Family respect

[jhonny9546]

If your family doesn't respect you, that's not a good thing.
If you have lost respect from your family, how and why would you regain it?

My family came to the point to respect more my BIL than me.

 

[BaronOfHair]

My family came to the point to respect more my BIL than me.

Your BIL isn't predisposed towards regularly asking bizarre, obliquely worded questions, all for the sake of appearing profound. Thus, he gets respect

 

[sevbucmash]

You know what Michael did to Fredo, don't you?

 

[jhonny9546]

Your BIL isn't predisposed towards regularly asking bizarre, obliquely worded questions, all for the sake of appearing profound

Well. no one said anything about it.

You know what Michael did to Fredo, don't you?

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[jhonny9546]

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...re-any-way-to-get-it-back.273804/post-2936738


Like this comment here says, you can lose respect from a woman in a relationship, but you can pursue her, learn the lesson, and develop more self-respect for yourself.

However, understanding why your family lost respect for you and how to regain it involves a different set of challenges.

What I’ve noticed is that I’m not the type of person who gets angry during discussions. I really don’t. I stay calm in most situations where others might get upset. This is also when I notice women getting angry with me because I don’t express anger. But I know I’m on the right track; I feel good instead. So why should I feel the need to show that I should be angry? I won’t.

This is completely opposite to my brother-in-law, who gets angry and upset easily.

 

[oOh Nasty]

Hey brother. After reading so many of your threads and resisting from responding to them...I have to say. You care way too much about the wrong things. If your family doesn't respect you, move on and build your life. Start taking the responses you get on this forum seriously. You seem to ignore a lot of good advice that people give you and end up asking a similar question the next day.

 

[jhonny9546]

You seem to ignore a lot of good advice that people give you and end up asking a similar question the next day.

Actually, this is the contrary.
Because I want to know more about it. So i'm interested instead of non interested.

Never spoke with her again for a out 3 months, after that the dynamic changed.

Now she respect you?

If you're not showing anger cause you wanna be seen as

I don't really have hunger or hate except for very few things.
For an instance, if you phisically touch someone in my family, I feel the "animal" urge to protect em.
So I'll try to control, but somehow I'll be angry.

But, if a woman it's screaming or **** testing me, I'll just be calm.

 

[jhonny9546]

Are you calm or you show anger?

I have a fire inside of me. When I get angry, this fire increases in size, but I must have been so "submissive" my entire life that I've innately learned how to control the anger.
I mean, I still feel the intensity inside me, like wanting to crack the wall, but I'll never do that.
In fact, I usually see the guys who get women easily, but those guys are really reactive and easily angered.

 

[jhonny9546]

Volatile emotions show that someone hasn't matured yet.

Volatile emotions: This is the point. So why women in those LTR don't leave those men?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If your family doesn't respect you, that's not a good thing.
If you have lost respect from your family, how and why would you regain it?

My family came to the point to respect more my BIL than me.

Half of all families are completely dysfunctional, not exactly sure that's a good measuring stick by itself.

 

[jhonny9546]

Bad judgment. Big red flag.

Let's say those people are in a 5 year LTR with kids.
Now, after the "cultural bluepill" they also have the "child bluepill" to help them excuse why they're "suffering" into this LTR.
Until the child become adult, then they'll separate.

Half of all families are completely dysfunctional, not exactly sure that's a good measuring stick by itself.

It is not, and so we want to know which are the functional ones, and try to replicate those if you're interested in raising a family.