CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
1. The Economic Dead Zone Trap
In today’s world, women often get a head start in their careers. Thanks to early social support, better academic performance, and strong entry level opportunities, many women are ahead of men by the time they reach their mid-twenties. Meanwhile, a lot of men between the ages of 24 and 40 are stuck in what I call the Economic Dead Zone. They are not making enough money to be taken seriously by women their age, and they often lack the time, energy, or freedom to date younger or less financially demanding women.
Picture a World War One battlefield. On one side are younger men, broke men, and low-income guys who still attract women for short term flings/casual entertainment and are viable with the largest dating pool in the market...lower status & young women. On the other side are wealthy and high-status men who get access to almost every woman. In the middle stands the average man. He is decent, hardworking, and stable, but he is ignored by women chasing either fun or status. He is not reckless enough to be exciting, and not rich enough to be seen as long-term potential by women his age making more money than him. He becomes invisible.
Many men try to escape this dead zone by mimicking the broke and reckless crowd. They spend all their time, energy, and money chasing women in an effort to compete. They go out constantly, overextend themselves, and pour resources into validation rather than value. But this only leads to stagnation. They burn out. They fall further behind. And the gap between them and the high-status group continues to grow.
The real way out is different. It starts with accepting the hard truth. A man has to stop chasing attention and start building leverage. That means focusing on career growth, financial strength, personal discipline, and long-term value. The dating market rewards progress, not desperation. When you level up, your options increase. Until then, the dead zone will keep you trapped until you die by a mortar shell.
2. Hypergamy and the SMV Imbalance
Dating today is not local anymore. Thanks to dating apps, social media, and travel culture, the average woman can interact with high-value men across the country or even the world. Women who would have once settled down with someone in their town are now casually dating or hooking up with men well above their own sexual market value. Why? Because they can. And those men are saying yes.
This creates an imbalance. A woman who is a six or seven in looks might be sleeping with men who are nines or tens. That experience raises her expectations. Suddenly, the average guy no longer feels good enough to her, even if he is actually the best match long term. This is not entirely her fault either. These high-value men are giving her attention, showing her a good time, and in some cases even pretending to offer more. As a result, when the average man steps in, she compares him to a fantasy and finds him lacking aka the alpha widow syndrome.
This leads to a dating pool where women hold out for the top five percent of men, while the rest are just SOL.
3. Lack of Game and Male Authenticity
Let’s be honest. Most men today are failing to make a good impression. They do not have social awareness, they lack confidence, and they often present themselves in ways that instantly turn women off. Some are overly passive and afraid to lead. Others try to fake confidence by copying red pill influencers or pretending to be the nice guy, only to turn bitter when things do not go their way.
Think of dating like a job interview. Women are the screeners. They are constantly filtering out guys who give off bad signals. If you come across as insecure, arrogant, or fake, you are getting rejected before you even get a chance to connect. And yes, women are paying attention. I have seen the messages in their dating apps and social media inboxes. I have even made female profiles just to watch how men behave. Most are not even in the running.
Do most women suck and have high standards? Yes, but I cannot just blame women without stating the elephant in the room. The problem is that too many men are either not putting in the work or trying to be someone they are not. If you want better results, you need to improve your real self, not act like a copy of someone else.
In today’s world, women often get a head start in their careers. Thanks to early social support, better academic performance, and strong entry level opportunities, many women are ahead of men by the time they reach their mid-twenties. Meanwhile, a lot of men between the ages of 24 and 40 are stuck in what I call the Economic Dead Zone. They are not making enough money to be taken seriously by women their age, and they often lack the time, energy, or freedom to date younger or less financially demanding women.
Picture a World War One battlefield. On one side are younger men, broke men, and low-income guys who still attract women for short term flings/casual entertainment and are viable with the largest dating pool in the market...lower status & young women. On the other side are wealthy and high-status men who get access to almost every woman. In the middle stands the average man. He is decent, hardworking, and stable, but he is ignored by women chasing either fun or status. He is not reckless enough to be exciting, and not rich enough to be seen as long-term potential by women his age making more money than him. He becomes invisible.
Many men try to escape this dead zone by mimicking the broke and reckless crowd. They spend all their time, energy, and money chasing women in an effort to compete. They go out constantly, overextend themselves, and pour resources into validation rather than value. But this only leads to stagnation. They burn out. They fall further behind. And the gap between them and the high-status group continues to grow.
The real way out is different. It starts with accepting the hard truth. A man has to stop chasing attention and start building leverage. That means focusing on career growth, financial strength, personal discipline, and long-term value. The dating market rewards progress, not desperation. When you level up, your options increase. Until then, the dead zone will keep you trapped until you die by a mortar shell.
2. Hypergamy and the SMV Imbalance
Dating today is not local anymore. Thanks to dating apps, social media, and travel culture, the average woman can interact with high-value men across the country or even the world. Women who would have once settled down with someone in their town are now casually dating or hooking up with men well above their own sexual market value. Why? Because they can. And those men are saying yes.
This creates an imbalance. A woman who is a six or seven in looks might be sleeping with men who are nines or tens. That experience raises her expectations. Suddenly, the average guy no longer feels good enough to her, even if he is actually the best match long term. This is not entirely her fault either. These high-value men are giving her attention, showing her a good time, and in some cases even pretending to offer more. As a result, when the average man steps in, she compares him to a fantasy and finds him lacking aka the alpha widow syndrome.
This leads to a dating pool where women hold out for the top five percent of men, while the rest are just SOL.
3. Lack of Game and Male Authenticity
Let’s be honest. Most men today are failing to make a good impression. They do not have social awareness, they lack confidence, and they often present themselves in ways that instantly turn women off. Some are overly passive and afraid to lead. Others try to fake confidence by copying red pill influencers or pretending to be the nice guy, only to turn bitter when things do not go their way.
Think of dating like a job interview. Women are the screeners. They are constantly filtering out guys who give off bad signals. If you come across as insecure, arrogant, or fake, you are getting rejected before you even get a chance to connect. And yes, women are paying attention. I have seen the messages in their dating apps and social media inboxes. I have even made female profiles just to watch how men behave. Most are not even in the running.
Do most women suck and have high standards? Yes, but I cannot just blame women without stating the elephant in the room. The problem is that too many men are either not putting in the work or trying to be someone they are not. If you want better results, you need to improve your real self, not act like a copy of someone else.
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