"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How hard is it to get chicks that look like this for example?

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Notice until the early to mid 1970s nearly all the men wore suits and ties to sports games. Even baseball games in the summer guys would wear a tie even in the heat. Now, you'd never think about wearing a suit to a hockey or baseball game. People would laugh if you did now.
That's true but a bit irrelevant to the overall point of the thread.

Dressing up a little bit helps make a better impression and might actually help in getting a woman on the level of a Carli Parenti. She's supposedly 23 years old right now, so she's still in her absolute prime.

If she meets a guy out at a bar in a blazer and nice pants, that's going to be better than a guy dressed rather sloppily.

Looks matter. A guy who is 6'0"+ with bigger muscles doesn't need a blazer and nice pants. He would need to wear clothes that would show off his physique and bigger muscles.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's true but a bit irrelevant to the overall point of the thread.

Dressing up a little bit helps make a better impression and might actually help in getting a woman on the level of a Carli Parenti. She's supposedly 23 years old right now, so she's still in her absolute prime.

If she meets a guy out at a bar in a blazer and nice pants, that's going to be better than a guy dressed rather sloppily.

Looks matter. A guy who is 6'0"+ with bigger muscles doesn't need a blazer and nice pants. He would need to wear clothes that would show off his physique and bigger muscles.
She's wayyyy too rehearsed for 23. Maybe a Russian girl growing up in poverty is rehearsed like that due to extreme circumstances. She looks and carries herself like a mid 30's woman.
 

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That's true but a bit irrelevant to the overall point of the thread.

Dressing up a little bit helps make a better impression and might actually help in getting a woman on the level of a Carli Parenti. She's supposedly 23 years old right now, so she's still in her absolute prime.

If she meets a guy out at a bar in a blazer and nice pants, that's going to be better than a guy dressed rather sloppily.

Looks matter. A guy who is 6'0"+ with bigger muscles doesn't need a blazer and nice pants. He would need to wear clothes that would show off his physique and bigger muscles.
Is she 23 for real? damn looked to me like she was in her late 20s/early 30s.

23 yrs old girls usually look like teenagers to guys my age.
 

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That's true but a bit irrelevant to the overall point of the thread.

Dressing up a little bit helps make a better impression and might actually help in getting a woman on the level of a Carli Parenti. She's supposedly 23 years old right now, so she's still in her absolute prime.

If she meets a guy out at a bar in a blazer and nice pants, that's going to be better than a guy dressed rather sloppily.

Looks matter. A guy who is 6'0"+ with bigger muscles doesn't need a blazer and nice pants. He would need to wear clothes that would show off his physique and bigger muscles.
What about slim guys. Hockey players are trim lean muscle and look good in suits.
 

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What about slim guys. Hockey players are trim lean muscle and look good in suits.
You should try hockey. I hear the Everglades makes for a great natural playing surface.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She was in the 2nd Matrix movie and 007 Spectre (older here). Had a role in Passion of the Christ too. These are her biggest movies people have likely seen. Her movies Irreversible and Malena are good too. It's a drama but her charms make it worthwhile. When I got a copy of that Malena movie I locked myself in my room and didn't come out for a week probably. Came out a much lighter man...lolol
I think I related to the pre-pubescent boy in that film, navigating societal injustice and a conservative environ with a fixation on hot women. One of those artsy high-brow movies that knows how to use hot women correctly, unlike the Transformers aestetic that poisons Hollywood. Seeing Sophia Loren strip in Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow while grownass man watches on reduced to sheepish schoolboy just wouldn't fly today.
 

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She looks Israeli, I used to hit on a lot of flight attendants from their airline. They're easy to approach and get their number but difficult to get anywhere with.
Something I have noticed is that Israeli chicks tend to be more slender than standard Jewish chicks, the latter being almost invariably super chesty.
 

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I just finished watching the Bellator event from the other day. There was a good looking russian fighter in the preliminaries, Diana Avsaragova. I'm gonna post a picture of this Russian doll - gonna simp fellas hope you can forgive me this one time for being a loyal disciple all these years. :love::p
 

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Good looking woman. I don't simp but I can recognize she is attractive.
I would roll with her and let her practice her ground n' pound technique on me without any hesitation whatsoever. I'm sure it's top rate and marvelous. She may get the upper hand, i'm not sure. The only thing i'm sure about is I probably wouldn't be able to prevent a boner
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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