How To Identify Borderline Personality?

[Carson02]

Different personas reflect their coping mechanisms from past traumas. They are experts at mirroring your personality which leads you to believe you are a match. Their need for attention becomes addicting. When you get drawn in they can’t handle being to close, or they fear you’re going to walk away, or especially they find a different attention source as a reason to disappear before you know it.

They often compartmentalize you like a tool on the shelf, only to reappear when what you provide is needed again. Those who are willing to risk it can tap her when she reappears without attachments. A dangerous venture.

 

[soulforge]

Different personas reflect their coping mechanisms from past traumas. They are experts at mirroring your personality which leads you to believe you are a match. Their need for attention becomes addicting. When you get drawn in they can’t handle being to close, or they fear you’re going to walk away, or especially they find a different attention source as a reason to disappear before you know it.

They often compartmentalize you like a tool on the shelf, only to reappear when what you provide is needed again. Those who are willing to risk it can tap her when she reappears without attachments. A dangerous venture.

I think it's such a broad spectrum of cluster b outhere.

Some tend to have narcassisct tendencies.

These are some signs to look out for

01. Does she have trauma
02. Has she ever been on medication
03. Is her father around
04. Does she seek attention alot
05. Does her mood switch rapidly
06. Does she have several Tattoos
07. Is she into B D S M type sex
08. Does she have lots of male friends
09. Is she needy & insecure
10. Does she have a history of toxic relationships

 

[soulforge]

Thanks for the checklist, exactly what I'm looking for.

Me too.. they are lots of fun lol

 

[Glassguy]

Borderliners need sex too.

No doubt they can be a FUN time in bed. For men who aren't experienced in playing with fire, or don't know how to keep it as ONLY FUN, it's a fiery death.....

 

[soulforge]

No doubt they can be a FUN time in bed. For men who aren't experienced in playing with fire, or don't know how to keep it as ONLY FUN, it's a fiery death.....

This is because most men don't and cannot recognise the the telltale signs of BPD or damaged girls.

Even when they do recognise she is crazy, he begins to dupe himself into believing he "can fix her"

Once you do recognise her as damaged, I don't see anything wrong in keeping her around for sex only.