"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
To vasectomy or not?
- Thread starter jnMissouri
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
davidsonj73
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1. I'm wondering how painful it is on a scale of 1 to 10?
2. Also, what percent of women who want to get married do you think would be willing to get married on the condition that they first have tubal ligation?
BaronOfHair
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Almost zero. By and large, even the most Woke of women are biologically hardwired to think and behave like this chick, at least when it comes to the subject of bearing offspring
By contrast, very few red-blooded heterosexual males are craving multiple kids and marriage as twenty or even thirty somethings. Kids have to grow on us, once they occur
anonymous12345
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I have in many ways ****ty genes, I don't want kids, I'm old, I want a good sex life. I could have wanted kids if my life panned out in a different way, but it didn't. But it still feels like a major decision. It's an acknowledgment of various negative aspects that preferably shouldn't exist (my genes and life conditions), but not taking a vasectomy doesn't make them vanish. So the situation is rather clear, to just do it. It's indeed far from perfect, but as good as it gets.
What is a concern is that some girls will deselect me because of not wanting to have kids, but that problem doesn't change, vasectomy or not. Tired of the troubles of life.
The Duke
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I've had a few that didn't want me because I had a vasectomy. It's rare and they were all up front from the start. Most of those girls had baby rabies anyways. It was like they were more concerned about having a kid than they were finding the right guy. I wouldn't worry about being "deselected". Those types don't make good long term prospects anyways.
Girls love it when you can *** in them with out the chance of pregnancy. There are probably more of those than girls with baby rabies.
Live life on your terms. There are plenty of women out there. No point in concerning yourself with the ones that might not be interested.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.