You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I fixed a couple thing for you bro.Don't Bother.. Within 24 hours of her dumping you, Tyrone rearranged that slvts guts.
This is what that wh0re you fvcked for a while looked like when Tyrone deep inside her... My advice.. Move the Fvck on! I hope this helped View attachment 11731
Facts.I never fully understood the advice occasionally given here of imagining your ex being pounded by other men in order to help you accept a breakup and move on, especially when describing in vivid language what kind of sex the ex may be having...
Such advice reads like the people who give it have a latent fetish for cuckoldry.
Anyways, most seasoned men here know the best way to get your ex back is the same exact thing you do if you genuinely do not want to associate with her ever again: Go no contact and work on yourself.
After going through a few breakups and doing the "wrong" and "right" things during a breakup, most experienced men learn that trying to get your ex back never works, and on the off chance it seemingly does, the relationship is never the same as it was before and the inevitable subsequent breakup is always worse/harder.
You do not have to visualize your ex being sexually involved with anyone to move on. Instead, you have to through experience, or by the wisdom of others, learn that certain things are counterproductive and should be avoided, such as pursuing exes and continuing to involve yourself with women who have little to no interest in you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I can actually understand it, but I do not agree with it. The intention is to emphasize that she was always a slut or a bad woman, so there's no reason to want her back, it's a way to force psychological distance. What feels wrong about it to you and me is that it's tainted with bitterness and contempt towards women, stemming from a perceived feeling of injustice after negative personal experiences with women.I never fully understood the advice occasionally given here of imagining your ex being pounded by other men in order to help you accept a breakup and move on, especially when describing in vivid language what kind of sex the ex may be having...
Don't Bother.. Within 24 hours of her dumping you, Tyrone rearranged your girls guts.
This is what your girl look like when Tyrone deep inside her... My advice.. Move the Fvck on! I hope this helped View attachment 11731