genuinely thinking of cancelling and just doing DIY instead.

Don't know why seeing that couple this evening put me in such a negative spin on dating.

I suppose my faith in traditional relationships is really starting crumble. Help me hold faith guys, I want to go back to playing house and Disney one day. (Which I did for 10 years previously)

There has to be more than just ploughing through women and switching out girlfriends when things go south hasn't there?

Yeah..... at this point people realize that all the fvckboy advize here is not going to help them finding and KEEPING a wife material woman.
I keep being amazed over how much people here say they know about women without having ever been in a LTR that lasted longer then a couple of years.

After 22 years in LTRs(counting) with 5 women(counting?) and studying real world long term couples, i can tell you there is no room for disney romance from your side.

Lets be honest, male is the only romantic gender. Women are just ruthless if you show her your true feelings. As soon as you show a woman you have a weakness for her, she will exploit it to her best abillities and this is also true for LTRs.


There are 3 kinds of women:

1.) The ones you thirst for...... forget those, you will either be their lapdog or they will leave because you arent their lapdog and they can have any lapdog.

2.) The ones that thirst for you but dont pass the boner test...... forget those for obvious reasons.

3.) The ones that thirst for you and pass the boner test...... these are your wife materials.
Due to their genuine desire for you, you can implement the power dynamic so desperately needed for the survival of LTRs.
You need to set the frame for them from the start and make it clear that they are out when they are not compliant, maybe even obediant(submissive?).

You will not get your disney romance with them as they are not the ones you thirst for, BUT you can be relatively sure you keep them in line and have her raise your kids.

Oh.... and most important, even if you are looking for wife material, never ever get married...... because marriage will shift the power dynamic in favour of her and your life will be an uphill battle from there on.


The only way to asure lasting loyalty and compliance from a woman is through dominance, forget disney..... you cant be the prince in shining armor in this world, you need to be Conan the Barbarian.

 

[Desdinova]

But as the years go by I'm just losing more and more respect for them because they seem to be completely bat sh1t crazy.

All women who have been alpha-widowed are going to seem bat-5hit crazy. The longer they've been widowed, the more bat-5hit crazy they're going to seem.

I don't want it to be this way. I'd love a traditional relationship, get married , kids, stay together through thick and thin until the end.

It just doesn't seem like a reality anymore.

You guys finding the same ?

Yes, but it mostly has to do with women getting alpha-widowed before adulthood. You need to find a woman with less than five partners. Ideally one who's had one or less partners. She will be a blank slate and have a greater chance of not being "damaged" by other men. She will also happily abandon whatever life she has and take your life as her own.

 

[BaronOfHair]

All women who have been alpha-widowed are going to seem bat-5hit crazy

Alpha-widowed is less of a pre-req for that than pre-existing pedo tendencies are for those contemplating entering the seminary

 

[BeExcellent]

All women who have been alpha-widowed are going to seem bat-5hit crazy. The longer they've been widowed, the more bat-5hit crazy they're going to seem.



Yes, but it mostly has to do with women getting alpha-widowed before adulthood. You need to find a woman with less than five partners. Ideally one who's had one or less partners. She will be a blank slate and have a greater chance of not being "damaged" by other men. She will also happily abandon whatever life she has and take your life as her own.

My son did this. So far its worked out very very well.

 

[BaronOfHair]

She will be a blank slate...

Until she starts either immersing herself in Intersectionality or binge watching FOX Non-News 24/7. Count on her to become more disagreeable than a f-c-ing pit bull, newly infected with rabies, once that happens

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

I was out with a dog , noticed a woman saying get away from me , this is harassment.

So kept my eye on them. Quickly was able to read the situation and just observed.

It was obviously his girlfriend, the guy had his tail between his legs trying to make up with her.

She was being verbally aggressive towards him. I don't even thing he did anything bad, it looked like she was enjoying being him down, crushing is spirit and was toying with him.

He gave up, took the hit started to walk in the opposite direction.

As he passed me he looked beat down and defeated, I just "rough night mate" , he replies "yeah".

Few moments later she comes back catching up with him. Shouting all sorts of nonsense, she had a prance on her abdomen was looking super pleased with herself.

She's got a gut on her, looking pretty grotesque in her behaviour and looks. The guy was pretty good looking , he was out her league.

It was so ugly to witness. Just made me think WTF is happening to the world.


I'm getting more and more disillusioned by modern women by the day. I'm beginning to lose empathy for them.

Just feelings like they are only good for humping and dumping, for dating or mabye a relationship for a few years.

I'm around women all the time. Don't find it hard to date , women are attracted to me, I consider myself better than average when interacting with women.

Most my clients are women, so I'm constantly interacting with a large range of women. But as the years go by I'm just losing more and more respect for them because they seem to be completely bat sh1t crazy.

I was actually talking to my dad about this. He has some really cool friends, apparently they all say the same. He was sharing loads of stories.

I don't want it to be this way. I'd love a traditional relationship, get married , kids, stay together through thick and thin until the end.

It just doesn't seem like a reality anymore.

You guys finding the same ?

I interact with a women , doesn't take long before they start revealing themselves. Lol I've even start putting a mental "x" by their name in my head and think to myself , "****s sake , you're just for fun".

Wife material, they seem like unicorns in this day and age.
.
I was talking about dating and relationships with a guy who's wife is dying this evening. We got into the subject because he said when his wife goes , he is just going to choose to be alone and not date. I was telling him for I feel things have totally changed recent times and it feels like the wild west out there.

Next week I'm supposed to be out with this pretty hot blonde women I know that's really into me, she slipped up though and already showed me she's not dating material. Always classed her "just for fun", genuinely thinking of cancelling and just doing DIY instead.

Don't know why seeing that couple this evening put me in such a negative spin on dating.

