"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Karma is a bytch to bytches

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You gotta love this. No accountability of course for her own actions.
Karma is indeed a bytch! :devil::lol:

All the normal traits and patterns:
  1. She marries a guy that is a provider type of guy
  2. She starts hating him because she doesn't really respect him/want him, (Read desire him).
  3. Nags him do any household work even though he works fulltime
  4. Thinks she can do better than him, then divorce rape the guy
  5. Now she is miserable and lonely as a cat lady as karma sets in and that men want younger women than her.
  6. Meanwhile she is used getting railed and abused by "Tyrone", "Chad" etc. who doesn't want a relationship with her
  7. Hates her old husband of course because we men can always move on to better chick and a better life.
Never stops to entertain me how chicks keep doing this.. .;)
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A tale as old as time it seems…
 

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But on the flip side, we all guys can learn from this and not wifie up a girl just because she touched your pee-pee once. o_O

Vet her in all areas, (and she has a have good personality etc. ofc), and only go forward if she has a burning desire for you and see you as "the man". If not, well then she is for the streets.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rule #1 on the internet.
There are no girls on the internet. :devil:

Exactly! The text is too much of a straightforward checklist of what a manosphere man would say. Maybe it really is written by a woman, i could be wrong, but to me the text is too conveniently formulated.
 
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If this is written by a woman, then all she would need to do is lose 20 lbs to get more male attention. The wrinkles wouldn't even be that big of a deterrent if her weight was in a good place.
 

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Exactly! The text is too much of a straightforward checklist of what a manosphere man would say. Maybe it really is written by a woman, i could be wrong, but to me the text is too conveniently formulated.
Because there is an endless supply of women that follow their hypegamy urge to trade up of social media, especially on fvking Tiktok where they reveal their trade secrets to us men, (Not intended because their audience is other chicks, but we gotta love that they do). :)
So this is a not like anew thing, but a recurring theme amongst women. They never want to settle for just a good man, they want the rappers, movie stars and millionaires. So when they are married to the average Joe dude, they will always to to level up to next trade.

The channel 33secrets on YouTube has tons of videos of these women for example, that attempted to level up and it never ends well for them..



Even more of these vids here: https://www.youtube.com/@The33Secrets/videos

Somehow I cannot stop finding these chicks "level up" videos quite amusing. :devil: :rofl:
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If this is written by a woman, then all she would need to do is lose 20 lbs to get more male attention.
Not when she hit the 40'tes plus. She's baked and done.
Most are, only a very few percent of chicks looks really good/stunning in that age.
 

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If this is written by a woman, then all she would need to do is lose 20 lbs to get more male attention. The wrinkles wouldn't even be that big of a deterrent if her weight was in a good place.
Not when she hit the 40'tes plus. She's baked and done.
Most are, only a very few percent of chicks looks really good/stunning in that age.
So what? There are a ton of pussie beggar 40-55 year old men out there who would commit to a 41 year old single mom. Even if they won't commit, she'll still get plenty of sexual attention at 41 year olds and a normal range BMI.
 

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I guess now its "Neither all the love nor all the attention"
That's good one! :up:

Many guys make also the mistake of having some kind of "relationship bank vault" of good deeds and think they can withdraw from that. "Hey honey, I did this and that for you... at that time/date (whatever)" But the truth is that nothing of that matters to women.

Instead it about what is in this very moment and what you just did for her. That is why I think it is important that when she says "I love you" always insert afterwards "In this very moment, for now".
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So, what woman would want a desperate man?
Why are you asking that?
Most females look for other metrics than men do. Especially success metrics. There is loads of pvssyfied successful men in economic terms but are totally losers when it comes to women so their mindset is limited and their supply of women is even more limited. They take anything that can walk or swim like fat whales.
 

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Because you mention the desperate men out there like it's a ****ing option.
Never said that it was an "option". You interpret that wrong.

I simply meant that there is loads of willing guys (That are desperate because they have very little access to the V), that are more than willing to dumpster dive for some p$ssy.
 

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It does sound like a man wrote it. But the point is, women do that schitt all the time. It's very valid. They lack a lot of self awareness and this is why they fail. Many of us have lived this same story.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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