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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Mode X Is About to Be In Effect!!

We_ArE_VeNOM

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So anyone who knows me on this forum, knows I speak highly of Mode One.

Check out my thread on Mode One..


That being said, I also have my own version of Mode One: Mode X.

Check out my thread on Mode X..

......

Now, Mode X is about to be in effect today, and I am anxious to apply it.

I haven't cold approached a chick in over a year, which is why my adrenaline is still pumping after some recent events of today...let me break down what happened...
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So, I am at the gym, and today is arms/back today.

I am over at the dumbbells area, doing my Hammer Curls.

There is this slim, athletic, young white woman on the Chest Press machine, which is located behind the dumbbell area.

She is a brunette and is very cute. If that isn't enough, she is wearing an athletic wear sports bra.

Now, I am a breast man, and her breasts weren't large, but they were large enough and noticeable.

So, once I noticed her, I began to steal glances her way as I was doing my sets.

One time, I caught her looking at me.

Now, I like the idea of letting a woman know that I am checking her out...so once I caught her looking at me, I stared back at her for a couple seconds, and then turned away.

This is basically my version of giving her a choosing signal.

After I finished my next set, I looked at her again, and caught her as she started to look at me again.

This time, she gave me a little smirk and I nodded my head at her and turned away.

Now, obviously, I take the smirk as a choosing signal towards me.

At this point, the adrenaline began to pump and I am now contemplating on whether to approach her and thus cross over (stepping outside of marriage; my marriage is jacked up).
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As I am having this internal battle with myself, there is this dude...a somewhat chubby young Mexican, who is doing some barbell bench presses (with the small barbell) on the bench a short distance from me (but in front of her).

He got her attention (as she sat on the chest press machine), and asked her to spot him.

His request was both surprising to my ears, and also to her.

She was surprised and somewhat hesitant, but he convinced her to spot him and she reluctantly did.

It was obvious that she did not want to do it, and when she stepped up to spot him she looked in my direction and gave a "what is up with this guy" look.
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So when he finished his set, dude surprised me again. He introduced himself to her and asked her name.

She told him her name.

Then, he asked for her number.

She told him "I'm sorry, but no thank you".

The dude took it like a man and walked away, from her...although he remained in the same vicinity.

Perfect opportunity.

When he walked off, I stepped up and said..

Me: If he can't get it, can I?

Her (laughing): Ummm.

Me: Or maybe some other time.

Her: Um, yeah, maybe some other time.

Then dude suddenly walked off and left the vicinity.

Me: Alright, he is gone now. Let me get it now.

Her: Ok. What is your name.

Me: My name is X. Your name?

Her: My name is Melanie.

Long story short, I got the number and I am about to go Mode X on her. I am about to make my first text to her a sexual advance.

Mode X!!!!

Remember, either she is down with it, or she aint.
 

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I like the the story, but I don't like the fact that you're about to cheat on your wife. But I guess it's none of my business.
What I don't like is when people judge you without knowing the full story.

The stuff I had to endure for the past 7 years of my marriage is enough to make a grown man cry real muthafukin tears.

Only God can judge me.
 

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This is the first time I've ever heard a guy ask a chick to spot him for bench press at the gym.
It doesn't make any sense.

Is he lifting 50lbs?
That's embarrassing!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So anyone who knows me on this forum, knows I speak highly of Mode One.

Check out my thread on Mode One..


That being said, I also have my own version of Mode One: Mode X.

Check out my thread on Mode X..

......

Now, Mode X is about to be in effect today, and I am anxious to apply it.

I haven't cold approached a chick in over a year, which is why my adrenaline is still pumping after some recent events of today...let me break down what happened...
------

So, I am at the gym, and today is arms/back today.

I am over at the dumbbells area, doing my Hammer Curls.

There is this slim, athletic, young white woman on the Chest Press machine, which is located behind the dumbbell area.

She is a brunette and is very cute. If that isn't enough, she is wearing an athletic wear sports bra.