I suppose my faith in traditional relationships is really starting crumble. Help me hold faith guys, I want to go back to playing house and Disney one day. (Which I did for 10 years previously)

There has to be more than just ploughing through women and switching out girlfriends when things go south hasn't there?

Its not so much the women that is the problem (yes some are hopeless) but the fact that men dont know how to interact and most importantly understand female nature. Sounds like the dude you mentioned above is ignorant of redpill knowledge. If he knew it heh wouldnt be in the position hes in.

 

[Chow Mein]

Yeah..... at this point people realize that all the fvckboy advize here is not going to help them finding and KEEPING a wife material woman.
I keep being amazed over how much people here say they know about women without having ever been in a LTR that lasted longer then a couple of years.

After 22 years in LTRs(counting) with 5 women(counting?) and studying real world long term couples, i can tell you there is no room for disney romance from your side.

Lets be honest, male is the only romantic gender. Women are just ruthless if you show her your true feelings. As soon as you show a woman you have a weakness for her, she will exploit it to her best abillities and this is also true for LTRs.


There are 3 kinds of women:

1.) The ones you thirst for...... forget those, you will either be their lapdog or they will leave because you arent their lapdog and they can have any lapdog.

2.) The ones that thirst for you but dont pass the boner test...... forget those for obvious reasons.

3.) The ones that thirst for you and pass the boner test...... these are your wife materials.
Due to their genuine desire for you, you can implement the power dynamic so desperately needed for the survival of LTRs.
You need to set the frame for them from the start and make it clear that they are out when they are not compliant, maybe even obediant(submissive?).

You will not get your disney romance with them as they are not the ones you thirst for, BUT you can be relatively sure you keep them in line and have her raise your kids.

Oh.... and most important, even if you are looking for wife material, never ever get married...... because marriage will shift the power dynamic in favour of her and your life will be an uphill battle from there on.


The only way to asure lasting loyalty and compliance from a woman is through dominance, forget disney..... you cant be the prince in shining armor in this world, you need to be Conan the Barbarian.

You can easily counter everything you’ve listed by having options. Women will give you crap for it, but they eventually know that they are simply that, they put in more work with that knowledge.
Women are wild…you just have to be the one that tames them down

And trust me brotha, LTR doesn’t even start until after the 3rd year and living together

 

[Chow Mein]

All women who have been alpha-widowed are going to seem bat-5hit crazy. The longer they've been widowed, the more bat-5hit crazy they're going to seem.



Yes, but it mostly has to do with women getting alpha-widowed before adulthood. You need to find a woman with less than five partners. Ideally one who's had one or less partners. She will be a blank slate and have a greater chance of not being "damaged" by other men. She will also happily abandon whatever life she has and take your life as her own.

Welcome back, brotha.
Awesome insight, as always.

 

[Bokanovsky]

People teach others how to treat them.

Weak men who allow themselves to be doormats are the cause of this, not women.

Don't confuse cause and effect.

And who teaches men to be doormats for women? Usually their mothers (more often than not, single mothers).

 

[Bokanovsky]

I'm getting more and more disillusioned by modern women by the day. I'm beginning to lose empathy for them.

You should not have empathy for women. Having empathy for an individual woman, if she happens to be a good person, is obviously fine. But having empathy for the female gender in general is blue pill mentality. Women are no the "fair sex", your "better half" or some other outdated trope. The sooner we get rid of the last vestiges of so-called "chivalry" the better.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

And who teaches men to be doormats for women? Usually their mothers (more often than not, single mothers).

Society these days unfortunately. But every person has a choice to make in their lives. Being a passenger in your own life isn't an excuse.

 

[Manure Spherian]

You guys finding the same ?

Yes, but I wouldn’t have sex, marry, or “date” or have a “relationship” with women you’ve described. I’m married, but not to such a woman.

I think men who ***** excessively about women should logically avoid women or go to hookers.

 

[Smok1nAce]

Men and women can’t be friends especially nowadays. It’s not a bad thing it’s just better for you and her that way.

The problem is so many men over think things. Therese no secret sauce or magic in any of it.
In 2025 is cheaper and better for you in the long run to hire a professional if you just want to ****.
In 2025 these women are surrounded by beta men who think just cause they have a wife, gf or significant other they understand women.
In 2025 you typical man from century’s ago is either single or with a foreign woman. This is at a macro level and with all your high level men.

If you dont know to be a man then your gonna have a life like OP described or worse.

The only reason the “fuk boy” player age is drying out is because feminism has basically taken the shame away from prostitution. Unless you want to waste your time courting a women that you only see as a pump in dump it’s cheap and more time effective to hire a professional or dare I say Phub.

The only reason I describe and go to prostitution is because most (almost all) modern women are *****s. And once you’ve been with enough (either or) you know what you’re getting involved in. *****s aren’t inherently bad (depending on your expectations) but they have their limitations just like every other person with a label on them. *****s are basically one trick ponys and asking for anything more is just like trying to get a dog to talk or drive a car.


Like the above post women respond to dominance and direction. Modern women are constantly fighting for control over men, once you realize this and recognize it you basically mastered 75% of the “game”. The more you have to assert your dominance the more control she trying to gain over you.
If you tell your girl take your clothes of and get on your back and she says anything other then yes it’s a play for control and your dominance. These women aren't stupid.

All this is really just introspective nonsense, just like the color pills, mgtow, etc. At the end of the day if your a man with a man’s mindset this should all be as clear as day. This is a man’s world and will remain a man’s world.

What Op describe is becoming more common because smart men recognize the modern climate of things and see right through these women (*****s) and women looove this. They will continue to push the envelope for the emotional tingles and they probably don’t mean a word of it. But because OP doesn’t understand women he takes to heart like it means anything else. Men never look for respect in women, never.