What to do?

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

bro i tried and got ghosted like twice

You suggested sex?

 

[anour]

You suggested sex?

Insinuated it. Sent **** with double meaning for one and for another the girl asked me whether i still live at some place and that has place has really thin walls, i replied “hell no, it’d be quite difficult cause the walls are rather thin at that place” and she works at that place.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Insinuated it.

A couple things..

Insinuating it isn't Mode One, that is Mode 2.

Mode One is DIRECT game. You tell the woman directly what your intentions are, leaving no wiggle room for misunderstandings.

If she has to guess and decipher Morse Code to get the picture, then it ain't Mode One.

Second, Mode One is meant to provide quick closure on whether the woman will sleep with you.

If you suggest to a woman the idea of you two sleeping together and she declines, then Mode One worked.

Because now you have closure, and you didn't spend one dime to get it (hopefully).

Instead of going on multiple dates and in return gambling with your time and money, on mere possibilities.

Which, at that point you might as well hire an escort..because at least you are guaranteed to get some physical action as opposed to taking gambles and making investments on puzzy that may never come.

Sent **** with double meaning for one and for another the girl asked me whether i still live at some place and that has place has really thin walls, i replied “hell no, it’d be quite difficult cause the walls are rather thin at that place” and she works at that place.

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[anour]

A couple things..

Insinuating it isn't Mode One, that is Mode 2.

Mode One is DIRECT game. You tell the woman directly what your intentions are, leaving no wiggle room for misunderstandings.

If she has to guess and decipher Morse Code to get the picture, then it ain't Mode One.

Second, Mode One is meant to provide quick closure on whether the woman will sleep with you.

If you suggest to a woman the idea of you two sleeping together and she declines, then Mode One worked.

Because now you have closure, and you didn't spend one dime to get it (hopefully).

Instead of going on multiple dates and in return gambling with your time and money, on mere possibilities.

Which, at that point you might as well hire an escort..because at least you are guaranteed to get some physical action as opposed to taking gambles and making investments on puzzy that may never come.



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So mode one is asking directly for sex?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So mode one is asking directly for sex?

Putting my foot in my mouth again, it think it's more like "we should be together tonight. What do you think?" or "we should be together tonight. What's your number?" with you shutting up and letting her answer after the question.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Putting my foot in my mouth again, it think it's more like "we should be together tonight. What do you think?" or "we should be together tonight. What's your number?" with you shutting up and letting her answer after the question.

Naw man, you have to be more direct/assertive than that.

"We should be together tonight". <----Mode 2.

"Be together tonight" can mean anything (playing ping pong, comedy show, dinner, movie).

"We should FUK tonight" <-----Mode One.

Means exactly what is said^.

No room or time for misunderstandings or misinterpretations.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

So mode one is asking directly for sex?

Mode One is either asking or suggesting sex.

You want to sleep with her, right?

 

[anour]

Putting my foot in my mouth again, it think it's more like "we should be together tonight. What do you think?" or "we should be together tonight. What's your number?" with you shutting up and letting her answer after the question.

Alright