To vasectomy or not?

[Borknagar]

I got it done when I was 28, no kids, no regrets.

 

[davidsonj73]

I don't want kids either.
1. I'm wondering how painful it is on a scale of 1 to 10?
2. Also, what percent of women who want to get married do you think would be willing to get married on the condition that they first have tubal ligation?

 

[BaronOfHair]

2. Also, what percent of women who want to get married do you think would be willing to get married on the condition that they first have tubal ligation?

Almost zero. By and large, even the most Woke of women are biologically hardwired to think and behave like this chick, at least when it comes to the subject of bearing offspring

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By contrast, very few red-blooded heterosexual males are craving multiple kids and marriage as twenty or even thirty somethings. Kids have to grow on us, once they occur

 

[anonymous12345]

I'm considering asking a GP doctor for advice, but doubt some kid has something sensible to say (though the doctor at the clinic performing vasectomy might).

I have in many ways ****ty genes, I don't want kids, I'm old, I want a good sex life. I could have wanted kids if my life panned out in a different way, but it didn't. But it still feels like a major decision. It's an acknowledgment of various negative aspects that preferably shouldn't exist (my genes and life conditions), but not taking a vasectomy doesn't make them vanish. So the situation is rather clear, to just do it. It's indeed far from perfect, but as good as it gets.

What is a concern is that some girls will deselect me because of not wanting to have kids, but that problem doesn't change, vasectomy or not. Tired of the troubles of life.

 

[The Duke]

I'm considering asking a GP doctor for advice, but doubt some kid has something sensible to say (though the doctor at the clinic performing vasectomy might).

I have in many ways ****ty genes, I don't want kids, I'm old, I want a good sex life. I could have wanted kids if my life panned out in a different way, but it didn't. But it still feels like a major decision. It's an acknowledgment of various negative aspects that preferably shouldn't exist (my genes and life conditions), but not taking a vasectomy doesn't make them vanish. So the situation is rather clear, to just do it. It's indeed far from perfect, but as good as it gets.

What is a concern is that some girls will deselect me because of not wanting to have kids, but that problem doesn't change, vasectomy or not. Tired of the troubles of life.

I've had a few that didn't want me because I had a vasectomy. It's rare and they were all up front from the start. Most of those girls had baby rabies anyways. It was like they were more concerned about having a kid than they were finding the right guy. I wouldn't worry about being "deselected". Those types don't make good long term prospects anyways.

Girls love it when you can *** in them with out the chance of pregnancy. There are probably more of those than girls with baby rabies.

Live life on your terms. There are plenty of women out there. No point in concerning yourself with the ones that might not be interested.