"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Manosphere Is One Of The least attractive "Hobbies" To Women!

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am quite amazed that anime & comic books are OK with more than 1/4 of women.

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Why would anyone think women would like men spending time learning about how to avoid their traps and games and give themselves the upper hand?

It would be like expecting the pony express to like jets for delivering packages. It operates against them.
 

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Some of the tings regarded as a 'hobby' these days :rolleyes:

Pron, Clubbing, Makeup, Marijuana, Drinking, Arguing Online.... a hobby?
 

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Of course as a hobby, you don't want to do any of that professionally, would you?

I'm a professional medical cannabis user, you don't think I'd rather keep recreational drugs as recreation?
I'm quite partial to an occasional 'edible' myself :cool:

Wouldn't classify it as a hobby though :lol:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I the only one who finds it weird that anyone, men included, would consider whatever the manosphere actually is to be a "hobby". Ideology maybe for some, but definitely not a hobby. I guess I would agree that it would be unattractive if someone identified the "manosphere" as an integral part of their identity.

A lot of the rest of the list is pretty obvious, not gonna argue with many of those. Of course you should always consider the composition of the sample size, manner in which the survey was conducted (choosing from a list of hobbies or participants identifying them on their own).

I'm shocked that video games aren't even on the list, I would've thought that to be a slam dunk unattractive hobby, and video games certainly are a hobby, unlike "arguing online" or some of the others.
 
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