Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeh I think being with a hot one is not easy to get over, but I don't think it's purely about her looks or body. It's that toxic element in the relationship that causes trauma bonding.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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I go with "A". The hot and exciting is harder to replace. Yes, as a downside they are usually toxic
C'est la vie!
Idk I just prefer nerdy & innocent/resting bvtch face over hot tbh.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yeh that kinda make sense, as a long term future with them, as a realistic prospect.
Depends. The other way around can also be true. Especially if you know there's nothing else the hot ones offer besides that. I wish it wasn't the case for me but that's always been true throughout my youth up until now. Now if she's hot and wholesome I'll be in trouble lol. I get the addiction part but then I just want a different hot chick
Hot & Wholesome are two words you will rarely see together.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If you've delt with A long enough you probably couldn't even see B as an option. I've been in that state in my teens. The thrill will leave quick. The B chick is a build up to chick. You've known her for years and became friends as well as lovers. That's why it can be more painful because you most likely gave up the As to settle down with B and when it doesn't work, you think about what you gave up as well