Most men fail during the pre selection stage

[RazorRambo24]

One of the better threads made recently.

I always believed that a simple "hi" was enough. But hi is too generic and doesn't prolong the small window of opportunity. Such a "witty" line on the other hand does. It demands her attention and minda freezes her on the spot for a few seconds, giving you the momentum to go in for the kill.

I agree its not about what you , but how you say it. Still it's essential a DJ has a tool of lines in his pocket/mind like a...dj has records. Opening knowledge like a chess grandmaster knows his openings.

Yeah Hi can work too as an opener but I always try to say something that's unique. .if I can get them to smile or laugh it helps me feel more confident in the process.

This is a bit of a humble brag here: but my boys know. when im really feeling myself, sometimes i just point to the girl in the crowd, and do the "come here" gesture with my finger.. adn they come. I mean sht-- lol its just that easy sometimes. In those times im just operating on alot of confidence.. I usually always am but in those times It's like I just don't expect any girl to say no lol.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Thats them casting a reel to you, and hoping to create desire in you -- they want you to approach them then. If you don't, you might miss out..

Agree that this can be an indirect sign of interest. Disagree with you characterizing this borderline autistics behavior as some kind of a clever or subtle tactic. Most women (just like most men) have sh!t game. They see a guy they like and they don't know how to send approach signals. So they just stand around acting like idiots pretending not to notice you.

 

[BeExcellent]

went directly to her and opened with "You wouldn't happen to know where i'd find a pretty girl around here would u" .

Mic drop.

My man..thats simply a fecking GREAT line!!! That's gold right there gentlemen, or even better, that's polished diamond right there. All you have to do take it and use it..

It’s actually a brilliant line. Ever so slightly cheesy/goofy….which should be disarming if delivered well.

It’s not entirely direct (the best seducers are even more bold than this), it gives a guy a sliver of an out if the girl utterly isn’t interested, so there’s that.

It’s also a line a clever girl could have fun with in her response, which could make things cheeky indeed

 

[RazorRambo24]

It’s actually a brilliant line. Ever so slightly cheesy/goofy….which should be disarming if delivered well.

It’s not entirely direct (the best seducers are even more bold than this), it gives a guy a sliver of an out if the girl utterly isn’t interested, so there’s that.

It’s also a line a clever girl could have fun with in her response, which could make things cheeky indeed

Yeah its an alright line. It hink for me the opener is not as important as what comes after + the body language of the whole set. Ofc, its really second nature at this point. People don't realize ,even a few years of game --you do everything pretty unconciously.. But myself I got over 10 years in the nightlife, and more game/approach as a teenager too lol.

Agree that this can be an indirect sign of interest. Disagree with you characterizing this borderline autistics behavior as some kind of a clever or subtle tactic. Most women (just like most men) have sh!t game. They see a guy they like and they don't know how to send approach signals. So they just stand around acting like idiots pretending not to notice you.

I don't know if I characterized it as clever or subtle.. Its just basic 101 on how alot of women react. The fact that most men don't know that and often fail at those points says more about men than it does about women. Guys who know women, understand the things they do because we seen it before thousands of times from countless years of experience.

To expect women to approach you or always send blatantly obvious approach signals is silly. Women don't know what type of guy you are. They just know that you're attractive. Its easier for them to play feminine and let the man do his thing. Women will send approach signals to guys but guys will be too dense to react to them. I mean a smile from afar, giving you multiple looks, that's pretty obvious signs she's into you. But for me I kinda know I have her when she starts thinking oh sht in her mind, can't be too obvious or let me try and ignore him now that I see him looking and see if he comes to me.. its nothing more than simple social dynamics honestly

 

[FlirtLife]

I read and pay attention to what people say. He's not someone who resonates with me and I don't see him as anything other than the other beta males on here that I've put on ignore. No offense to you if that's your buddy or if you're just his resident di.ck holder.

I called you a hypocrite for claiming someone doesn't know who they're talking to [1] ... and here you insult me as "you're just his resident di.ck holder" with no idea if that is true about me or not. You actually responded to being called a hypocrite by being a hypocrite again. You have no self-awareness.

It's a bit hypocritical to say @pipeman84 doesn't know who they are talking to, and then accuse "you probably don't go out much"... when you also don't know who you are talking to.

 

[TheEveningChronograph]

I called you a hypocrite for claiming someone doesn't know who they're talking to [1] ... and here you insult me as "you're just his resident di.ck holder" with no idea if that is true about me or not. You actually responded to being called a hypocrite by being a hypocrite again. You have no self-awareness.

WHOA WHOA WHOA! Who TF gave you permission to dish out anything besides sh!tty financial advice?!? Suck it long.

 

[Kotaix]

More than 75% of communication between people is non-verbal. And a lot of verbal communication from women is at odds with their body language and their facial expressions

That first moment of eye contact when a woman looks at you and gives you the knowing smile or just holds your gaze. That is pre-selection right there on it's own. From there it's up to you to act on it and/or fvck it up.

 

[ManlyMan]

good stuff. It is nice to have someone on this forum who doesn't start posts to complain (been noticing a lot of negativity here) but offers some advice to the people who want improve their game.

 

[FlirtLife]

WHOA WHOA WHOA! Who TF gave you permission to dish out anything besides sh!tty financial advice?!? Suck it long.

Are you butt hurt by my posts in "Wealth and Success"? I argued with someone who claimed pensions are all scams and the US dollar will have hyperinflation soon - all bs that you seemed to have eaten up. The 4% rule is better advice than investing 100% in gold, but you follow who you like.

 

[RazorRambo24]

good stuff. It is nice to have someone on this forum who doesn't start posts to complain (been noticing a lot of negativity here) but offers some advice to the people who want improve their game.

Appreciate you. I feel the same way when I read some of the good content on here.