Now, I am a breast man, and her breasts weren't large, but they were large enough and noticeable.

So, once I noticed her, I began to steal glances her way as I was doing my sets.

One time, I caught her looking at me.

Now, I like the idea of letting a woman know that I am checking her out...so once I caught her looking at me, I stared back at her for a couple seconds, and then turned away.

This is basically my version of giving her a choosing signal.

After I finished my next set, I looked at her again, and caught her as she started to look at me again.

This time, she gave me a little smirk and I nodded my head at her and turned away.

Now, obviously, I take the smirk as a choosing signal towards me.

At this point, the adrenaline began to pump and I am now contemplating on whether to approach her and thus cross over (stepping outside of marriage; my marriage is jacked up).
------

As I am having this internal battle with myself, there is this dude...a somewhat chubby young Mexican, who is doing some barbell bench presses (with the small barbell) on the bench a short distance from me (but in front of her).

He got her attention (as she sat on the chest press machine), and asked her to spot him.

His request was both surprising to my ears, and also to her.

She was surprised and somewhat hesitant, but he convinced her to spot him and she reluctantly did.

It was obvious that she did not want to do it, and when she stepped up to spot him she looked in my direction and gave a "what is up with this guy" look.
--------

So when he finished his set, dude surprised me again. He introduced himself to her and asked her name.

She told him her name.

Then, he asked for her number.

She told him "I'm sorry, but no thank you".

The dude took it like a man and walked away, from her...although he remained in the same vicinity.

Perfect opportunity.

When he walked off, I stepped up and said..

Me: If he can't get it, can I?

Her (laughing): Ummm.

Me: Or maybe some other time.

Her: Um, yeah, maybe some other time.

Then dude suddenly walked off and left the vicinity.

Me: Alright, he is gone now. Let me get it now.

Her: Ok. What is your name.

Me: My name is X. Your name?

Her: My name is Melanie.

Long story short, I got the number and I am about to go Mode X on her. I am about to make my first text to her a sexual advance.

Mode X!!!!

Remember, either she is down with it, or she aint.
Don't be a douche. If you are not getting what you want from your partner in the marriage; tell them about it. If then, nothing changes, file for divorce and move on. Cheating is a weak persons game in my opinion. Have a backbone and tell her what's the issue. Resolve or leave after that.
 

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This is the first time I've ever heard a guy ask a chick to spot him for bench press at the gym.
It doesn't make any sense.

Is he lifting 50lbs?
That's embarrassing!
Yea, I'd have to agree on 50LBS. Spot for anything under 200 for the average due is a bit weak. Need work on their muscle game.
 

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Don't be a douche. If you are not getting what you want from your partner in the marriage; tell them about it.
Been there, done that.

Hey, care to offer advice that was not already considered or tried?

If then, nothing changes, file for divorce and move on.
It's cheaper to keep her.

Cheating is a weak persons game in my opinion.
I agree.

If I was cheating on my wife despite her giving me that King treatment, then that would be another story.

Instead, I am rebelling after years of emotional abuse.

Something of which you'd have to experience, before offering your uninformed opinion.

Have a backbone and tell her what's the issue. Resolve or leave after that.
Dude, if life was as simple as "just talk about it", then Russia would not be invading Ukraine.

We are beyond talking right now.
 

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This is the first time I've ever heard a guy ask a chick to spot him for bench press at the gym.
It doesn't make any sense.

Is he lifting 50lbs?
That's embarrassing!
It was obvious that dude asked her to spot him in order to break the ice.

Things didn't go as planned for him.

But still, he tried.
 

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**Update**

So, last night, I texted this chick for the first time and went Mode X on her.

I said...

Me: Hey you. This is X (my name). Met you at the gym earlier. I need to bring something to your attention.

Her: Hey X (my name). Sure, go right ahead.

Me: I want to suck your breasts. Meet me in the parking lot on Monday.

