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What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men
For men, the dating world is drastically changing.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Not dating does not mean men are lonely. I disagree with the premise. I think they have done studies and they found women are the loneliest and most depressed. Man are not flirting... not approaching... instead they are having fun doing things like playing videos games, hanging out with other guys, etc.. basically living their lives.![]()
What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men
For men, the dating world is drastically changing.www.psychologytoday.com
That is cope?Not dating does not mean men are lonely. I disagree with the premise. I think they have done studies and they found women are the loneliest and most depressed. Man are not flirting... not approaching... instead they are having fun doing things like playing videos games, hanging out with other guys, etc.. basically living their lives.
Personally, I know a lot of younger men who (20's) who don't even talk about dating or marriage... it's a lot different then when I was 20 years old.
They fall into your lap.Laziness and entitlement. Women aren’t going to fall in to your lap just like most things in life.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
SometimesThey fall into your lap.
Sometimes is better then never.Sometimes
I think every normal male gets a lucky homerun at some pointSometimes is better then never.
Sometimes is better then at some point. (ie once in a lifetime deal).I think every normal male gets a lucky homerun at some point