Who Should Initiate Sex Most Of The Time?

[TheEveningChronograph]

"Show me the monkey."

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Well, if it would make you view porn less, wouldn't it be worth it?

Porn is a cancer. I hate it. I mostly am able to avoid it. But. Once in a while I slip up.

 

[soulforge]

If she's coming to your place every Saturday for drinks and sex that's pretty high interest. You will usually have to escalate new girls at your place until they warm up a bit (could take weeks or months, she's in your home/frame). Some girls will jump your bones when they come over the first time, some girls are more reserved. I don't see why it's an issue unless she's not enjoying/putting effort into sex. She's actually making all the effort by coming to see you, just be forward with her.

Be honest, it's the same Russian from last year isn't it

It's not her, honestly man. This is a new girl, you could say a rebound from the Russian girl.

I know what the problem is. It's low interest.

She came over last night, we chilled for a bit, few drinks, she went and had a shower, ten minutes later she fell asleep on my sofa!

WTF! So after that we went to bedroom, and she seemed really tired, so I thought you know what, fuk this, and I just went to sleep.

I ain't going to try fuk a half asleep chick, she probably claim rapeee in the morning.

I get what everyone is saying. A man should persue for sex, but fukin hell the atleast should make a little effort.

Like right now, I feel Turned off by her, to the point where I don't want to fuk her.

In a few moments I will be making some excuses and sending her azz home!

 

[SargeMaximus]

Actually I'd fvck her ass and then make her turn around and taste it.

And she would be bringing drinks and other stuff...no women ever shows up to my place empty handed and that's without me even bringing it up.

Maybe you should find better quality women if they bring nothing.

You’ve mentioned anal a lot. How do you stand the smell? Any time I attempted the smell turned me right off

 

[soulforge]

You’ve mentioned anal a lot. How do you stand the smell? Any time I attempted the smell turned me right off

I am guessing he is very accustomed to the smell of azz lol

 

[member162951]

So last weekend I decided not to, just to see what would happen and nope she didn't initiate anything.
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That's not cool. When a chick is into you, she may not initiate directly but sure as hell will make it known she wants you to.

My girl rarely initiates directly but doesn't matter, she's all over me on any given day, can't keep her hands off me. That's how I know she wants sex and I will initiate. She's never said no.

There have been times when she's not as affectionate and that's cool, life happens. We all can't be *on* 100% of the time and it doesn't mean she's no longer into you or attracted.

I don't initiate at those times, I leave her alone, do my own thing and forget about sex. A few hours later, she'll be all over me again and game on.

You gotta be able to read women, understand their feminine natures and cycles and how they communicate their desires. You can't take it personally if she's not directly initiating like a man.

That's masculine, she's feminine. We're different.

If when you're with your girl, she sits there like a cold log, never shows you affection, no attempts to cuddle up with you, then dump her. She's not into you. Problem solved.

 

[SW15]

Would men be okay if she refused sex, but instead, offered free nudes? And for you to take photos of her, any position you want?

No. Sex or GTFO. Anything else is simp, weak beta behavior.

 

[Divorced w 3]

You’ve mentioned anal a lot. How do you stand the smell? Any time I attempted the smell turned me right off

Did it yesterday morning, no smell. Well worth trying imo.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You’ve mentioned anal a lot. How do you stand the smell? Any time I attempted the smell turned me right off

Maybe he cooks them chicken livers to cover the smell.

 

[NealIRC]

No. Sex or GTFO. Anything else is simp, weak beta behavior.

Hmm, let me specify. She offers sex - but doesn't take her clothes off. Only unzips pants to let the d in. Vs offering to send nudes. Then which is better?

 

[SW15]

Hmm, let me specify. She offers sex - but doesn't take her clothes off. Only unzips pants to let the d in. Vs offering to send nudes. Then which is better?

Sex but your situation is extremely unrealistic.