Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Pasta has a unique structure, low glycemic response and doesn't contribute to obesity(STUDY)

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Interesting...I knew that cooking, then cooling pasta changed the structure to a more resistant starch but did not know it apparently already has some of that benefit to begin with...

 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eat up and watch your abs fade into blubber.
Depends on how much like with anything else. If you eat a giant plate every day and don't do anything to offset it then sure...

I don't partake but plenty of pro athletes do and many of them still have abs
 

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Hi BackInTheGame,
All the big time Pasta eaters I have known are overweight.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi BackInTheGame,
All the big time Pasta eaters I have known are overweight.
Pro athletes are. They are definitely not overweight...at least not most of them.

I would also be willing to bet that has a lot to do with what they are putting on it...Alfredo sauce might as well be injecting artery clogger into your veins.
 

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Hi BackInTheGame,
That's interesting,as all the Pasta eaters I have known were Greek or Italian maybe a genetic thing?
 

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Depends on how much like with anything else. If you eat a giant plate every day and don't do anything to offset it then sure...
Yeah, I watch this girl on YouTube who's a vegetarian, and it looks like she eats mostly pasta, as well as fruits and vegetables. But it doesn't look like she eats much, and is very active (burns a lot of calories). And she is about as skinny as you can get.
 

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Yeah I wondered about Italians too. I swear Italians can grow muscle quicker and not all of them get fat either haha

with me and pizza i pack on lbs quick. Ive never ate pasta frequently though.
 

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I genuinely think human beings are built differently.
carbs turn me into blancmange. Bread esp.

My wife (Asian) eats a virtually all carb diet and she has a thigh gap. She eats tons too.
Depends...again I think with pasta a lot of the damage is done via the sauces people choose to put on it.

Also, if you are overweight, you are pretty much almost always insulin resistant and also have higher than normal levels of inflammatory compounds floating around. Your margin for error is far lower than normal in terms of what foods are "safe" to eat.

Once you address that issue and reclaim your insulin sensitivity via nutrition and exercise over time and reduce inflammation in your body, you likely will find your margin for error goes up significantly, although as you age that also tends to lower it as well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Lots of skinny people eat pasta. More than a fistful is too much.
Depends on what your goals are, how much muscle you already have, your daily caloric expenditure and your metabolism, etc.

A fist size for a dude who is 6' 4" tall, 225 lbs and 10% bodyfat is nothing...dude could eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

A fist size for a dude who has a TDEE of over 3500 calories thru workouts and other activities is nothing...he could also eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

For a person who is sedentary or only does a workout and little else in terms of activity, then yeah that's probably correct.
 

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Depends on what your goals are, how much muscle you already have, your daily caloric expenditure and your metabolism, etc.

A fist size for a dude who is 6' 4" tall, 225 lbs and 10% bodyfat is nothing...dude could eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

A fist size for a dude who has a TDEE of over 3500 calories thru workouts and other activities is nothing...he could also eat a plateful or more and be perfectly fine.

For a person who is sedentary or only does a workout and little else in terms of activity, then yeah that's probably correct.
Yes of course. I was speaking more generally - food avoidance (if you like the food) can be counter productive.
 

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Hey Back, is this the same idea as cooked then cooled potatoes? I know they are the most satiating food by rating. If so, then this is gold. Add another great carb to the menu that creates enough satiety, making it easier to reach eating goals because you don't always feel hungry.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you can lose weight on ****ing twinkies. Its all about calories in and calories out. granted youll still look like **** because lack of protein. Protein is king, but carbohydrates are not the devil.
 

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Hey Back, is this the same idea as cooked then cooled potatoes? I know they are the most satiating food by rating. If so, then this is gold. Add another great carb to the menu that creates enough satiety, making it easier to reach eating goals because you don't always feel hungry.
Cooked and cooled potatoes also lead to a change in the type of carbohydrate to a resistant starch. What's more is that every time it's heated and cooled again it becomes a more resistant starch.

Similar concept but perhaps not exactly the same.
 

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Pasta is fine.
 

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It's the ketotards.
IFtards are on par with the level of annoyance the ketotards bring.

Honestly I'd rather deal with vegans. At least they acknowledge they eat the way they do for virtue, not results.
Ketotards, carbtards, carnivoretards, sugartards, vegantards, blah, blah, blah
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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