"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Women tricking men with Makeup

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I always liked Kelly Ripa when she was young. But is older now.

Here is a picture of her with makeup and without makeup.


I cannot believe the difference. She looks good on the left and terrible on the right. There is no way a guy could do anything to make himself look so much better. Does makeup on a woman make that much of a difference?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well All actresses and TV personalities use professional level makeup, looking fine = big bucks, but hitting the wall is a completely different issue. Latest pics of 58 year old rarely seen Bridget Fonda :
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Well All actresses and TV personalities use professional level makeup, looking fine = big bucks, but hitting the wall is a completely different issue. Latest pics of 58 year old rarely seen Bridget Fonda :
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I found that pic hard believe. But I googled and that’s her alright.

shocking really
 

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Does makeup on a woman make that much of a difference?
Yes, it does.

I always liked Kelly Ripa when she was young. But is older now.

Here is a picture of her with makeup and without makeup.
Kelly Ripa is 52 now. She's always had a very good, petite physique. She's 5'2"-5'3" with a weight in the low 100s. She's not experienced weight gain since her 30s and she was pregnant 3 times between 1996-2003. That's an achievement.

Without makeup, Kelly Ripa looks like a woman with a good body but a very ordinary face. She was 50 years old at the time of that picture. A 50 year old woman walking through a mall or grocery store with a face without makeup would not stand out at all.

In the sexual marketplace, it wouldn't matter. She's 52 now and has been in the same relationship since 1995 and married since 1996. All 3 of her children are 18+ now (25, 21, and 20). She's likely to become a grandmother in the next few years.

For an ordinary person, having a 25+ year marriage and raising 3 children to legal adulthood is an achievement. In marriages started since the 1990s, it's rare to get married and raise children 2-3 to adulthood without getting divorced. There are also no publicly known reports of either of them having an affair.

Everything I mentioned in the last paragraph is even more impressive with both partners being famous and in show business. Both had high SMVs in the past, even if Kelly Ripa likely was always a makeup creation.

From an SMV standpoint, Kelly has very little but she's less likely to care with what appears to be a happy home life.
 

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The thing about the pic of Ripa is at least she hasn’t let herself get fat. I can deal with no makeup and the big change but there’s no excuse to flat out let yourself go and become a whale.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was Fonda's plumber. Her neighbor was Dwight Yoakum. <Just a fun fact.. I find it difficult to believe that is the same human. Speculating she just thought she was all that & a bag of chips, and everyone will love her no matter what because she's a star. The whole bag of chips, every day, took its toll. Sad.
 

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Well this is the reason imo a hb10 is nonexistent. Its always a hb5 with some fitness, tight clothes and make up on.

My "hb scale" is pretty specific tho. Petite, Persian/arabic feel, low bodycount, not too crazy, some azz, curly hair, light eyes, short and feminine, good style, friendly easygoing personality.

Good looks with a bad character means she can never surpass hb5 to me.
 

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I've dated quite a few women that don't wear that much makeup. The key is finding one that looks great after waking up in the morning: frazzled hair, slightly disoriented look... like they just got fooked. Natural.. Actually sexier than all dolled up the night before.
 

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Well All actresses and TV personalities use professional level makeup, looking fine = big bucks, but hitting the wall is a completely different issue. Latest pics of 58 year old rarely seen Bridget Fonda :
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She hasn't just hit The Wall; it had collapsed in on her from a major earthquake.

Her Aunt from Hanoi is still looking respectable for her age.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I always liked Kelly Ripa when she was young. But is older now.

Here is a picture of her with makeup and without makeup.


I cannot believe the difference. She looks good on the left and terrible on the right. There is no way a guy could do anything to make himself look so much better. Does makeup on a woman make that much of a difference?

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It can of they know how to apply it properly. So many women grossly overdo it tho and it looks terrible on them.

Like guys who wear too much cologne.
 

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I always liked Kelly Ripa when she was young. But is older now.

Here is a picture of her with makeup and without makeup.


I cannot believe the difference. She looks good on the left and terrible on the right. There is no way a guy could do anything to make himself look so much better. Does makeup on a woman make that much of a difference?

Thoughts?
There isn't a woman out there that doesn't look better with makeup than without. Yes it's huge, and the older they get the more they need. A few girls I've dated had faces that looked like 7's without makeup, and 9's with. They were very talented and spent a lot of time applying.

Women have been running diversions(makeup, shape/slim wear, push up bras, high heels)on us guys since the beginning of time and we keep falling for them. Lol
 

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This is exactly why I have no interest in women who wear makeup regularly.
 
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