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You filed bankruptcy lol.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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How can you "not be sure" on kids? That topic should have come up already and if not it's highly irresponsible to even suggest marriage on her part.
lol that's why I said 10k plus
They are starting to have kids now
Cause they are lifetime commitments and responsibilities. It is just easier to live the simple life of millennial yuppies.
I understand that part but if you don't actually want them then you don't. There is no "I'm not sure". FYI I don't know how old she is but I can promise you no matter what she says now once she reaches the age where kids are almost off the table her attitude towards them will likely change vastly towards wanting kids...
I think I am screwed at this point. I thought about if I was to drastically burn my face off frying catfish from our weekend party, I think that she would still be there for me lol.
I am one of those Millennial childless yuppies. I have had married Millennial friends who are now parents tell me that my life choices are the correct ones. The ones that haven't told me that have likely thought it and not verbalized it.
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I think it is possible for a person not to be sure of their desires for kids in a moment. This usually happens for younger people. @CornbreadFed is 29/30, so it's not unheard of to be uncertain as a man at that age. Most women are usually certain by 26-27 about their goals. Most childless women in their late 20s/early 30s do want to have kids at some point and are starting to more aggressively make that a reality.
I never said I didn't want kids lol. You only have to worry about that nonsense with trash and jezebels. My gf has a lot to lose if she was to become a single mom and makes enough money to where having a kid for just alimony & government dough isn't worth it. What you did was an irreversible decision stemmed from emotional distraught.
Do you want marriage and do you want kids with her? You have to figure that out for yourself right now.
Yeah, when you fvck around with trash that want more money for less work or some Eastern European skank that is desperate for a green card
Not necessarily because of the failed marriage following the wedding, however, it provide a logical excuse. It's not a full bankruptcy either, you settle your debts and pay a smaller amount then you otherwise would based on your income. It what you would call a chapter 13 bankruptcy rather than a chapter 7.
You need to get better friends.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
