I should just forget about her
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I think my LTR is cheating!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Doctor Europeo
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Forget whom? I had already forgotten about this thread, and you should have already forgotten her name
manfrombelow
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I learned the hard way that a "Long Term Relationship" is NOT a relationship at all.
Because, well, it's not.
Because, well, it's not.
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This. All problems you get will happen after she already showed a clear first sign of low interest/ straying.
The problem is we men hate to say goodbye to something we've invested in.
We have to understand that NO, the women we deal with are NO exception to the rule. They're predictable, and the same all over the globe, but we men refuse to use this to our advantage for some reason.
IKO69
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Got in this one late, not much to say has already been said x 100 lolol
Always trust your gut op, your intuition will generally never mislead you. I wouldve confronted her about it way back when and beat her to the punch by telling her sayonarra. You'll meet someone just as good in time. Take care man
Always trust your gut op, your intuition will generally never mislead you. I wouldve confronted her about it way back when and beat her to the punch by telling her sayonarra. You'll meet someone just as good in time. Take care man
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.