"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys should do what he does on first dates
- Thread starter eli77
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I think she was wanted to keep it but changed her mind when it came time to pay the bill. I don't think she has any money.
She was one of these train wrecks that was a personal shopper for rich people and wished she was rich. She sure put on a show. Total Fake broad. I guarantee she was broke.
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Fortune_favors_the_bold
Master Don Juan
He paid anyway if I understood correctly.
Wouldnt it be a better idea to run his tests after the bang?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
yes but he proved she wasnt a keeper dont you get it?
Fortune_favors_the_bold
Master Don Juan
Wish women would drag me into a long fvck buddy relationship so they could prove that I'm not a serious guy cause I dont ask for an upgrade.