A question for the DayGame PUAs - what do think about this?

[MatureDJ]

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Leave out the "miss" and just go with "excuse me", and don't approach from behind

 

[SW15]

The woman who was shaking in her car from an approach in a parking lot near a store is a bit of mental case. Additionally, I think she's a single mom. I've done approaches in grocery store parking lots before. I got strong IOIs before doing so. They were decent approaches even the ones where a date was not offered.

I agree with Wheat Waffles that the man doing the approach in the parking lot was likely below average in looks.

In the second part of the video, a reasonably good looking guy under 25 approaches a woman under 25 in a mall with weak verbal game. He does manage to get her Instagram but he asked for her phone number first and didn't get it. It's likely a polite interaction that will ultimately go nowhere. I doubt he gets her out on a date. As a result, he won't bang her.

 

[inquisitor]

Honestly though, what info did we even have about the man? The dude just made a video as a tangent. We don't know what the man looked like, not even what he said. Might be creepy behavior from the dude or weak in social cues, at least that's what it seemed to the girl... but then again, the dude might just be a light annoyance and the girl had it all overblown. To add up to the stack, Wheat Waffles took all that she said literally (even the 30 feet sh*t), and went on a doom rant about one confusing clip. Add to that his confirmation bias screaming out. I mean, we already know looks is a factor. He just wants to hear what he wants to hear over and over again. His logic gates are retarded.

Too many possible facets in the clip that remains unresolved. Ugly people probably increase because of him lowering the self-esteem of some guys. Well, gets him money, still.

 

[ManlyMan]

Attention getting behavior by the girl or propaganda.

 

[IKO69]

The woman is clearly a nutter and probably (very likely) starved for attention. Her story sounds hokey af and is lololol worthy.

 

[SW15]

Non-bar approaching is one of the best options for men who want an alternative to tech-based date arranging options and who lack social circle options.

Non-bar approaching is better suited for finding extended relationships as compared to one night stands/casual sex. If a man desires some sort of extended, committed relationship and lacks social circle options, I'd generally recommend....

• Non-bar approaching
• The weeknight Happy Hour time frame at bars and other nightlife venues

Non-bar approaching is a bit of a declining practice. It's quite difficult to spark a conversation with a woman without alcohol involved or lacking the safety of being behind an electronic screen. More men want the comfort of being behind an electronic screen to start interactions, which is impacting both nightlife venues and the non-bar venues.

Some non-bar approaches are more difficult than others. Below would be how I would rate difficulty of venue for approaching from most difficult to least difficult

1. Outdoor options such as a park, walking/hiking path, or ordinary city streets
2. General gym floor (unless you are 6'0"+ with big muscles)
3. Indoor retail venues -- Some men find certain indoor retail venues easier than others, but they are all similar on difficulty. I have found the least difficult indoor retail venue to be the grocery store. Grocery store approaching is plenty difficult.
4. Fitness classes -- It's easy to spark up a conversation before or after class depending on the venue, though I find after class to be a little easier. Fitness classes solve the earbud problems seen commonly in Option 1 and Option 2 and you won't have to deal with a woman walking an impatient dog. The ratios are great. The biggest problem is that a lot of women won't be receptive to your opener, so a lot of openers will fall flat or their body language won't indicate receptivity to an approach so the approach won't happen.
5. Generalized community events - These are things like wine tastings (may or may not be inside a bar), apartment community organized socials, or other organized events.
6. Meetup.com groups and co-ed sports leagues. Meetup groups are generally trash and lower SMV women are there. As for co-ed sports leagues, this is borderline weak social circle game.

Many men try co-ed sports leagues as an alternative to swipe apps and approaching. Yes, it is easier to talk to a woman after a game in a co-ed sports league than it would be to talk to a random woman at the grocery store, mall, or a bar. As a result, many men think that this will be game on easy mode. When it is all said and done, most men are typically disappointed in the experience from a dating point of view.

It’s pretty difficult to swoop into a co-ed kickball, softball, volleyball, or soccer league & directly arrange dates. First, there are more men than women in all these leagues. Nearly every other guy in these leagues is an unattached guy who is trying to get his penis wet in league because he read some advice article online or in a printed copy of a magazine about doing this. The only exceptions are the men who join teams with their girlfriends or wives. You can make friends in these leagues but chances are that the other men need sex as much as you do. If you’re able to develop a social circle from a co-ed sports league, realize it will take multiple seasons of participation in the league. So you’d better actually like that sport because playing that sport is often the only benefit of it.

