“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do you guys shop for cars?

Bokanovsky

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Toyota / Honda all crap boys.

Made in Japan what counts.

If it's Toyota and not made in Japan then it's as good as chevy. Look at door seal stickers for the country of origin.
I don't think this is necessarily true. Cars like Camry and Corolla are made in North America and they last petty much forever. Granted, these are very basic and boring cars but that's kind of the point.
 

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Japanese men have a certain culture. They go to work early in the morning, and leave late at night, and if they get fired they commit harakiri. There is so much precision on Japanese made cars that it's crazy. With right hand drive true Japanese cars, you drive them, and you expect it to die by now, or at least to break something, but no, it just drives.
 

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Head gaskets fail for two reasons:

1. Gasket Material Failure
2. Overheating.

Its almost always #2.
Hi Duke,
Yeah,everything you say is right....I have lived with old cars for most of my life and still do....An old head gasket will start weeping water before failure...If spotted early,tightening down the head using a tension wrench, will often give you a few more years...To detect leaks I put the car up against a kerb and while an assistant checks the opened radiator,rev the car in gear against the kerb,when defective you will see the bubbles of leaking air.
 

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Hi Duke,
Yeah,everything you say is right....I have lived with old cars for most of my life and still do....An old head gasket will start weeping water before failure...If spotted early,tightening down the head using a tension wrench, will often give you a few more years...To detect leaks I put the car up against a kerb and while an assistant checks the opened radiator,rev the car in gear against the kerb,when defective you will see the bubbles of leaking air.
That sounds old school. Usually a combustion test is done and there's another test but I forgot what it's called
 

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That sounds old school. Usually a combustion test is done and there's another test but I forgot what it's called
The other way to test cooling systems is to pressurize system and see if it holds. Sometimes you will hear or see the leak.

Scara's test might be old school but it accomplishes the same thing as a combustion test does and it doesn't require special equipment that you might not have.
 

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The other way to test cooling systems is to pressurize system and see if it holds. Sometimes you will hear or see the leak.

Scara's test might be old school but it accomplishes the same thing as a combustion test does and it doesn't require special equipment that you might not have.
Yeah, the way I found out was when attempting to bleed air out of my cooling system after a flush. The coolant would never stop burping, no matter how long I bled it. I did a combustion test and it passed so I was scratching my head for weeks. I finally brought it to a mechanic and he had confirmed the heads were warped and the gasket had to be replaced
 

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Prius from 2010 to 2015 were made defectively and the head gaskets go at 150k miles. There is a sensor that gets clogged and the coolant doesn't circulate like it should.

I once thought a bad head gasket would always display itself by making the oil look like chocolate milk. That is common, but not always accurate if the head is leaking into the coolant. In that case, the engine gets hot and after shutting it off, a bubbling sound can be heard. Those are combustion gasses being bubbled through the coolant, because the head is leaking on that side. I'll always check the oil when looking at an old vehicle to buy, but I also have the seller run it at idle for a bit while we talk to see if the engine gets hot.
 

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Hey BPH if you know Spanish or know anyone who does, you can find good deals on Facebook Marketplace from ads written in Spanish. I was in the market for a car a couple of years ago and remember the cars on those ads being at around a 10% discount compared to comparable cars with ads in English, in some cases around 15%.
 

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Hi BibleBelt,
" I once thought a bad head gasket would always display itself by making the oil look like chocolate milk."....No,not always,only if there is a leak from a combustion chamber across to an Oil way...Happened to me once and I had froth like a milk shake coming out of the Tappet cover vent,even partially blew the dipstick out...
 

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What did you get?
2008 Dodge Ram 1500 with 120k miles.

Definitely paid more than I want to, but it's a 15 minute drive to pick it up and this sh** has already taken me 3 weeks with dealing with crappy listings, sold listings, sellers not getting back to me with info, etc.

So yeah.
 

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2008 Dodge Ram 1500 with 120k miles.

Definitely paid more than I want to, but it's a 15 minute drive to pick it up and this sh** has already taken me 3 weeks with dealing with crappy listings, sold listings, sellers not getting back to me with info, etc.

So yeah.
Yea, it sounds like doing the due diligence for every single car is not only a job in in-self but exhausting as well.

Good luck with the new truck.
 

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Well.
I've started with a Mini R56, then swapped to a Fiat 500. Always received compliments.
But now I'm going with a Toyota Yaris, and I' wont care.
My focus is investiments, not women.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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2008 Dodge Ram 1500 with 120k miles.
How did you get a 2008 Dodge Ram with minimal rusting? Rusting of older cars is a problem in your area. The Northeast and Midwest are known for that.
 
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