Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Have you watched any of her videos? What do you think of her advise?
I've seen some of her YouTube videos, but never bought any of her products. I think she's fairly mainstream, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. I watched her about 10 years ago, before I heard about the Red Pill. My impression of her after watching several of her videos is that she covers some of the very basic concepts such as: you should be confident, and you should put yourself out there, et cetera. I don't think she's Red Pill though. Just my opinion.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I did watch some of her videos a long time ago. I thought the advice was solid but rather basic. Generally speaking, you are going to get better advice from a male who has effectively seduced.