davidsonj73
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Also, what are some good countries to move to permanently?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What languages are best to learn for a US citizen who wants to leave the US?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kotaix
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Before you decide to move, you need to do your homework. What are your reasons for moving? The grass is not always greener on the other side. Most countries are in worse shape than the US, and some countries like Germany and China are going to hell in a handbasket.
Serbia, Georgia and Malaysia consistently rank high in freedom and affordability. I really liked the former yugoslavian countries, they're affordable and gorgeous, but they're also pretty corrupt.
For languages to learn, I always study the one that opens up the most number of related languages.
Spanish has the most speakers of the romance languages so it's the best one to learn there. Italian, Portuguese and Spanish are about 90% mutually intelligible. French is a distant relation
Russian is the best slavic language to learn because the grammar is about as complex as they come, and you also have to learn the cyrillic alphabet. It's also about 50% mutually intelligible with most of the languages in eastern europe.
German will help you understand the nordic languages, but only marginally.
French is always a solid option as well, it will help you in the Caribbean and Africa.
Serbia, Georgia and Malaysia consistently rank high in freedom and affordability. I really liked the former yugoslavian countries, they're affordable and gorgeous, but they're also pretty corrupt.
For languages to learn, I always study the one that opens up the most number of related languages.
Spanish has the most speakers of the romance languages so it's the best one to learn there. Italian, Portuguese and Spanish are about 90% mutually intelligible. French is a distant relation
Russian is the best slavic language to learn because the grammar is about as complex as they come, and you also have to learn the cyrillic alphabet. It's also about 50% mutually intelligible with most of the languages in eastern europe.
German will help you understand the nordic languages, but only marginally.
French is always a solid option as well, it will help you in the Caribbean and Africa.
BillyPilgrim
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Palestinian Puzz going to be on discount for a while...
MatureDJ
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WarRefugeeMaxxing is about the best PUA meme there is.
sevbucmash
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Bro, bad idea. Israel Vs. arab world will self annihilate each other. I mean, pre Gaza that be a legit advice, but post Gaza, I think everyone is aware of what's coming.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sevbucmash
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There was this heartland theory. Back pre 2014 coup it was all over internet and I could find it on google images. Map. And also PDF with description. From memory the basics of it was like so, there was a map showing WW3, and it said, if war goes over ukraine then WW3 will happen in the middle east, across Syria, Israel, Egypt. We see exactly something similar to that right now. You have new world order developing, with BRICS, there will soon be new reserve currency. So the next best place for economic development is Russia, China, and South East Asia bellow China with parts of Oceania, South America, and Africa. Best languages are Chinese and Russian. As far as where to move, it's a hard one. If safety is concern, no place is safe, because radiation can reach any part of the world, eventually. There will be left a golden billion, people that have certain resistance to radiation. Choose a coutry with good medicine. Russia is pretty good in this sense, first to come up with COVID vaccine. China is behind, they had quaranteens long past COVID was all over in Russia.
taiyuu_otoko
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DaFuq people thinking?
It takes at least a couple years of intense study (3-4 hours per day) to be conversationally fluent at a basic level.
If you spent that much time and effort developing your social skills you could stay where you are and clean up.
Travel memoir21
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Probably Spanish.
CornbreadFed
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Do people ever leave their YouTube guru moms basement safe space?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.