Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Dude!! There was a shooting in Florida State University

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It was a 20 year old who got a hold of his parent's weapons. I can't find any description of the shooter's bio just yet to make any judgements, But I do know his state of mind wasn't right.


 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mass shootings are often linked to incel status.

The Virginia Tech shooting in 2007 was perpetrated by an incel who was pissed about being an incel. He did also have mental illness diagnoses in his past.
 

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I go there. It was truly traumatizing.

He opened gunfire around 11:57 at the Student Union. My boyfriend and I were about 20 minutes away. I had a class at 1:20 and we were going to stop by there for a bite to eat. We had someone running with tears in her eyes warning us to NOT go anywhere further.
We have class on Mondays. And finals. I guess they’re expecting us to continue as normal as though two people haven’t died and others in the hospital. We have ONE day off for a mass shooting even though we had a week off for a snow day.

My classmates are being interviewed by CBS right now. This is insane.

The motives? Who cares. Some people say he was bullied, some say he was a supremacist, some say he hated women. It doesn’t matter, no sane person does this to innocent people. I don’t care if he was a virgin or an Incel this is no excuse for violence.
 

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I go there. It was truly traumatizing.
I can imagine it is traumatizing from what you've already said.

He opened gunfire around 11:57 at the Student Union. My boyfriend and I were about 20 minutes away. I had a class at 1:20 and we were going to stop by there for a bite to eat. We had someone running with tears in her eyes warning us to NOT go anywhere further.
It is wild to think that 20 minutes is the difference between you being a gunshot victim and potentially dying and you being alive and healthy right now. It is something that many would have difficulty processing.

We have class on Mondays. And finals. I guess they’re expecting us to continue as normal as though two people haven’t died and others in the hospital. We have ONE day off for a mass shooting even though we had a week off for a snow day.
That's extremely frustrating. I was a college student from 2001-2005.

In Fall 2001, I was early in my freshman year when 9/11 happened. My campus was not near New York City or Washington DC.

9/11 happened on a Tuesday morning. I had a test scheduled in one of my Tuesday afternoon classes. The professor did not postpone the test despite the greatest tragedy on our nation's soil since Pearl Harbor in 1941, which was 60 years earlier at the time. That professor was quite insensitive.

Taking classes on Monday is going to be difficult. I have empathy for you.
 

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Taking classes on Monday is going to be difficult. I have empathy for you.
Hi @SW15, thank you for your response and empathy. It is still difficult to process and still feels little unreal. The Student Union at Florida State truly felt like the safest place on campus, and it sucks that illusion is ruined to me now. Seeing people run for their lives was harrowing. The peace has been disturbed at a place where we were just trying to get an education.

The fact that so many of us students were so close to the area and keep thinking, god, if we just chose a different path that day or arrived earlier, what would have happened?

Not to mention, the shooter’s gun jammed several times as he reloaded and pointed it at people. It could have been so much worse.

The fact that your Professor didn’t postpone the test on the day of 9/11 is just unbelievable. If I were you, I would’ve gone home and reported him to the administration. I guess he had no heart or didn’t care about anything else about history. What a bot.

If there’s anything good that came out of the shooting, is that I’m now more grateful than ever for my life. To think that an hour before the incident my main concerns was finding a parking spot just seems so trivial now. Life is so precious.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hi @SW15, thank you for your response and empathy. It is still difficult to process and still feels little unreal. The Student Union at Florida State truly felt like the safest place on campus, and it sucks that illusion is ruined to me now. Seeing people run for their lives was harrowing. The peace has been disturbed at a place where we were just trying to get an education.

The fact that so many of us students were so close to the area and keep thinking, god, if we just chose a different path that day or arrived earlier, what would have happened?

Not to mention, the shooter’s gun jammed several times as he reloaded and pointed it at people. It could have been so much worse.
Every one of your feelings is normal and it will take time to process.

That is a valid point about the shooter's gun.

The fact that your Professor didn’t postpone the test on the day of 9/11 is just unbelievable. If I were you, I would’ve gone home and reported him to the administration. I guess he had no heart or didn’t care about anything else about history. What a bot.
It was terrible to have to take that test on the afternoon of 9/11. The professor's rationale was that we all studied for it on 9/9 and 9/10 and should have been prepared.

Other people had to do stuff on 9/11. McDonald's employees outside of the attack zone had to show up to serve customers. Auto mechanics worked on cars on 9/11. Plumbers dealt with piping and toilet issues that day. Hospitals outside the attack zone were business as usual. Physical therapists saw patients that day.

If there’s anything good that came out of the shooting, is that I’m now more grateful than ever for my life. To think that an hour before the incident my main concerns was finding a parking spot just seems so trivial now. Life is so precious.
Yes, that is the kind of thing that happens after a tragedy.

