I am in my early 30s yet apparently look 45. Chances with younger women?

[GoodMan32]

On a recent post of mine, I recall some guys were reassuring me my age (early 30s) won't prevent me from being able to pull college-aged girls.

After yesterday, I'm beginning to develop doubts. The 45 year old woman I was with yesterday was shocked when I told her my age. She thought I was her age.

How realistic is it for a guy in my position (early 30s but look 45) to pull college-aged girls?

 

[forcerecon01]

It's realistic go out and approach

 

[BillyPilgrim]

How do you know that 45 yo woman wasn't ball-busting? Get a skin care regiment and go after girls who like older men. Cast a wide net and they will make themselves known. One possible option is lying about your age and saying you're older.

 

[GoodMan32]

How do you know that 45 yo woman wasn't ball-busting? Get a skin care regiment and go after girls who like older men. Cast a wide net and they will make themselves known. One possible option is lying about your age and saying you're older.

You're right, it's possible the woman could have been ball-busting.

The context makes me think it's unlikely, however. Here's the context: She's an escort. When my age came up, she said she doesn't see men below 30 (this means I'm just barely old enough for her to see me). She said she never thought to ask my age ahead of time because it never occurred to her I could be anywhere even near 30; she thought I was her age.

I should mention we were already in bed when my age came up. She said if she suspects the guy might be under 30 (or just barely above 30), she asks for his age before getting into bed, just to make sure he's 30+

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

maybe the way you carry self drips a mature swag and females think you are older
green juice in the am and working out helps.
I take ashwagandha ksm-66 to keep my stress and cortisol levels balanced. When that is in check your face looks healthier

 

[forcerecon01]

Age is just a number

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You're right, it's possible the woman could have been ball-busting.

The context makes me think it's unlikely, however. Here's the context: She's an escort. When my age came up, she said she doesn't see men below 30 (this means I'm just barely old enough for her to see me). She said she never thought to ask my age ahead of time because it never occurred to her I could be anywhere even near 30; she thought I was her age.

I should mention we were already in bed when my age came up. She said if she suspects the guy might be under 30 (or just barely above 30), she asks for his age before getting into bed, just to make sure he's 30+

I wouldn't read too much into it if this is the only woman who has said this. Imo there's insecurity involved on her part, aside from being an escort, she's placing restrictions on who she phucks that aren't safety-related (i.e., "no black guys" that some escorts will do as a policy). There's no reason to do that unless she feels uneasy about her job, so this could be a manifestation of her unease.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

OP can you post a pic? Maybe there's something specific about you that could be fixed. I won't BS you and pretend that this doesn't matter.

Age is just a number

This is antithetical to his point, he's saying he looks older than his age. The disparity between biological age and actual age is pretty important actually and can say a lot about your physical health.

 

[forcerecon01]

OP can you post a pic? Maybe there's something specific about you that could be fixed. I won't BS you and pretend that this doesn't matter.


This is antithetical to his point, he's saying he looks older than his age. The disparity between biological age and actual age is pretty important actually and can say a lot about your physical health.

Let him post a pic then. Get to the root of the problem

 

[BillyPilgrim]

maybe the way you carry self drips a mature swag and females think you are older
green juice in the am and working out helps.
I take ashwagandha ksm-66 to keep my stress and cortisol levels balanced. When that is in check your face looks healthier

I have ashwagandha but I'm lazy about taking it and haven't been really able to isolate the effects. Does it help with sleep & relaxation? Or is it more energizing? I've heard both. What time of day do you take it?

 

[Bokanovsky]

You're right, it's possible the woman could have been ball-busting.

The context makes me think it's unlikely, however. Here's the context: She's an escort. When my age came up, she said she doesn't see men below 30 (this means I'm just barely old enough for her to see me). She said she never thought to ask my age ahead of time because it never occurred to her I could be anywhere even near 30; she thought I was her age.

I should mention we were already in bed when my age came up. She said if she suspects the guy might be under 30 (or just barely above 30), she asks for his age before getting into bed, just to make sure he's 30+

Wait what?? Why did you order a 45 y.o. hooker??? Please tell me it’s because you got a very good deal.

 

[jaygreenb]

On a recent post of mine, I recall some guys were reassuring me my age (early 30s) won't prevent me from being able to pull college-aged girls.

After yesterday, I'm beginning to develop doubts. The 45 year old woman I was with yesterday was shocked when I told her my age. She thought I was her age.

How realistic is it for a guy in my position (early 30s but look 45) to pull college-aged girls?

Depends, do you look like a well put together, fit, handsome 45 or just look old

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Wait what?? Why did you order a 45 y.o. hooker??? Please tell me it’s because you got a very good deal.

I would assume that and massive hooters

 

[GoodMan32]

maybe the way you carry self drips a mature swag and females think you are older
green juice in the am and working out helps.
I take ashwagandha ksm-66 to keep my stress and cortisol levels balanced. When that is in check your face looks healthier

The way I carry myself is a definite possibility. My clothing style is a possibility too. I dress older than my age.

 

[GoodMan32]

OP can you post a pic? Maybe there's something specific about you that could be fixed. I won't BS you and pretend that this doesn't matter.


This is antithetical to his point, he's saying he looks older than his age. The disparity between biological age and actual age is pretty important actually and can say a lot about your physical health.

For privacy reasons, I won't post a photo of myself on main. If this forum has a DM feature, I am willing to DM you a photo.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The way I carry myself is a definite possibility. My clothing style is a possibility too. I dress older than my age.

That can work if you can rock a vintage look, but don't dress like Dad.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

For privacy reasons, I won't post a photo of myself on main. If this forum has a DM feature, I am willing to DM you a photo.

It does.

 

[GoodMan32]

Wait what?? Why did you order a 45 y.o. hooker??? Please tell me it’s because you got a very good deal.

Multiple reasons.

In my experience, older escorts are better at the job than younger ones. When you're having sex with a woman who is only with you because you're paying her (as opposed to genuinely desiring you), you want the best experience possible.

I've had a condom slip off with an escort. I've also had a condom break with an escort. Those 2 instances scared me. The last thing I want is to get an escort pregnant. I don't want to get any woman pregnant for that matter. But an escort is someone you really don't want to impregnate. Yes, I'm aware 45 can still technically get pregnant. It's a lot less likely, however. Also, escorts are famous for lying about age. It's quite possible she's older than 45 (thus even less likely to get pregnant).

When it comes to unpaid women, I'm open to older or younger. The reasons outlined above are why I prefer older when it comes to escorts.

 

[GoodMan32]

I would assume that and massive hooters

I paid $300. Her hooters were big.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I paid $300. Her hooters were big.

What a B, paying her $300 and she can't bother being complimentary.