How do I stop trying to impress girls and being needy?

[nelysses]

Lol, the whole thing about PUA Theory has always been about trying to impress women. Trying to impress women by not trying to impress them. Or by "being in state" (which is kind of like being a dancing monkey), or "negging" them, or trying to act like a jerk, or whatever.

Yes, but who cares about PUAs? Being with many women, impressing every woman you want... In my opinion, these are unimportant thoughts.
Also I didn't mean this. I just try to say "I'm being needy with women"

 

[BPH]

Actually, mine is the same. But even though information like "do this, act like this" is ridiculous, there were a few good things I found about masculinity and oneitis.
But on the other hand, if we assume that there are billions of women in the world, I think it is a bit ridiculous to talk about there being only one truth.

One thing you'll learn is that if you ask somebody a question, whether they know the answer or not, they will give you an answer they think is right to either A. not come across stupid or B. to come across as an authority. People rarely admit that they do not know.

There's a saying that the best way to make money online is to teach people how to make money online.

You can read all the material you want, and I'm not saying it's all worthless...but you'll quickly figure out what's bullsh** and what's not by just going out into the real world and having more interactions.

 

[zekko]

Yes, but who cares about PUAs? Being with many women, impressing every woman you want... In my opinion, these are unimportant thoughts.

Oh, I'm not trying to criticize you, just making an (old) observation on PUA theory in general. It's always had a built in contradiction within itself. This is basically a pickup forum, although some might prefer to call it a red pill forum, or a manosphere forum, or a self improvement forum. The self improvement aspects are the most valuable, really.