zekko
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I have to admit that might interest me just because it's so different.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How should women open you? - What will make you interested?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zekko
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I remember when I was younger I was generally clueless as to when women were hitting on me. I find most women tend to try to be pretty pleasant in their everyday interactions, so it's hard to tell sometimes. I guess if they throw in a little kino, that's a clue. Although some girls are just touchy, so again it's hard to tell. You kind of have to make some sort of move or initiate something to find out. Women are generally subtle in their flirtations.
Maybe I should make a different situation. You are going to have a new female colleague. You have no sexual interest in her. Would you not want to be able to talk about stuff you like rather than other annoying stuff?
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Even then, very few. Lol
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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It would certainly be a more interesting topic than "what's your favourite travel destination", "what's your favourite food" and other mind-dumbing sh!t women usually talk about on dates.
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They shouldn’t. Go read my thread.
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You, sir, deserve a medal.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Well, first off I'm easygoing. Secondly, I take pleasure in simple things.
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I'm not into being cold approached, I would rather her signal being open to be approached then decide myself.
I noticed especially after my 30s that all women that "cold approach" or show interest basically fish for information regarding my work/status and I find it very unpleasant especially since none of that happened in my 20s when attraction was raw and genuine.
I noticed especially after my 30s that all women that "cold approach" or show interest basically fish for information regarding my work/status and I find it very unpleasant especially since none of that happened in my 20s when attraction was raw and genuine.