"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to learn English like a native

nelysses

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I know ı shouldn't ask this here but I must..

As you know, I live in Turkey and study medicine.

Although I love my country very much, sometimes it becomes unbearable.
In 1 day;
- A 19-year-old boy killed 2 girls. He cut off the head of one of girls and threw it in front of his mother. Yes, it's not a joke... (stupid incels are also praising what the kid did right now....
It even turned out that they blackmailed little girls on Discord and took pictures of them...
-2 men harassed a girl on the street. And they didn't even get a punishment from the government. They arrested the men again because there was a reaction on Twitter,
-A woman with a rifle took doctors hostage for no reason...

refugees keep coming and they live better than Turkish people. Everyone is so tense for these reasons and people even die in traffic. A cardiology doctor was shot in the head and killed in a hospital 2 years ago.

So yes. I don't even want to live in this country anymore. But I need to learn the language and study for another country's specialization exam. Since my English is already like B1, I thought it could be America. Maybe I can study for USMLE.
But I'm having trouble with English. What do you think I can do?
Unfortunately, I'm really bored and there's no one around me I can ask this to.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nelysses

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I know most of you guys are native, didn't learn after 20 age but no ideas?
 

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How are you having trouble with English?

If you didn't use Google translate or some other translation service for your initial post, you already are better at English than more than half of Americans.

I'd suggest watching shows and movies in English to help.
 

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I have a friend whose parents came to America from Jordan maybe 25 years ago, the father is a doctor. I believe the mother (who could speak English, but not well) actually paid for a service where she would Polycom (think predecessor to Skype-ish) with an American maybe 2-3 hours a week for about a year before they came to America. I think a big part of it was getting more familiar with the dialect and conversational English, as opposed to being a learning course.

They were very well off before they came to America, actually the mother had some level of royal pedigree, so I imagine the service was expensive, but I'm sure there are similar options today that cost less given the availability of videoconferencing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

nelysses

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Your written English is better than that of a typical young American, if that helps at all. If you want to learn to speak better, find someone and talk to them.
How are you having trouble with English?

If you didn't use Google translate or some other translation service for your initial post, you already are better at English than more than half of Americans.

I'd suggest watching shows and movies in English to help.
I just use translator for some words. I still have a B1 English for daily things. But when it's about job, I have to learn too good. Thank you guys.
 
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