It is good you are unharmed. Your family is happy about that. Both you and your boyfriend survived unharmed.
 

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I go there. It was truly traumatizing.

He opened gunfire around 11:57 at the Student Union. My boyfriend and I were about 20 minutes away. I had a class at 1:20 and we were going to stop by there for a bite to eat. We had someone running with tears in her eyes warning us to NOT go anywhere further.
We have class on Mondays. And finals. I guess they’re expecting us to continue as normal as though two people haven’t died and others in the hospital. We have ONE day off for a mass shooting even though we had a week off for a snow day.

My classmates are being interviewed by CBS right now. This is insane.

The motives? Who cares. Some people say he was bullied, some say he was a supremacist, some say he hated women. It doesn’t matter, no sane person does this to innocent people. I don’t care if he was a virgin or an Incel this is no excuse for violence.
I am sorry about this. Hey you mentioned " boyfriend". Are you a woman?
 

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Sorry for your trauma; I wouldn't necessarily buy all that you're being told though. A lot of these "events" are sketchy af
 

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Dude....you gotta think about the state of mind these dudes are in....maybe if they found this site or something, we could have saved some lives. Society teaches how to make money or how to get degrees or such and such but they don't teach some basic lessons on how to feel good without external validation and basic spiritual education/foundation. That's why I want to write a couple of books on these topics someday, I just need a good publisher.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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But I do know his state of mind wasn't right
Yep. That he didn't instead drop by The Majestic Theatre in San Antonio on the night Rogan was taping Burn The Boats-arsenal in tow-and rid the planet of a bona fide pestilence, is testament to this
 

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Dude....you gotta think about the state of mind these dudes are in....maybe if they found this site or something, we could have saved some lives. Society teaches how to make money or how to get degrees or such and such but they don't teach some basic lessons on how to feel good without external validation and basic spiritual education/foundation. That's why I want to write a couple of books on these topics someday, I just need a good publisher.
You need to advertise your YouTube channel ASAP to save these men @Travel memoir21
 

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You need to advertise your YouTube channel ASAP to save these men @Travel memoir21
Lol....I just made a new video...but I only got 8 views. It seems whenever I make videos about sight seeing, playing pick up basketball, going to the mall or seeing some cool mountain...I get a ton of views...but whenever I make some life changing advise that can benefit someone, my ratings starts going down and no one is interested.....maybe I'm shadow banned in that concept...you just never know.
 

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Mass shootings are often linked to incel status.

The Virginia Tech shooting in 2007 was perpetrated by an incel who was pissed about being an incel. He did also have mental illness diagnoses in his past.
Not just incel status but being a loner/social reject in general. When was the last time a mass shooter was a quarterback on the football team or one of the "cool kids"?
 

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We have class on Mondays. And finals. I guess they’re expecting us to continue as normal as though two people haven’t died and others in the hospital
Fate bestowed a most unique experience upon your classmates who are studying taxidermy: Very few in the history of our species spent finals stuffing clay into the carcasses of folks who'd been their lovers, roommates, and weed dealers, just a few days earlier

Shrewd move on the administration's part, offering the families of those cut down free services(courtesy of their surviving students), in exchange for said families agreeing to not slap FSU with wrongful death suits... They get to preserve John Jr or Little Suzy in a state of perpetual youth, and the university isn't out a few million bucks. Even the most grim events can be turned to our advantage, provided we're game to make lemonade out of the barrel of lemons life sometimes hurls at us
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Lol....I just made a new video...but I only got 8 views. It seems whenever I make videos about sight seeing, playing pick up basketball, going to the mall or seeing some cool mountain...I get a ton of views...but whenever I make some life changing advise that can benefit someone, my ratings starts going down and no one is interested.....maybe I'm shadow banned in that concept...you just never know.
Maybe that advise isn't so hot, and maybe people just want you to start a working out channel.
 

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I was near it, within 15 miles. I drove there all the way from Miami to visit a DMV.

It appears the guy had some sort of mental illness. That combined with conspiracy theories and you got a violent nervous break down. Now he's dead, he'll be dying every day for the next 10 to 15 years, before his actual death. He should have shot himself that day. Retard.
 

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I was near it, within 15 miles. I drove there all the way from Miami to visit a DMV.

It appears the guy had some sort of mental illness. That combined with conspiracy theories and you got a violent nervous break down. Now he's dead, he'll be dying every day for the next 10 to 15 years, before his actual death. He should have shot himself that day. Retard.
What are you talking about? Are you talking about some sort of Purgatory or something?
 

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He will be put on death row, that's not life. He'll be dying there everyday.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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