For the freaked out woman, the guy was doing a moderately difficult approach with an indoor retail venue with the added complexity of it being in the parking lot of it. The woman clearly overreacted but a lot of Millennial and Gen Z women (TikTok woman appeared to be Millennial) have worse social skills than previous generation. Approaching a 25-34 year old Gen X'er woman in 2003 would have been easier in an indoor retail venue than a 25-34 year old late Millennial/early Gen Z woman in 2023.

 

[SW15]

I think she's a single mom.

She mentioned she was a single mom. She also mentioned she was with her son.

I'm not sure what guy would approach a woman with her son in the parking lot of a typical grocery store or a Walmart/Target. That does reek of bad game, regardless of how good looking a guy is. I still agree with Wheat Waffles that the guy was below average looking.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

The woman is clearly a nutter and probably (very likely) starved for attention. Her story sounds hokey af and is lololol worthy.

If I was to take a stab at it, I am going to assume that this woman is Southern. She has Nashville written all over her. I know the type like this and am all too familiar with them. Probably the wannabe popular kid in high school putting on the fake Christian mask. Got knocked up young, saw her looks and status fade, and started being passive-aggressive and hostile towards the world as a result of all of this. I know we like to harp on feminists as being the worst kinds of women a man can encounter but I promise you, Jesus Karens (that's what I call Southern Trash women) are some of the worst women a man can encounter. They hide behind the Bible to excuse their crap behavior and not take any accountability for it.

Very likely, this chick is past her expiration date for any man with options but thanks to porn pushing the "Cougar" garbage and the quality of women in this country getting worse by the year, even this rotten post-wall fiend gets approached. It does not take much for these types to start acting like they are desirable if even one guy approaches them.

Just checked out TikTok, the kunt is married with a kid too. Seems like the prototypical clout chasing Jesus Karen.

Every passing year is going to be worse to her and you can bet that she will be more and more and more of a Karen as that happens.

I hope she doesn't "approach" normal people minding their own business.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

Parking lots with lots of people around (like after a ball game) = okay. Secluded or enclosed = Ted Bundy vibes. Literally how he snagged a couple of victims. I would not make parking lots part of my flight pattern. So even though she's super triggered I agree it's fukking weird to approach in a parking lot. If you can't handle flaming out in front of a crowd, game isn't for you.

 

[Jesse Pinkman]

When this unhinged hag gets old and starts being a Karen, I hope younger people yell at her "do not approach me".

 

[MatureDJ]

Parking lots with lots of people around (like after a ball game) = okay. Secluded or enclosed = Ted Bundy vibes.

Wait, let me use a more appropriate emoji here:

 

[MatureDJ]

When this unhinged hag gets old and starts being a Karen, I hope younger people yell at her "do not approach me".

I'd tap her now, that's for sure.

 

[SW15]

If I was to take a stab at it, I am going to assume that this woman is Southern. She has Nashville written all over her. I know the type like this and am all too familiar with them. Probably the wannabe popular kid in high school putting on the fake Christian mask. Got knocked up young, saw her looks and status fade, and started being passive-aggressive and hostile towards the world as a result of all of this. I know we like to harp on feminists as being the worst kinds of women a man can encounter but I promise you, Jesus Karens (that's what I call Southern Trash women) are some of the worst women a man can encounter. They hide behind the Bible to excuse their crap behavior and not take any accountability for it.

Your analysis here was superb.

I agree that she's Southern and this is likely from the Nashville area. I would not rule out that she's in either the Atlanta area or the Dallas area.

Very likely, this chick is past her expiration date for any man with options but thanks to porn pushing the "Cougar" garbage and the quality of women in this country getting worse by the year, even this rotten post-wall fiend gets approached. It does not take much for these types to start acting like they are desirable if even one guy approaches them.

I think your angle about the porn and "cougars" isn't the most applicable factor. The more applicable factor is there are more and more horny, thirsty 30s/40s single men who are vagina beggars. As a result, 30s/40s women are getting more prospects. This happens more so on the swipe apps but can happen in real life too.

Just checked out TikTok, the kunt is married with a kid too. Seems like the prototypical clout chasing Jesus Karen.

Every passing year is going to be worse to her and you can bet that she will be more and more and more of a Karen as that happens.

This is why checking for rings on the left hand prior to any indoor retail approach is a good thing. That has been a standard practice of mine in retail venues to avoid dealing with married woman. It is uncalibrated to approach any woman with a child, though some men might do this and hope they are approaching some single, childless aunt.

The guy was 30 feet away when he tried to 'approach' her, so there's no way he could have seen a wedding ring from that distance. It's also unknown if this was an actual approach.

I hope she doesn't "approach" normal people minding their own business.

I hope she never needs the help of a stranger in public.

Parking lots with lots of people around (like after a ball game) = okay.

This was a grocery store parking lot so it's okay.