"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Censorship On SoSuave!

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So twice on SS I have made a thread with a short video from YouTube.

And the moderators have immediately deleted my thread.

This video is simply an Islamic perceptive on Male/Female equality.

I have watched the video twice and I didn't find anything offensive about the content in it.

In-fact before the SS mods deleted this video, most of the responses where positive and found it to be a honest message.

So why is SS so afraid of you guys getting an insight into the Islamic Perspective on male/female equality?

Why are they insisting on deleting this video by Shahid Bolsen?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BillyPilgrim

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Lolz it's the phucking "sharts" format if you ask me

It's the format that's offensive.
 

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It's an important topic. I liked the video.
 

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I think the topic of religion is banned outright on this forum now.

Also the mods are beholden to the admins who probably don't want anything too controversial that will get negative media coverage or attention of the regulators. The website PUAHate got shut down because of its association with Elliot Rodgers if I recall correctly.
 

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On another note why is profanity not allowed here, it's okay to talk about nutting inside a tight sliz but you can't say *****?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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On another note why is profanity not allowed here, it's okay to talk about nutting inside a tight sliz but you can't say *****?
Legit question
Gentlemen, your questions are answered in this Forum Rules post at the top of the DJ section:
 

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So twice on SS I have made a thread with a short video from YouTube.

And the moderators have immediately deleted my thread.

This video is simply an Islamic perceptive on Male/Female equality.

I have watched the video twice and I didn't find anything offensive about the content in it.

In-fact before the SS mods deleted this video, most of the responses where positive and found it to be a honest message.

So why is SS so afraid of you guys getting an insight into the Islamic Perspective on male/female equality?

Why are they insisting on deleting this video by Shahid Bolsen?
They think you joined ISIS. Remove the word “islamic” from thread title and repost it. That guy actually makes a lot of sense.
 

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I think the topic of religion is banned outright on this forum now.

Also the mods are beholden to the admins who probably don't want anything too controversial that will get negative media coverage or attention of the regulators. The website PUAHate got shut down because of its association with Elliot Rodgers if I recall correctly.
I think the topic of religion is banned outright on this forum now.

Also the mods are beholden to the admins who probably don't want anything too controversial that will get negative media coverage or attention of the regulators. The website PUAHate got shut down because of its association with Elliot Rodgers if I recall correctly.
I guess I knew the rules before I signed up. But having said that, this was a great topic by the OP. It forced me to compare and contrast on a macro-level, how different cultures and religions deal with relationships between men and women. It cuts closer to the root.
 

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So twice on SS I have made a thread with a short video from YouTube.

And the moderators have immediately deleted my thread.

This video is simply an Islamic perceptive on Male/Female equality.

I have watched the video twice and I didn't find anything offensive about the content in it.

In-fact before the SS mods deleted this video, most of the responses where positive and found it to be a honest message.

So why is SS so afraid of you guys getting an insight into the Islamic Perspective on male/female equality?

Why are they insisting on deleting this video by Shahid Bolsen?
Probably because Mods are afraid of passing off Muslims and getting their corporate offices bombed out of existence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gentlemen, your questions are answered in this Forum Rules post at the top of the DJ section:

You agree that you will not use the SoSuave forums to post any material which is knowingly false and/or defamatory, inaccurate, abusive, vulgar, hateful, harassing, obscene, profane, threatening, invasive of a person's privacy, or otherwise violative of any law.


That doesn't answer my question that just restates the rule. In fact it seems even stranger that we're allowed to bypass censorship of curse words too.
 

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I come from a Muslim background, I left that stuff along time ago.

Islam may seem fun to some guys in the manoshpere but it has no value to women or the modern world. Tate grew up in Luton amongst certain types of Muslims, he is just larping he aint no real Muslim. Real Muslim guys in the UK are being cucked real bad.

You cant just put a woman in a niqaab, remove all rights and freedoms, and think that is a sustainable environment cos the women will just leave to another country where they have freedom.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I come from a Muslim background, I left that stuff along time ago.

Islam may seem fun to some guys in the manoshpere but it has no value to women or the modern world. Tate grew up in Luton amongst certain types of Muslims, he is just larping he aint no real Muslim. Real Muslim guys in the UK are being cucked real bad.

You cant just put a woman in a niqaab, remove all rights and freedoms, and think that is a sustainable environment cos the women will just leave to another country where they have freedom.
facts
 
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