"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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More proof Reddit is full of clueless simps. Don't use it.

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If anyone still uses Reddit, even if it's just a single subreddit, I advise you stop. You cannot avoid the feminists, simps, and general lefty attitudes no matter where you go and it may influence your thinking.

I was browsing /r/glitch_in_the_matrix and came across this gem:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Glitch_in_the_Matrix/comments/g0sh44

Out of the 700+ comments, only a few people actually recognized or even consider what is extremely self-evident: gaslighting. Truly astonishing. Oh no, the poor girl, she's a victim! Time for you to take responsibility be captain save-a-hoe! Or, some of them genuinely think it's actually just supernatural/sci fi nonsense.

Men are completely clueless and my contempt for them continues to grow while my pity is all but null.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been accused of being a misandrist but I've said before and I will say it again, women are unruly because most men allow it
This story is a clear example of it, I've seen men that literally have had their women confess to being at another man's house (doing drugs) and the men refuse to believe their girlfriend cheated on them. It's like their ego can't admit that something like this would happen

You come online and you think well everyone is RP, nope most men aren't a lot of men are suckers and simps. Even some of the RP ones
 

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When I first became single, a few years ago, Reddit was one of the resources (including SS) I looked at for guidance. I was at a convention and was flirting hard with the hotel parking manager. I asked for advice on Reddit. The hate I got was crazy. Basically: ‘Don’t harass women at work.’. 90% critical of me. . I asked her out anyway & she said ‘yes’. I dumped Reddit after that.
 

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When I first became single, a few years ago, Reddit was one of the resources (including SS) I looked at for guidance. I was at a convention and was flirting hard with the hotel parking manager. I asked for advice on Reddit. The hate I got was crazy. Basically: ‘Don’t harass women at work.’. 90% critical of me. . I asked her out anyway & she said ‘yes’. I dumped Reddit after that.
That is insane. You said you were successfully flirting (ie getting IOIs,.buying signals, etc...) and 90% of the advice was negative?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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