Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'd argue that anybody going on social media to air grievances about anything is purposely distorting things to get more clicks and likes and attention.any woman who is willing to go on social media to air out her grievances about dating
Totally agree, unfortunately a lot of men and incels lack experince and discernment, so many young guys falling for this Psuedo Red Pill 2024 crap which isn't what RP was even 10 years ago it now has turned into a joke, you can thank Andrew Tate for turning it into a caricatureI'd argue that anybody going on social media to air grievances about anything is purposely distorting things to get more clicks and likes and attention.
Social media is a filter that only shows the most entertaining outliers of society.
This incel rage bait is not real life, any woman who is willing to go on social media to air out her grievances about dating like this is a redflag most women don't do this except for red flags.
Men need to focus on the women they want or are healthy instead of the ones they don't
The vast majority of female daters do not post videos like this one. As men, we only tend to see dating experience related videos from a very small percentage of the overall market.Social media is a filter that only shows the most entertaining outliers of society.
I watched her content and listened to what she had to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nah... The Red Pill has been an unintentional self-parody, from the moment we...so many young guys falling for this Psuedo Red Pill 2024 crap which isn't what RP was even 10 years ago it now has turned into a joke, you can thank Andrew Tate for turning it into a caricature
You've just described almost the entirety of The Men's Rights Movement's leadership*. Not surprisingly, they sputtered out just as quickly as The Arab Spring and Occupy Wall StreetI'd argue that anybody going on social media to air grievances about anything is purposely distorting things to get more clicks and likes and attention.