"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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forcerecon01

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Messing up a chance to have sex with a woman isn't the problem, we all have been there. But messing up and refusing to accept the lack of expertise & experience while self-rationalizing at the same time? That's a big problems with many dudes that would prevent them from improving themselves altogether, not just in the game of seducing women but in many other aspects of life as a whole.
Very true . We have to self examine
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I had circumstances of getting a chick back to my place at least twice at times or three before they wanted s3x.

Again I agree with your point I never said I don't appreciate everyone's input. I should have escalated differently and drag her and f3uck her and that's it.

Here is something i have not pointed out:

1. She was too c0cky (all the time it's like she was trying to show her intelligence in a way and that she is smart)
2. At one point she told me I'm hard to get (again c0ckyness) (she was drying my d1ck up)
3. This behavior was a constant in the night it was to the point that she was trying to play a whole game on me all the time without the sex being the main purpose of us being in the same f3ucking house.

Again I'm not trying to justify anything just adding more information.

Any suggestions on how to handle this at work?
Dude, don't you see your problem by now?

You talk way too fvcking much. Your hamster is spinning way too fvcking much.

At this point you're acting like a fvcking woman!

Shut up and read all the materials on here. Learn more, do more, and talk less.
 

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Dude, don't you see your problem by now?

You talk way too fvcking much. Your hamster is spinning way too fvcking much.

At this point you're acting like a fvcking woman!

Shut up and read all the materials on here. Learn more, do more, and talk less.
My hamster is spinning on how to improve that's all.

Next time when you are trying to give your advice actually answer the question I'm asking or follow another thread.
 

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OP- you're over analyzing this. You're also making tons of excuses for this chick's behavior.

Your actions say that you're looking for a relationship which isn't the greatest demeanor. Your demeanor should be going out and having fun and if a relationship happens, it happens.

Will this chick eventually sleep with you? Maybe.

Is it worth all the hoops you're jumping through? Probably not.
Have her come over to your house and try again for all we care.

But if a woman is putting up such strong sexual boundaries after 3 dates, I'd hate to see what she does after you do sleep with her and she has you chasing a relationship like a rabbit chasing the carrot.

I've banged plenty of chick's I worked with. And they didn't act like her. They couldn't wait to get my dic in them.

So I don't know what to tell you. I don't deal with chick's that act "put off" by me trying to bang them at my place after the 3rd date.
 

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OP- you're over analyzing this. You're also making tons of excuses for this chick's behavior.

Your actions say that you're looking for a relationship which isn't the greatest demeanor. Your demeanor should be going out and having fun and if a relationship happens, it happens.

Will this chick eventually sleep with you? Maybe.

Is it worth all the hoops you're jumping through? Probably not.
Have her come over to your house and try again for all we care.

But if a woman is putting up such strong sexual boundaries after 3 dates, I'd hate to see what she does after you do sleep with her and she has you chasing a relationship like a rabbit chasing the carrot.

I've banged plenty of chick's I worked with. And they didn't act like her. They couldn't wait to get my dic in them.

So I don't know what to tell you. I don't deal with chick's that act "put off" by me trying to bang them at my place after the 3rd date.
Thanks for the feedback.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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