Her: Do you even remember my name? (laughing emoji).

*She asked me this because I did not call her by her name in my first text. Her name is Melanie, but at the gym, I couldn't tell whether I heard correctly...was it Melanie, or Melody? I did not want to butcher her name via text, so I said "Hey You".

Me: Melanie? Or was it Melody?'

Her: *Silence*

20 minutes later..

Her: You had it right the first time.

Me: Aight. Melanie it is. Can you meet me in the parking lot on Monday?

Her: *Silence*

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I did not hear from her for the rest of the night.

From what I've come to know about her text game, she is one of those slow texters, which is one of my biggest pet peeves.

After hours had passed and I did not hear from her, I thought she'd lost interest.

So, I deleted her text messages. Can't have lingering text messages on my phone...being married and all.
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When I woke up the next morning and checked my phone, I received an early morning text from her (apparently after I'd gone to bed).

Her: You are going to have to pay me for that lol.

So apparently, this chick is a young escort.

Me: Well damn. Ok, well I will pay you $30 for some head.

Her: $30. That is crazy low.

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Anyways, what I am about to share with you is the latter part of our conversation throughout the day.

She asked how old I was, and I told her to guess.

She accurately stated that I was between my 30's and 40's.

I told her she needed to be more specific than that...and told her to guess my age and to be within 2 years (up or down) and I would do the same for her (I am good at guessing people's ages. It is a talent).

Impressively, she guessed my age to 37.

I'm 38, so not too shabby of a guess.

Part of that conversation is what you are about to see on the screenshot.
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Also, what you are about to see is her genuine thoughts on when she saw me at the gym.

I told you guys, BUILD MUSCLES.

It pays off.
 

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Doesn't sound like an escort. She was messing with you because your proposition to svck her t*ts in a parking lot is something you'd say to a two-bit wh0re. Her response was meant to be taken as a joke.

Was there an outcome to this story? You gonna meet?

Sorry about your marriage man, that's tough.
 
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Doesn't sound like an escort. She was messing with you because your proposition to svck her t*ts in a parking lot is something you'd say to a two-bit wh0re.
That^.

Or..

The proposition to suck her tits is something you'd say to a woman of whom you want to suck her tits.

Her response was meant to be taken as a joke.
That^.

Or..

Her response was meant to be taken exactly how I took it... based on further conversation.

Was there an outcome to this story? You gonna meet?
Right now we are working out the details regarding some titty business and I am in the process of getting in her mind.

Consider her a lab rat.

Sorry about your marriage man, that's tough.
It is.

Wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy.
 

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What I don't like is when people judge you without knowing the full story.

The stuff I had to endure for the past 7 years of my marriage is enough to make a grown man cry real muthafukin tears.

Only God can judge me.
Then get divorced if it's so bad.

Most people think the grass is greener on the other side, but the truth is the grass is always greenest where people choose to water it and that goes in both directions.
 

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Then get divorced if it's so bad.
So, get divorced so that I can get screwed over by the court system...paying alimony to a bytch that have been treating me like sh!t for the duration of the marriage?

Get screwed over both during the marriage, and post marriage?

No haps.

Most people think the grass is greener on the other side, but the truth is the grass is always greenest where people choose to water it and that goes in both directions.
That rarely happens in the United States family court system.
 

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So, get divorced so that I can get screwed over by the court system...paying alimony to a bytch that have been treating me like sh!t for the duration of the marriage?

Get screwed over both during the marriage, and post marriage?

No haps.



That rarely happens in the United States family court system.
People treat you the way you've trained them to treat you and the way you allow them to treat you.
 
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The proposition to suck her tits is something you'd say to a woman of whom you want to suck her tits.
Lol I realize that dude. I was looking at it from HER perspective, that SHE was thinking it was something you'd say to a two-bit wh0re, not a chick you wanted to date. Hence her comment/joke in response.

But hey if further conversations proved otherwise and she is in fact an escort, my bad!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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