“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Should you skip a week of dating?

AM349

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Hi guys,

As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.

Most guys advice to see her only 1 time a week, but in the long run this will get predictable. She knows that she has acces to you at least once a week because their is a patron.

What I have been expirementing with is skipping a week to keep her on the edge.
So it goes as follow:
Week 1: date
Week 2: date
Week 3: no date (just saying i am busy or something)
Week 4: date

And repeating this over and over.

What do you guys think? Is this a valid method or just some bull**** and that it is fine to see her each week?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Uhh...why?

If she wants to see you every week (to have you bang her brains out, presumably) why would you want to fake disinterest so she starts shopping elsewhere?

Having a genuine reason for pushing back a visit is one thing, but don't play these games. Most women will want to see you at least once a week to get their rocks off (assuming they aren't seeing other guys to scratch that itch). So if you do this enough times, she will start seeing other people who will make that accommodation.
 

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OPs thread in 2 months will be as folllows:

"I just don't know what happened to her. Everything was going great! "

Don't play games. Do what makes you happy. Bang her every other day of you want or once a week. Whatever makes you happy
 

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It's fine to see her each week. Keep the momentum going.
 

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Stop overthinking and do whatever you want.

The frequency of seeing a chick doesn’t matter because as soon as a dude stops giving her attention for 5 mins she’s off to the next.
 

The Diver

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Hi guys,

As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.

Most guys advice to see her only 1 time a week, but in the long run this will get predictable. She knows that she has acces to you at least once a week because their is a patron.

What I have been expirementing with is skipping a week to keep her on the edge.
So it goes as follow:
Week 1: date
Week 2: date
Week 3: no date (just saying i am busy or something)
Week 4: date

And repeating this over and over.

What do you guys think? Is this a valid method or just some bull**** and that it is fine to see her each week?
Yes, this is BS.
If she's really interested in you, she'll be happy seeing you more than once a week.
 

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Hi guys,

As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.

Most guys advice to see her only 1 time a week, but in the long run this will get predictable. She knows that she has acces to you at least once a week because their is a patron.

What I have been expirementing with is skipping a week to keep her on the edge.
So it goes as follow:
Week 1: date
Week 2: date
Week 3: no date (just saying i am busy or something)
Week 4: date

And repeating this over and over.

What do you guys think? Is this a valid method or just some bull**** and that it is fine to see her each week?
The trick is to actually have more in your life other than some broad. If you're ONLY using this as a technique your dishonesty will soon be uncovered
 

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As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.
No, "unpredictable" to you is just another way of saying you have no clue what you're doing right. To make a girl crazy about you, you have to show her the full extent of what you can give to her, but not easily give it to her before she has proven herself worthy of you.

When she knows what she could gain, but you don't give it easily, that's what will drive her crazy about you. You only give her breadcrumbs of it to keep her motivated enough to not give up and consider you "out of her league".
 

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When I was single & dating, I would see my main squeeze 3-5 times a week. Once a week is simply not tolerable.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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